nippz
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Damn Social Services
Posted: 11-09-04 12:26pm
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doing it ... Investigators came this
morning to my doing it house. It was damn
730 in the doing it morning and im so damn
pissed. They were asking about al again
and all this shiot. I was like.. We're
dropping everything we applied for and
they said "oh it doesnt matter we just
wanna verify that you werent raped".
no namers. I was not raped. I said it
293470379 times. Get it through your
doing it heads..
Seriously. I'm going back to new jersey
after I deliver to get away from these
people, and I dont even care if I have to
crash in al's place or not. Im not
staying in cali with these horrible people
on my ass. It's my buisness and I dont
want you in it.
How the hell do I make these fcktards go
away!?
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nippz
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Posted: 11-09-04 12:27pm
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Im sorry girls, lol I had to vent, you
know how scared I was before when they
were interviewing me about al. They even
said they were gonna get dna from the baby
and track him down!
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Nikki n Rudy
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Nov 2004
Posts: 642
Location: Fort Worth, Texas
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Posted: 11-09-04 12:30pm
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Im sorry for this ka. How old is al? I
believe that once they got their answers
the first time, they should have gone away
and not come around anymore. Some people
are just wanting to get more than they
need thinking they have a better case!
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hm_03
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Apr 2004
Posts: 483
Location: Massachusett
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Posted: 11-09-04 12:30pm
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Hey ka sorry about that but what happened
how did that all start????
Sometimes social services don't have any
thing better to do. They were going to
take my cousin's baby away from her.
That's just crazy.
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nippz
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Posted: 11-09-04 12:40pm
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I wrote the story a long time ago so I
think a lot of people dont remember..
But..
He's 18. He was 17 when he got me
pregnant though. I told them I didnt know
anything of him because I was afraid
they'd put him in jail, and they still
want more info on him.
Thats just a short story.
They said if they find out that I lied
they'll take my child away and put me in
jail.
But. Cali laws are different. So much
strict than nj. In nj if you have parents
consent, he wont go to jail. In cali,
even if you do, he will still go to
jail.
Damnit arnold.
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GuitarJade
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Oct 2004
Posts: 330
Location: Pennsylvania
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Posted: 11-09-04 12:41pm
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I know what you mean about social
services. Unfortunately there's nothing
you can do to get rid of them. It really
sucks. The government is
waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay to over
protective sometimes!!! Honestly, I think
that social services just tries to find
excuses to harass people! Ug. It'll be
ok. *hugs*
~sam
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hm_03
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Apr 2004
Posts: 483
Location: Massachusett
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Posted: 11-09-04 12:46pm
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Gosh I can't believe that and it's because
you are under age right?? How did they
find out about that did someone tell them
or something???
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nippz
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Posted: 11-09-04 12:50pm
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I guess it's cuz im underage. They knew I
was underage 'cuz we applied for
foodstamps/cashaid but now we're dropping
it because they're on our @$$!
I never even got one check yet for
foodstamps/cashaid and we're already
dropping it. 'cuz they can't stay out of
our damn buissnesses. I hope they go away
already when we drop it.
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hm_03
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Apr 2004
Posts: 483
Location: Massachusett
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Posted: 11-09-04 12:55pm
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Are you serious they are that strict. I
can't believe it and you did apply for
that on your own right with out adding his
name. So now they are up in your business
like that. I don't think it's like that
over here.
How about wic did you do that I know you
said or were trying to get it or something
what happened with that.
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adormer221
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Sep 2003
Posts: 309
Location: colorado
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Posted: 11-09-04 12:56pm
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Oh man im sorry this happened to you
hunny-----yea how do they even know that
your pregnant? And that he is the one who
got you pregnant? I am sure you posted
the whole story somewhere in here but I
cant go through all your post's...Lol you
have so many! But so what is the verdict
what ended up happening? Were you home
alone? By the way how's your mom doing?
We are still praying for you and your
family me and ryan went to church sunday
as a matter of fact and your name is still
on the chain list and that gets to alott
of churches soooo with enough prayers god
will listen!!! Just to make you feel
better k
ash
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nippz
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Posted: 11-09-04 13:02pm
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I didn't add his name or anything! They
just barged in and asked! I applied w/ my
aunt since she's my legal gaurdian since
i'm not 18 and I can't apply for myself.
The wic, I haven't applied yet. Im too
scared now.
They know im pregnant 'cuz I checked the
pregnant box on the applicant when I was
applying for cashaid/foodstamps. He's the
one who did get me preggo, if you want
i'll try to find the post and bump it up
for you.
So this is like the second interview
already.. The first one they asked his
height ..Weight.. Just everything. I
replied " I dont know" .
I'll just bump up the bost for you (:
thank you so much for keeping my family's
name on the prayer chain list, I
appreciate it so much! My mom is still
taking her radiation and now we just found
out she has some liquid in her back? And
they neeed to train it. Her chemo, is
still depending. I hope she gets better
soon and all this medication crap is just
not making her worst 
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nippz
Extremely EHEALTHy
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Posted: 11-09-04 13:04pm
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Ok girls I bumped it up. It's titled
"scared"
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hm_03
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Apr 2004
Posts: 483
Location: Massachusett
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Posted: 11-09-04 13:10pm
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Hey sorry about your mom I did not know
she was sick. I really pray she gets
better. I know how it is when you get all
worried about your mommy. My mom had to
get her disk on her back a piece removed
because it was affecting her nerves going
down her leg. She is okay but her leg
still goes numb sometimes. I get worried
for her. Keep praying and have faith.
I'll light a candle for her when I go to
church sunday. I won't forget.
I just don't understand why they would
investigate him when you are not like
applying for child support or something.
You are just getting benefits for you and
the baby. And it's not like your filing
anything against him
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nippz
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Posted: 11-09-04 13:11pm
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| hm_03
wrote: | my mom had to get her disk
on her back a piece removed because it was
affecting her nerves going down her leg.
She is okay but her leg still goes numb
sometimes.
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same here! That's why she's getting a
radiation. And she has another tumor in
her neck ;\
thank you so much hun, your mommy is my
prayers, too.
I know! I dont understand why they need
him ;\
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hm_03
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Posts: 483
Location: Massachusett
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Posted: 11-09-04 13:19pm
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Did you ask them that because I don't
understand either.
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LaDybUglOve
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Oct 2004
Posts: 172
Location: MIAMI, FLORIDA
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Posted: 11-09-04 13:27pm
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Hey ka, what about people who have no clue
who the father is ... what r they suppose
to say ?? Maybe you should try saying it
was a one night stand lol and u dont know
the guy ... Maybe then theyll leave u
alone !
I hope they get off your case already and
give yah what u need  does darn peopl can
be soo annoying
<3 yah
stephanie
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lilmama2b_oct04
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Mar 2004
Posts: 1970
Location: Wisconsin
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Posted: 11-09-04 13:32pm
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They want him so they can take money out
of his taxes for you getting help from the
state for you and your baby. They are
.G.R.E.E.D.Y mofos.
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lilmama2b_oct04
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Posts: 1970
Location: Wisconsin
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Posted: 11-09-04 13:39pm
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Oh yea, the reason why I cancled my badger
care (health insurance that I got through
the state) is because all they did was
make me pay what the hopsital would have
made the state pay, and then without
interest.... Which is bull... My mom has
health insurance on me and brooklyn, and
they would have taken a big chunk of money
out of kevins taxes... Also, since me and
kevin are getting foodstamps, we are being
referred to child support, even though we
live together, and they know we live
together, and they know I dont want child
support. I think that once you start
getting help from the state, all they want
to do is bug the hell out of you, and I
think that even though they are helping
you out, they are finding a way to get
your money.
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hm_03
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Apr 2004
Posts: 483
Location: Massachusett
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Posted: 11-09-04 14:13pm
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Oh my gosh I can't believe all this i'm
hearing.
It's that bad huh? I don't understand
what's up with that why they are making it
so hard to get help.
Maybe they just try to make it hard so
you don't have to get the help.
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amandaclare
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Oct 2004
Posts: 164
Location: alabama
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Posted: 11-09-04 15:41pm
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Im sorry that youre going through all
this. Im not on foodstamps, but I get wic
and theyve never once asked me the
father's name, so you should still get
wic...Its not lots of stuff, but it
definitely helps out a lot on the grocery
bill. You can get cereal, juice, milk,
cheese, peanut butter and eggs. Maybe
more I cant remember. But all they care
about is keeping the baby healthy, I dont
think they even care who the father is.
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