Let me just tell you my story, which since
you are asking hopefully will really help
you, because no one could tell me anything
I knew it all. I got married when I was
18 in college. My husband is 7 years
older so he was way ahead of me in the
arena. Everything was going great until
I got 'tired' of going to school.
Then, three years later I decided to go
back. That's when life really kicked
in. My husband was laid off in
april(thankfully with an awesome severence
package), we had insurance until
september. In october he was bit by a
dog which sent us to the er and a week
after that I found out I was pregnant.
He finally found a new job, but we
couldn't get insurance until november.
I was really panicking since it was my
first pregnancy and all the other stress
we were dealing with.
Anyway, everything worked out fine with
job & baby, but I couldn't deal with
school and working so I dropped out again.
I had something called an iud inserted
for birth control. It should have
lasted up to ten years, but baby #2 came
20 months after the first and I am going
crazy. I am 24 with two babies and I
drive a minivan!!!!!

I
love my life and don't want to live it
full of regret, but let me just tell you
be careful. I have been married now for
6 years and I love it. Get married, but
finish school and make sure you spend lots
of time with your man before kids.
Everyone is different and you might love
it if you had kids now, but you don't know
until it happens.
Sorry it's so long