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Dancinchick0587
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Oct 2004
Posts: 211
Location: Blaine, Mn
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In Tears....
Posted: 11-09-04 21:43pm
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GuitarJade
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Oct 2004
Posts: 330
Location: Pennsylvania
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Posted: 11-09-04 21:49pm
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Oh honey. *hugs* first off, you should
probably tell him (he has a right to
know). Secondly, you probably shouldn't
be playing basketball while pregnant. And
thirdly, guys suck. Love hurts, doesn't
it? I know what you mean about wanting to
curl up and die... It's like being shot
in the heart without a way for it to heal.
There's no surgery or remedy... Only
time. Life has a funny way of teaching us
lessons that we don't want to learn...
But unforunately, we have to. I'm here
for you girl. *hugs*
~sam
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cherriegurl
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jul 2004
Posts: 1218
Location: Washington state
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Posted: 11-09-04 21:52pm
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No u probably shouldnt be playing basket
ball. But im so sorry for all of the
other stuff going in ur life.
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Dancinchick0587
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Oct 2004
Posts: 211
Location: Blaine, Mn
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Posted: 11-09-04 21:59pm
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Im scared 2 tell him because we have had a
miscarriage in the past. So I wanna wait
for awhile. Is a bad 2 play basketball
while pregnant? Im not that far along.
"take me fast lord or take me slow,
i dont really care how I go,
in the daylight or in the dark?
But pls dont let me die from a broken
heart"
thats from a song and thats how I feel
right now. My heart is really breaking.
It hurts to breath, and when he told me.
I pretended I was happy...... That was so
hard 2 do.
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Michelle1337
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Aug 2004
Posts: 1739
Location: Houston, Texas
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Posted: 11-09-04 23:31pm
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Hey, I played summer league basketball
while I was pregnant. And summer league
is like, the down and dirty, rough and
tough stuff. Not just you rnormal
everyday basketball...And as far as we
know my baby is perfectly fine and so am
i! So yeah, not recomended...But I dont
think it will kill you.
I'm sorry to hear about paul...You need to
tell him! Good luck!
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Dancinchick0587
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Oct 2004
Posts: 211
Location: Blaine, Mn
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Posted: 11-09-04 23:44pm
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Ok well playing basketball today was
awesome just what I needed. But I just
cant tell paul... I just...I cant. Hes
gonna be happy with this new girl. I need
2 get out of his life. I dont think im
gonna ever tell him. I want him 2 be
happy and have a good life.
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babyrae
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004
Posts: 2957
Location: Manitoba, Canada
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Posted: 11-09-04 23:53pm
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Last edited by babyrae on 01-29-06 15:51pm; edited 1 time in total
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smith8500
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Posted: 11-09-04 23:53pm
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I know the pain you feel when you see him
with another girl. I don't know what you
can tell him. Just try talking to him.
Love,
chanda
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IDABABY
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Joined: 12 Mar 2004
Posts: 2236
Location: ***Wisconsin Baby***
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Posted: 11-09-04 23:59pm
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No way, that is a good way to lose your
baby, having a the ball hit into your
stomach extremely hard. Ouchie, and you
need to tell him!
Kristin
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Dancinchick0587
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Oct 2004
Posts: 211
Location: Blaine, Mn
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Posted: 11-10-04 00:22am
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Could I really loose my baby if I was hit
hard in the stomach??
Would it be wrong of me 2 never tell him.
I know if he knew...... He would probley
wanna get back together and if not that he
would want 2 be there for sure and I just
feel like...... I dont really know.
I wish I could just stop loving him and
stop caring. I want 2 soooooooooooooooooo
bad! I mean like when we say goodbye, he
always gives me a big hug and a kiss on
the check (which I never give him back)
but its really hard. I cant wait 2 start
college. It will take my mind hopefully
away from paul and, and start thinking
about something else.
Is it weird that im already talking to my
baby? Even though im only a few weeks
(from conception date). I dont know it
feels like me and my baby are a team. Lol
im such a dork.
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IDABABY
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2004
Posts: 2236
Location: ***Wisconsin Baby***
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Posted: 11-10-04 00:24am
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Yes you can!!! I am not even kidding...
Nope, not weird at all. I talked to my
baby the first day when the blood test
confirmed it and when the pink lines
showed up!!
Kristin
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nippz
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2004
Posts: 2173
Location: ,
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Posted: 11-10-04 01:38am
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Why, are you planning on hitting urself in
the tummmy? Dont do it!
And about the ex thing, if he is your
baby's daddy you .N.E.E.D. To tell him!
Who cares if he has a girlfriend or not,
he's the father, he needs to give you
support to both you and your child!! Tell
him kindra.
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LaDybUglOve
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Oct 2004
Posts: 172
Location: MIAMI, FLORIDA
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Posted: 11-10-04 02:17am
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Hii I really dont know u but I think u
should tell the daddy.... You should try
to put yourself in his position and see
what it would feel like to have some one
keep something that big and serious from
you.. And also think of your baby....
How will you feel later on in life knowing
he/she could have had a father stick
around (atleast) and support him/her in
their every move along with your support.
Being a single parent isnt bad, dont get
me wrong thats not what I am saying b.U.T
I really do think everything would be alot
better with both parent aware that they
are in deed parents :-\
hun I wish yah the best and only the best
wih everything b.U.T please think about
what your going to do very good.
If yah need anyone to talk to pm me 
<3 stephanie
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brittany34
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Nov 2004
Posts: 33
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Posted: 11-10-04 09:27am
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I was a competitive dancer when I first
got pregnant and even after doing hard
falls and jumps onto the floor, kayla
turned out just fine. Believe it or not,
your baby will be fine. I even got into
a car wreck and my doc told me "babies
have their own state of the art shock
abosorbance system" so that's cool.
Sorry about all the problems though
sweetie!
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samismama
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Sep 2004
Posts: 824
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Posted: 11-10-04 09:30am
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I think it depends how far along u r, if
the development is over... Then the baby
is fine pretty much anything u do
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hm_03
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Apr 2004
Posts: 483
Location: Massachusett
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Posted: 11-10-04 11:47am
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I don't think it's safe to be playing hard
basketball or getting hurt because these
are the most delicate stage in pregnancy
and you could get a miscarriage again.
I'm sure you don't want that.
You should let him know regardless if he
has a girl it's really not fair for him to
be kept from a secret that is part of him
too.
You have to take care of yourself while
you are pregnant. It would be best to let
him know and then you two can go from
there.
Good luck and let us know what happened
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CAMAROGIRL82
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Aug 2004
Posts: 96
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Posted: 11-10-04 11:53am
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I wont play basket ball, I whould be
worried it might hurt the baby, and guys
suck, but if you need someone to talk to
you can talk to me right know I am going
through stuff with my boyfriend or
whatever he is (not sure he wont tell me)
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Dancinchick0587
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Oct 2004
Posts: 211
Location: Blaine, Mn
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Thanks Guys!
Posted: 11-11-04 01:51am
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You guys are right, I need to tell him but
im gonna wait until I know that I dont
have another miscarriage. Oh and with
playing basketball im so sore today that
im never gonna do that again! Well and
the high tomorrow is supposed 2 be like 35
out side so thats way to cold to be
playing basketball.
As for telling paul about the hole new
girlfriend thing. Im gonna let him work
it out on his own. His best friend told
me that he got angie (new girl) to make me
jealous. So im not sure what his problem
is. Im just keeping myself busy with work
and not dealing with it right now
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LaurensEntourage
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Sep 2004
Posts: 1302
Location: Austin, Texas
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Posted: 11-11-04 02:14am
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If I were you i'd be extremely careful and
treat myself as high risk, since you've
had a miscarriage in the past. Amniotic
fluid is good for protecting the baby and
even though you'd probably be fine, i'd be
extra careful.
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