Hi, i'm daile. I think telling him is
the right thing to do, but please, please,
please make sure that there are some big,
strong guys around to beat the crap out of
him if he tries to hurt you. I know most
people think he's bs'ing and wouldn't
really do it, but i've been there, and I
know my ex would have without a second
thought. So when you tell him, make sure
he can't get close enough to hurt you.
Congrats on the pregnancy, though, and I
hope it all goes well!