Joined: 18 Nov 2004 Posts: 1797 Location: Upper Midwest
Posted: 11-22-04 00:54am
confused1001
wrote:
thanks again to all for your
support.
the main thing is that
you worked it out toghther. That means
that this was the right decision for the
two of you, which is a very strong
starting point.
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Izzy
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Oct 2004 Posts: 883 Location: Earth
Posted: 11-22-04 10:59am
I am so very pleased everything went ok
for your girlfriend and there are no
adverse effects...
Note of warning pas can occure several
years after the abortion, please keep an
eye on your girlfriend for signs of the
symptoms.
Good luck with the future!
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steen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Nov 2004 Posts: 1797 Location: Upper Midwest
Posted: 11-22-04 14:00pm
Izzy, please don't try to scare people
with ficticious disorders.
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jenn_smithson
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Nov 2004 Posts: 808 Location: Texas
Posted: 11-22-04 21:40pm
It's been a whole year since my abortion
and I have never once felt anything but
relief. Since you came to this decision
together, knew it was the right thing, and
have stood by eachother, I don't think
you'll have any problems. Obtaining an
abortion shows that you have successfully
coped with a personal crises and are, in
fact, already healing. The real crises
is the unplanned pregnancy itself, not the
abortion. I'm so happy that the
procedure went well and that you were able
to support eachother. With my abortion,
my husband's unwavering support was such a
wonderful comfort that I appreciate to
this day. I know that your girlfriend
appreciates all of your support too.
Again, if you need to talk to someone who
does not, has never, and will never regret
their abortion, feel free to e-mail me.
I will not judge, condemn, or ask you to
ask for forgiveness because you've both
done nothing wrong. From what you've
said, I think you're both going to be just
fine. Support eachother, communicate,
and remember that you love eachother and
you'll do just fine.
Peace and love,
jenn
