Well ever since I was little I have always
had problems..With depression and such.
Finding guys has always been easy for me,
but they have never treated me right.
About 4 months ago I got out of this
horrible relationship I was in with a guy
for a year that I fell in love with and
lost my virginity too. I am now with this
guy that has liked me for about 3 years
now and I have liked him. We have been
together about 2 months now and I have
strong feelings for him. He is the most
amazing sweetest person I have ever met.
But the problem is, I get soo easily
irritated with him sometimes, where I just
wanna give up over the stupidest things.
And argueing with him and hearing him cry
makes me feel better, why I dont know, but
it just does. Whats wrong with me?!
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
Not a Good Sign... Posted: 10-15-03 18:56pm
This is supposed to be the fun and easy
time. If you are arguing this early on,
most likely things aren't going to work
out. Sex probably wasn't a good thing
either...It could actually make matters
worse. Even though he has liked you for
3 yrs, you haven't been together for 3
yrs. Most likely you should sit down and
see y the 2 of you are together. Work
things out if poss, but if this convo
turns into an arguement, let it go. Your
young and should be having the time of
your life. However, arguing is normal,
if it's not all the time. However your
the one in the situation so make the
decision that is right for you.
Good luck and best wishes,
jennifer
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 10-16-03 10:59am
Maybe you have to realize how other guys
treated you and compare them and realize,
why are you getting annoyed with this
petty stuff? Or what is the real problem?
Is it the petty stuff or do you want to
be with someone else? This guy treats you
better so you should realize it. But
maybe hold off on sex for a little bit.
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badfish_2
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Oct 2003 Posts: 5 Location: galesburg il.
Wow..... Posted: 10-29-03 12:10pm
I was this girl for 3 years and even
started oyr own family(our son jut turned
2)anywho this was a terrable
relationship,i tried to kill myself twice
over her and now I suffer from a lot of
hang ups from her,please do me a favor
really think of what it is you want out of
this relationship and way the pros and
cons,hunny,just cause he doesnt beat you
or treat you like crap doesnt make him the
one for you.Do some soul serching and put
alot of time into this decision before you
end up pregnant.
