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CAMAROGIRL82
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Aug 2004
Posts: 96
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Help Please *crying*
Posted: 11-10-04 11:38am
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I am so confused and hurt I dont want to
hurt anymore. I just want him to love me
and to hear him say it. But his stupid
ass wont. I want to leave, but then I
dont I dont have the strength to do this.
I need help. I cant handle this
anymore. I am so tired of it
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IDABABY
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2004
Posts: 2236
Location: ***Wisconsin Baby***
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Posted: 11-10-04 11:39am
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You deserve so much better girlie!! Dont
cry sweetie, everything will be
okay...Really...I dont know what to tell
you...Hopefully things work out for the
two of you.
Kristin
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Heathergirl
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Oct 2004
Posts: 719
Location: Michigan
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Posted: 11-10-04 11:40am
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I was in a relationship where the man I
was seeing actually came to my bed ( I was
at a party) with another girl while I was
in it.....But still........I didnt want to
leave him bc I couldn't picture being
without him. But he left anyway, and now
I have found true love.......Go with your
heart and your head girlie....And do what
is best for you
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CAMAROGIRL82
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Aug 2004
Posts: 96
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Posted: 11-10-04 11:44am
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Thank girlies, I really want things to
work but it done seem that he wants them
to. If he doesnt want to be with me, I
hope I cant build enough strength to get
through this. And I dont want to be the
one to tell her daddys leaving. She is
so fond of him. I dont want to see her
hurt. Anytime he leaves for work or out
with his friends, she asks him to kiss her
cheak when he gets in.
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mommax3
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Nov 2004
Posts: 1134
Location: Virginia
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Posted: 11-10-04 11:49am
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| heathergirl
wrote: | | i was in a relationship
where the man I was seeing actually came
to my bed ( I was at a party) with another
girl while I was in it.....But
still........I didnt want to leave him bc
I couldn't picture being without him.
But he left anyway, and now I have found
true love.......Go with your heart and
your head girlie....And do what is best
for you |
wow, that is harsh, glad you didn;t let
you wreck your view of the opposite sex
and you found love
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hm_03
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Apr 2004
Posts: 483
Location: Massachusett
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Posted: 11-10-04 12:00pm
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If he doesn't want to appreciate you then
why do you have to bare it. You have to
be strong and understand that you should
no longer be hurting.
It's hard when there is a kid involved but
you have to understand that you are not
happy and he is not making it any
better.
It won't be easy but you have to be
strong for yourself and your daughter.
I wish you the best and you will find
that special someone it takes time but it
will come to you.
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GuitarJade
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Oct 2004
Posts: 330
Location: Pennsylvania
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Posted: 11-10-04 12:22pm
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Men suck... I think we all know that! I
wish I knew what to tell you honey, but I
don't. Just keep your chin up...
Everything will work out somehow. *hugs*
~sam
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babyrae
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004
Posts: 2957
Location: Manitoba, Canada
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Posted: 11-10-04 12:43pm
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Whoa heathergirl! Thats so
disrespectful!!! He sounds like he was
such an ass!
Camaro, if hes not treating u right, dont
stay with him. Your child doesn't want to
see u sad all the time and in pain from
what hes doing to you. Leave while u can,
it'll help u to appreciate what you got
shauna
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mom2bn05
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Nov 2004
Posts: 50
Location: Atlanta
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Posted: 11-10-04 14:41pm
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My only advice is you gotta think about
you and your little one. Little ones can
pick up on a lot more then we realize and
she's seeing you hurt and when she gets
older whether she or you realize it or not
now she will think it is ok to be treated
badly and put up with it. Think about if
a guy was treating your little one like he
is you - how would you deal with it you
would be upset and try to get her away
from the hurt - well have the same love
and respect for yourself and try to pull
yourself away from the hurt...
Krissee
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004
Posts: 3572
Location: Jersey Baby!
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Posted: 11-10-04 15:49pm
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Aw girl im sorry. It may seem impossible
but you can do it without him
<3
gaby
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LHSbabe0207
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Oct 2004
Posts: 632
Location: Louisiana girl!!!
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Posted: 11-10-04 17:20pm
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Aww im so sorry hun!!! Everything will be
ok! Seems impossible like gaby said...But
its worth trying! 
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nippz
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2004
Posts: 2173
Location: ,
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Posted: 11-10-04 17:22pm
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| bellax0x
wrote: | aw girl im sorry. It may
seem impossible but you can do it without
him
<3
gaby |
gaby's right, you can do it without him.
You don't need a man to make you happy.
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Daile
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Oct 2004
Posts: 319
Location: Missouri
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Posted: 11-11-04 03:41am
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I'm sorry hun, but you need to think about
your little girl. She might love her
daddy, and she'd miss him if you leave,
but if you stay and are miserable it won't
help her. Someday she'll realize that you
only stayed because of her, and she'll
feel like it's her fault you're so sad.
You don't want your little one having to
deal with that kind of guilt!
Daile
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