Annoying Your Partner

Well this is somthing pretty bad but whatever.. I always lie about what im feeling. I cant tell him im upset or why im upset, idk I just cant.. I was never able to talk about my emotions face to face. If im upset its soo hard for me to tell ppl why im upset. And he gets mad bc he wants to make me happy but cant if I dont tell him whats wrong. And eventually he gest really mad at me for it and it makes me feel worse

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gaby

Awww gaby... Makes sense tho.. I agree that sometimes it's really hard to tell someone exactly why you're upset. I sometimes have trouble telling hubby what's wrong too.. Instead of lying I just tell him that I need a few mins to calm down and that i'll explain it after that... That way u get extra time to work out in your head how to explain things

Im so sorry gaby!!! Me and peyton are the same!! I cant tell peyton about my emotional life even if he makes it hard on me sometimes.. He gets mad also.. But he stays mad bcuz I never tell him

I'm the same way gaby......I can never tell mitch how i'm feeling......I just get upset and cry, lol......And then I email him and it upsets him that we live together but I can't talk to his face. We do sooooooooo much that annoys the other person........We are complete total 100% opposites.......I get so into politics and i'm hard on people with different views......I'm sorry, I admit it.....He gets angry over stupid stuff, like print on the windows of peoples car.....It angers him off.....He is judgemental of poor people, I am judgemental of rich people (kinda......I just think they're funny. Like, I survived off of big (odd ) lots, and save-a-lots, and he didn't even know what they were.) I tell my mom everything....Including about my sex life......And most of my female family, we're very very close.....And he thinks his parents don't know we're having sex.......And it bothers him that I know that they do.....He makes fun of me for being southern....And I think he is too yankyish. Lol. Like today, I made fried potatos, and he ridiculed me for sayin, fried tators, instead of "american fries". Yea! But we get through it all bc we are soooooooo in love it isn't funny. He annoys and angers the fck out of me.......And I with him....But oh well. We get through it.

And another thing is my horrible self esteem issues, I get so jealous when he hangs out with his friends bc then I feel like im not good enough anymore (it was just me nad him everyday for about a year then around 11 mo. He wanted to start hangin out with his friends).. So I feel like theres something wrong with me. But when he asks me if its ok to hang out with them ill just say whatever I dont care bc otherwise ill feel selfish.. God .. I dont like myself anymore lol

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gaby

And they say that guys are all macho about their feelings! I know that I have problems expressing myself... But that's because I have pretty low self-esteem. But the good news is, i'm getting better! I don't know why society says that girls are all open and gushy about their feelings... I know just as many girls who are open about their feelings as guys! And that's one of the reasons that I feel so comfortable here... I feel like I can say anything (or just about anything) and you guys will be ok with it! :d

~sam

When I throw a fit for him to spend the night every night, hehe but I love him!
Kristin

My bf gets pissed cause I "don't talk enough" on the phone...Like, he called me every single night, knowing that I don't do anything but go to class. I don't know what he expects me to talk about, because he doesn't want to hear about my classes.

It's all cool, though, cause he angers me off sometimes, too, so we just argue, then get over it. I don't even worry about it anymore. I figure if I do something too bad, he'll let me know.

Daile

Haahh I flat out just give paul headaches but he loves me