Im on ortho tri cyclen lo (2 yrs) &
take them every day same time.
The last time I had sex was sept. 6 &
my fiance used a spermicidal lubricated
condom, along w/the fact that he has a
rare condition of pituitary/thyroid
disease, where his endo. Doesnt think he
can have kids w/out the help of meds.
I havent had sex since then but we have
fooled around (i.E. Dry humping, where
one of us had our underwear on at one
point or another) *sorry to be gross* one
of those times I was on antibiotics.
When he ejaculated, he never did it near
my vagina (that im aware of). Is it
possible to get pregnant w/out having sex,
esp. In my situation?
I had a blood preg. Test done oct.21 and
it came back neg. Like I said, I havent
had sex since sept. 6, but have fooled
around since then. Im due for my period
next week, and have been feeling weird
this week. Different pms symptoms. I
got my swollen and sore breasts on time,
like I normally do. But I have recently
started taking xanax xr for anxiety which
make me tired. I also dont really have
an appetite like I do the week before my
period, but loss of appetite is a side
effect of xanax. I feel tired (normally
do), but my stomach has been bothering me
a lot (moving bowels a lot) and I have
been feeling nauseous on and off,
depressed and more anxious (even though im
on xanax), moody on and of, bachache, etc.
Do you think this is just a combo of
things?
Like i've said I take my pills on time
every day, used condom last time we had
sex (sept.6), and fiance' has physical
problem. Im also curious as to whether I
took the blood test too soon. Even if I
so happend to get preg. On oct. 8, would
it have shown up in the oct.21 test?
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wajldc
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Nov 2004 Posts: 47 Location: Maryland
Posted: 11-11-04 15:41pm
From what people have been telling me on
here blood tests are very accurate.
I'm experiencing some similar problems.
For example, I have protected sex but I am
not getting my period (it's never on time
though), my stomach is killing me and I
just feel sick in general.
Anyway, I got my blood test done almost
five weeks after I think I conceived.
Mine was negative as well.
Have you taken any hpt's?
I doubt you are pregnant if you are as
careful as you say you are.
Btw do you use the pull out method along
with condoms? Do you ever check the
condoms for holes?
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JAR81
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Nov 2004 Posts: 65
Posted: 11-11-04 16:24pm
No we dont usually use the pull out method
when using condoms. Sometimes (not be
gross) he orgasisms in me, but usually I
make him pull out. I think thats what he
did last time. We dont really check for
holes, but he never notices anything
coming out from the bottom when he takes
it off. Plus im on birth control pills
and he "supposedly" isnt supposed to be
able to have kids or isnt very fertile, so
I hope (cross fingers right now), that we
would have to have completely unprotected
sex.
Ive had 2 periods since the last time we
had sex (sept.6), and doctors said I
shouldnt be preg. And if I did conceive
then, it would be almost 2 months and I
havent gained any weight (that I know of),
and after my periods my breast swelling
and tenderness go away (well the
tenderness goes away for about a week or
so).
Ive talked to ppl and they say its almost
impossible for me to get preg. W/out
having sex because of my fiance's
condition and bcp.
I hope their right
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wajldc
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Nov 2004 Posts: 47 Location: Maryland
Posted: 11-11-04 17:37pm
jar81
wrote:
no we dont usually use the
pull out method when using condoms.
Sometimes (not be gross) he orgasisms in
me, but usually I make him pull out. I
think thats what he did last time. We
dont really check for holes, but he never
notices anything coming out from the
bottom when he takes it off. Plus im on
birth control pills and he "supposedly"
isnt supposed to be able to have kids or
isnt very fertile, so I hope (cross
fingers right now), that we would have to
have completely unprotected sex.
Ive had 2 periods since the last time we
had sex (sept.6), and doctors said I
shouldnt be preg. And if I did conceive
then, it would be almost 2 months and I
havent gained any weight (that I know of),
and after my periods my breast swelling
and tenderness go away (well the
tenderness goes away for about a week or
so).
Ive talked to ppl and they say its almost
impossible for me to get preg. W/out
having sex because of my fiance's
condition and bcp.
I hope their
right
oh yeah.. I'm willing to bet a lot you
are not pregnant. Birthcontrol, two
periods and doctors saying your not...
The odds for you being pregnant are
basically none. I have heard of people
bleeding during pregnancy but if a doctor
has actually said you aren't then the
chances are extremely slim. Then you got
a blood test right?