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blairestb514
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Nov 2004 Posts: 16
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Posted: 11-12-04 23:00pm
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Gosh. Wow. I'm so sorry to hear that.
North-easern nc. That was my first time
having sex. So u say I wouldn't be
showing any signs yet, so u think it's
just nerves then?
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samismama
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Sep 2004 Posts: 824
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Posted: 11-13-04 01:35am
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Nikki I have to agree
heather im so sorry girlie 'member im
always here if u need to talk, I know what
u mean about blocking it out, cept I never
blocked it out I just ignore it until I
have an awful dream and then I breakdown
for a few days
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LaurensEntourage
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Sep 2004 Posts: 1302 Location: Austin, Texas
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Posted: 11-13-04 02:08am
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I don't think that there's a 99.9% chance
that you're pregnant, and don't freak out
about being pregnant yet, you have enough
to worry about. If your period doesn't
show when it's suppoesed to (stress can
make this happen) then go to the store and
buy a store brand pregnancy test, they're
less than five dollars and 99% accurate.
Just be sure to read the instructions and
follow them carefully.
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blairestb514
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Nov 2004 Posts: 16
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Posted: 11-13-04 08:51am
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Ok thanks guys. I'll calm down and not
freak out, so I can deal w/ this and be
calmly cautious. Thanks again for all of
your help. I know I say that a lot but
i'm really thankful. 
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butterfly383
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Nov 2004 Posts: 1
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Posted: 11-13-04 12:30pm
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Would her chances of being pregnant change
if he pulled out instead of cum in? Just
curious b/c I know nothing about this
stuff
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Heathergirl
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Oct 2004 Posts: 719 Location: Michigan
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Posted: 11-13-04 12:41pm
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Samismama, hey girlie.....I'm over the
whole deal now......It's my sister who i'm
worried about bc the family kinda just
ignored it and the uncle still comes to
all the family events and everything, and
it is the most uncomfortable thing in the
world....I was just relieved for the
dreams to stop......I used to sit in the
bath tub and cry bc I thought I had been
raped at a younger age but I didn't know
why I thought this and I didn't know who
or when......It was just a feeling. And
I guess it was because I had witnessed all
of that. And so my mom asked him if he
had ever done to me what he did to my
sister when she was nine, and he said no.
So as far as I know, he was telling the
truth and the feelings/dreams came from
seeing all of that. And i'm sorry that
bad things happened to you when you were
younger......But from your posts I know
that you are a different person in a
different time and you also have been able
to move on and better your situation and
for this I completely 100% applaud
you.......And now you're gonna be a mommy!
I'm truely happy for you...And I think
you are a wonderful person.
For the young girl out of north carolina,
blair, i'm from salisbury, which is also
in that area.......Are you close to that?
It is nerves, yes, but you still have a
chance of being pregnant......I would
still go to the hospital......And test in
three or four weeks.
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samismama
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Sep 2004 Posts: 824
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Posted: 11-13-04 14:17pm
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Like I said heather im always here :d
luv ya
hilly
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babyrae
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 2957 Location: Manitoba, Canada
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Posted: 11-13-04 14:35pm
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Wait, u said u got raped yesterday and u
feel pregnant??? Theres no possible way
to get symptons this early. If ur periods
not due till next month, u wont get any
symptons for awhile and there is no way a
test would show up. U need to calm down
and not think about it for awhile. Ur
jumping too far ahead into it and it'll be
a couple more weeks before u find out.
Just reax and try to keep ur mind off it.
There is such thign as mornin after pill u
can take since it was only yesterday
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1sttimemama
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Oct 2004 Posts: 198
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Posted: 11-13-04 15:18pm
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Go get a morning after pill, you have to
use it 72 hours after unprotected
sex...But you could definitly use it. Do
it quick though. Find a planned
parenthood... And please please tell your
mom, this isnt something you should deal
with on your own. 
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samismama
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Sep 2004 Posts: 824
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Posted: 11-13-04 15:29pm
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Im just wondering why she asked advice
then doesnt respond 
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Heathergirl
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Oct 2004 Posts: 719 Location: Michigan
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Posted: 11-13-04 15:34pm
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Oh, you said north eastern.....I'm more
north western
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little_woman
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Mar 2004 Posts: 765
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Posted: 11-13-04 15:56pm
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Call me crazy but do you girls smell
something rotten in the state of denmark?
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Heathergirl
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Oct 2004 Posts: 719 Location: Michigan
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Posted: 11-13-04 16:13pm
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Hahahahahahahhahaha..........Shakespeare..
......
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sarahsweet
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Oct 2004 Posts: 2485 Location: traverse city, michigan
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Posted: 11-13-04 16:27pm
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You def would not be feeling preggy
symptoms yet. There is no way. And I
dont believe there is a 99.9 percent you
are pregnant. Even for ppl who are trying
there is a 25% a month that you will fall
pregnant. And if your period is due in
another month, meaning you just had one,
then you werent ovulating so there is a
higher chance that you are not. But you
need to get his handled. You should take
him to court. I was raped this past may,
and even though I felt dirty and didnt
want to tell anyone about it I called to
cops, got a rape kit done, and am now in
the process of charging him for the rape.
Tell your mother for heavens sake! Shes
your mother! Good luck to you dear
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samismama
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Sep 2004 Posts: 824
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Posted: 11-13-04 17:19pm
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| little_woman
wrote: | | call me crazy but do you
girls smell something rotten in the state
of denmark? |
im confuuused!!!
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little_woman
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Mar 2004 Posts: 765
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babyrae
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 2957 Location: Manitoba, Canada
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Posted: 11-13-04 17:40pm
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**sniff sniff** yep, smells like sh*t
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samismama
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Sep 2004 Posts: 824
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Posted: 11-13-04 17:44pm
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Thats wat I was thinking, she like never
came back either, and why wuld u tell
strangers u never talked to b4 but not
any1 else?! 
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sarahsweet
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Oct 2004 Posts: 2485 Location: traverse city, michigan
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Posted: 11-13-04 19:34pm
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Because when you post stuff like "shes a
fake" she probably doesnt think you are
serious about her situation!! I think
you girls should be more supportive
towards her, sorry I dont mean to sound
rude but maybe thats why this forum is
going downhill......
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Heathergirl
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Oct 2004 Posts: 719 Location: Michigan
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Posted: 11-13-04 20:05pm
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The forum is going downhill bc the real
ppl left bc they were tired of little
girls with fake stories coming on here and
screwing with people. But that is just
my opinion, lol. Perhaps I am
wrong.......
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