Can Anyone Please Answer My Question Soon? Posted: 11-13-04 21:16pm
I posteda question asking if I am having
pregnancy symptoms but no answer I see
people are readin it but don;t want ot
take the time ot answer it lol
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Fairy Godmother
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Taking the Time to Answer???????? Posted: 11-13-04 22:24pm
Hey sweetie, I have no idea what your
questions are , but I am finally here to
answer if I can. Please keep in mind, I
have a daughter 21 years ago......But ido
remember all thedetails of pregnancy! Ask
awa, sorry it took me a few days to get
here! My wings are what they use to
be!!!!!!!!!
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angel20
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Joined: 11 Nov 2004 Posts: 8 Location: Florida
Re: Taking the Time to Answer???????? Posted: 11-13-04 22:30pm
fairy*godmother
wrote:
hey sweetie, I have no idea
what your questions are , but I am finally
here to answer if I can. Please keep in
mind, I have a daughter 21 years
ago......But ido remember all thedetails
of pregnancy! Ask awa, sorry it took me
a few days to get here! My wings are
what they use to
be!!!!!!!!!
hey my question was if I am having
pregnancy symptoms I will be 21 in april.
I have started having sex a month ago the
last tiem I had my period was october 19.
I want a baby been with my first b/f for
almsot 3 years and he is my first. We
noth lsot out virginity last month. And I
haev been trying on nov 5,6,7,8,11,12 and
have been dizzy and havign slight cramping
jsut barely but light and don;t feel as if
I am goign ot have my period thanks so
much if you could get back ot me
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purple333
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Please Relax>>>> Posted: 11-14-04 00:17am
Yes, you might be pregnant but more likely
your symptoms are due to stressing out
about a) wanting a baby & b) whether
you're pregnant or not.
It often takes awhile to fall pregnant
& longer the more you stress, so
please relax, both of you & enjoy
making love - then you'll be more likely
to a) have fun & enjoy each other
& b) have a baby
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Fairy Godmother
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Angel In Florida..... Posted: 11-14-04 19:14pm
Wait........Stop the train. Get off and
breath.......First, let me get this
straight. You and you b/f have been
together for 3 years. You both lost your
virginity last month. Have you both not
thought about protection and what it is
going to cost in the long run to raise a
baby in todays world? Also, you both are
so very young..........What is the rush?
You both have just begun to experience
sex, and now you are thinking you may be
pregnant? Back in my day, my mother the
grand fairy*godmother always said, "if you
want to dance you have to pay the fiddler
". I am not passing judgement or trying
to "tell you what to do". I am just
another concerned parent, who tries to
take all young people(and about anyone
else-people or pet) and put them under my
wings to take care of. I just want you
and your b/f to make wise choices in life.
You both are still young and will want to
do things and enjoy the things young
people today enjoy doing. I don't think
"playing house" for real is what you may
think its cut out to be. Its not what it
seems...........I know you both would want
only the best in this world for a child
that you would bring into this world.
Time,patience, experience and stability-
not to mention a good paying job/steady
income, a home and $ in the bank for
emergencys to name a few things to keep in
mind. Gosh, I know I didn't answer you
question, but I am concerned about you and
wish you only lifes best. This is the
advice I would want someone giving my own
daughter....Keep in touch...There are lots
of us here who care!
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mommax3
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Re: Angel In Florida..... Posted: 11-14-04 21:28pm
fairy*godmother
wrote:
wait........Stop the train.
Get off and breath.......First, let me
get this straight. You and you b/f have
been together for 3 years. You both lost
your virginity last month. Have you both
not thought about protection and what it
is going to cost in the long run to raise
a baby in todays world? Also, you both
are so very young..........What is the
rush? You both have just begun to
experience sex, and now you are thinking
you may be pregnant? Back in my day, my
mother the grand fairy*godmother always
said, "if you want to dance you have to
pay the fiddler ". I am not passing
judgement or trying to "tell you what to
do". I am just another concerned parent,
who tries to take all young people(and
about anyone else-people or pet) and put
them under my wings to take care of. I
just want you and your b/f to make wise
choices in life. You both are still
young and will want to do things and enjoy
the things young people today enjoy doing.
I don't think "playing house" for real
is what you may think its cut out to be.
Its not what it seems...........I know you
both would want only the best in this
world for a child that you would bring
into this world. Time,patience,
experience and stability- not to mention a
good paying job/steady income, a home and
$ in the bank for emergencys to name a few
things to keep in mind. Gosh, I know I
didn't answer you question, but I am
concerned about you and wish you only
lifes best. This is the advice I would
want someone giving my own
daughter....Keep in touch...There are lots
of us here who care!
i think she said that they want a baby,
they waited 3 yrs to do anything and
decide to try. She is an adult. I had
my first child a few months shy of turning
22 and my husband and I could not be
happier, we are due with our third girl on
thursday, we love our children and didn't
want to wait and we are doing anything but
.P.L.A.Y.I.N.G. H.O.U.S.E.!!!! I hate
it when people say that. People truly
mature at different ages, I know 20 yr
olds who are more mature than any 30 yr
old. If it has been 3 yrs I am sure this
is a mutual desision between her b/f and
herself, all she asked for was advice as
to whether anyone thinks that maybe she
could be preg and I say, possible, take a
preg test, but wait anouther 3 days first.
Good luck angel20, raising babies isn't
an easy job, but it is good that there are
people who want to bring their beautiful
little faces into this world. And if you
and your b/f are ready I say go for it.
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sarahsweet
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Joined: 23 Oct 2004 Posts: 2485 Location: traverse city, michigan
Posted: 11-14-04 21:38pm
Well...If you do want the best for your
baby, you will wait until you have enough
money to raise him or her so you are able
to give him or her everything she or he
deserves. Every child deserves the best,
and bringing one into the world willingly
knowing that it may not have the best is
unfair....Just my opinion...
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Tazzy D
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Posted: 11-14-04 23:55pm
You know what sweety I have five children
and one on the way and I am 27. I guess
all I do is play house then. I hate when
people say that and also when they say
everything about money. Money is the
route to all evil. This is my advice to
you. No one is ever ready for a baby and
so many people want blessings from god and
miracles. More money, I want a house I
want a car it's always I want more of, but
what people fail to realize at times the
best blessings that god can give you and
you give back is the miracle and the birth
of a child. So hun good luck and do as
you feel. Could you be pregnant yes hun.
If not god will let you know when it is
the right time. He is not going to give
you anything that you can not bare or
handle. Sorry so long but that is how I
feel.
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purple333
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Narrow Minded Prigs!! Posted: 11-15-04 00:57am
I'm 49, I did choose to wait - of course I
didn't find my love till late either!!,
but as was pointed out earlier angel has
been with one guy for 3 years & they
chose to wait until they were ready before
a) having sex & b) deciding to have a
child - I only hope that
my own daughter currently 16 shows as much
maturity.
C) who the he ll do the narrow minded
idiots here think gave them the right to
comment on whether they're old enough or
whether they have enough money????
Do you know her age or his or their
financial circumstances or what support
they do or dson't have - did angel ask for
anyone here to moralize - no so mind your own
business & either leave her be or
answer the question she asked do not give
moral lessons about things you don't know
& have no right to comment on!!!!
Yes, in case I haven't made myself clear -
i'm angry - no disgusted that people can
decide to judge wit no right - no
information & when they themselves in
all probablitiy live in glass houses.
Angel, if you're not pregnant this time -
like I said before just relax (both of
you) it will happen in due course &
probably when you least expect it - many
people swear by a glass or two of wine a
romantic evening & some great
lovemaking!!>> baby
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mommax3
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i'm 49, I did choose to wait
- of course I didn't find my love till
late either!!, but as was pointed out
earlier angel has been with one guy for 3
years & they chose to wait until they
were ready before a) having sex & b)
deciding to have a child - I only hope that
my own daughter currently 16 shows as much
maturity.
C) who the he ll do the narrow minded
idiots here think gave them the right to
comment on whether they're old enough or
whether they have enough money????
Do you know her age or his or their
financial circumstances or what support
they do or dson't have - did angel ask for
anyone here to moralize - no so mind your own
business & either leave her be or
answer the question she asked do not give
moral lessons about things you don't know
& have no right to comment on!!!!
Yes, in case I haven't made myself clear -
i'm angry - no disgusted that people can
decide to judge wit no right - no
information & when they themselves in
all probablitiy live in glass houses.
Angel, if you're not pregnant this time -
like I said before just relax (both of
you) it will happen in due course &
probably when you least expect it - many
people swear by a glass or two of wine a
romantic evening & some great
lovemaking!!>>
baby
hi I agree with all of what you said!!!
If you read my post I was mad to, but she
said she is 20 and going to turn 21 in
april, I believe... But like I said, I am
on the same page as you. I found my love
and we couldn;t wait to start a family and
at least they had their wits about them
enough to waot long enough to have sex
that they understand the consequences and
they want to have a baby... That means
that baby will have 2 loving parents to
care for him/her... So you tell 'em
girl.. An angel20, we are sorry to take
this away from you, but it is all about
you and your rights to have a child just
as much as anyone else!!!!
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BeckLyn
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Joined: 04 Nov 2004 Posts: 476
Posted: 11-15-04 09:39am
Angel-congrats on waiting 3
years!!!!!!!!!! I always said I was
going to wait til I was married. I
didn't have enough willpower. I lost my
virg. At 15 and now here I am at 22, 4
b/f later... Still not married. Sounds
like u could be preg. Get a blood test
to be sure. U may just be stressed out.
Relax and ull get preg when the time is
right. I do agree that u should be sure
u feel as though ull be able to do the
best by ur child once he or she comes. I
want a baby too but at this time in my
life, I want to be married first and I
know I need to make more $. I barely can
pay my own bills. So as much as it
sucks, I am waiting... Good luck with
what u want, hun!
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