I have been thinking bout everything and
in one way im excited bout possiblly being
pregnant but also scared. 1st of all the
fact that he/she would be a product of
rape and never know thier dad and also im
only 16. I have alot of expierence
w/babies mainly cuz I help my brother's gf
w/hers. But does anyone else get what im
saying? I dont know if I should be
excited or sad. If I am pregnant I
wouldnt want the baby 2 feel unloved or
unwanted!
Hey sweetie! I can't say that I
completely understand because I have never
been raped, but what I can say for sure is
that your child will never feel unloved or
unwanted! You are too sweet of a person
to do that! Your child may have been
conceived during violence, but he or she
is growing from the love that you, your
brother and your boyfriend have for it!!
I am sure that you will make the decision
that is best for you, but trust me you
will make a wonderful mother!!
Much love
-jessika-
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sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3099
Posted: 10-16-03 16:59pm
Hi yaz! U r gonna feel confused and
worried about this. On one hand, u dont
want ur baby 2 not know its dad,on the
other hand, u may b a mommy soon which is
one of the most exciting things ever!
What wud u prefer: 2 have the baby and it
not know its dad (which is common these
days) or 2 abort it 4 this reason?
I think u r extremely brave-i have so
much respect for u and if and when u have
this baby, u wont care how it was
conceived cos u'll have so much love 4 it.
It doesnt matter what age u r
either-every woman is capable of loving
and looking after her baby. Is ur boyf
gonna support u through the pregnany?
When do u find out if ur preggers or
not?
Best wishes and loadsa love
liz x
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Yazmine
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Oct 2003 Posts: 156
Posted: 10-16-03 21:46pm
My bf has been really supportive so far!
I love him so much! Im not sure when
exactly I am going 2 take a test. Is it 2
soon for a test? Should I buy a at home
one or go 2 the doctor?Lol geezz so many
questions!
Have you already missed your cycle? If
you have go ahead and take the test now,
you can do whatever makes you feel more
comfortable, however a blood test at the
doctors will be more accurate!
Much love
-jessika-
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
Posted: 10-17-03 08:46am
I think that you need to follow your
heart. A baby will sense if something is
wrong when you bring him into the world.
You need to think about both him and you,
and you need to think about what is he or
she going to feel when he gets older, what
do you think you are going to go through
when he gets older. I was raped, but I
made it through. Good luck! I didn't get
pregnant though!! I am here for you if
you need me...
Sweetie,
i think you need to do what is right for
you. What do you feel capable of doing?
You should follow your heart and know that
there is support all around you.
Love,
chanda
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