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mikef
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Oct 2004
Posts: 23
Location: United States-Idaho
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Anal Sex Without the Pain
Posted: 11-14-04 15:25pm
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Have any females tried anal and found that
it hurt but now have found away to make it
enjoyable without the pain? Or have any
guys done this with a female partner and
found a way pain free?
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PattyV
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 May 2004
Posts: 1103
Location: Chicago area
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Posted: 11-14-04 19:23pm
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Take it slow,lubricate well and have a
willing partner.Oh,don't forget the
condoms!!Patty
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kitty2luv
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2004
Posts: 1089
Location: with my love
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Posted: 11-14-04 23:55pm
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I had anal about a hour ago and its been a
loooooooooooooong time but it hurt at
first but then we were kiss'en and it
felt so much better I liked it I wanna do
it every so often I want him 2 call me in
a lil bitt so I can go back for the riden
lol
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sandyallen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004
Posts: 4580
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Posted: 11-15-04 00:15am
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My opinion! No thanks, that is my poop
shute! Exit only!
Sincerely,
sandy
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BeckLyn
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Nov 2004
Posts: 476
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Posted: 11-15-04 10:27am
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I used to think that sandy... But found
the right man who wanted to try that I
cared enough about that I did...
Anyways. Sometimes it hurts, sometimes
not. Try using a vibrator thats thinner
than his penis to stretch it. Use lots
of lube and relax!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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PattyV
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Joined: 01 May 2004
Posts: 1103
Location: Chicago area
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Posted: 11-15-04 10:40am
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It's not my thing either,but have done it
on several occaisions.I tried it with a
few different partners,just to see if I
felt differently about it.It was not
bad,but,i did not enjoy having a bm
afterwards.(very sore!!)so,i do not do
anal anymore and do not miss it.Patty
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BeckLyn
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Nov 2004
Posts: 476
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Posted: 11-15-04 10:53am
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My bm afterwards don't normally hurt,
however if ur irreg. Like me anal sex can
be pretty gross sometimes.....
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Tubby
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Aug 2004
Posts: 120
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Posted: 11-18-04 11:40am
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Anal sex is only for gay men.
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BeckLyn
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Nov 2004
Posts: 476
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Posted: 11-18-04 12:55pm
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Oh, tubby,.... Not a very exciting sex
life?
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LilJewelz0714
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Nov 2004
Posts: 7
Location: Maryland
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Re: Anal Sex Without the Pain
Posted: 11-18-04 14:20pm
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| mikef
wrote: | | have any females tried anal
and found that it hurt but now have found
away to make it enjoyable without the
pain? Or have any guys done this with a
female partner and found a way pain
free? |
i have the same question as you. My
boyfriend and I have been together for
over 3 yrs now, and we've tried several
times, but for some reason it just hurts
to much for me. It could be that I
probably tense up from being nervous that
it will hurt. We have tried a few diff.
Positions with lots of lube but it doesnt
seem to help much.
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kitty2luv
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Joined: 22 Oct 2004
Posts: 1089
Location: with my love
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Posted: 11-18-04 14:23pm
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Tubby I dont get u if u dont like what we
say dont write back thats all there is to
it we come here to talk about sex if u
dont like it dont talk about it
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Tubby
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Aug 2004
Posts: 120
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Posted: 11-19-04 11:17am
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But I do enjoy putting my two cents in.
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kitty2luv
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Joined: 22 Oct 2004
Posts: 1089
Location: with my love
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Posted: 11-19-04 12:13pm
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Well tubby we dont like to be put down for
the caca we've done on .... Just cuz we
open and yr not dont mean sh*t
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Tubby
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Aug 2004
Posts: 120
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BeckLyn
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Nov 2004
Posts: 476
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Posted: 11-19-04 13:18pm
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Tubby-just try to be more tactful or nice
with ur 2 cents. Why r u in here
anyways? Do u have female prob u want to
talk about or get answers to??????
Anal sex will hurt if ur tense. And its
hard not to be. Being drunk helps!!!
Otherwise, think of it this way (which is
kind of gross) if his dick has more girth
than any of the terds uve eer had, then of
course its gonna hurt-youve never been
stretched that much before!!!!!
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kitty2luv
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2004
Posts: 1089
Location: with my love
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Posted: 11-19-04 13:58pm
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I like anal but last time I had to use the
bathroom if u know whta I mean 
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Hillary
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Jan 2005
Posts: 4
Location: Southwest
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Posted: 01-17-05 16:22pm
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Gals, and guys, just make sure that you
don't go 'splorin with the penis in both
orifices without cleaning. . . Either
purposely or accidentally.
If guys just wave it around and push
without really knowing where they are
going they can push it in your anus, miss,
push it into your vagina and transfer
annoying bacteria into it. . . Like
gardenella. Not fun! Also hard to get
rid of and the cause of the cliche' that
women should smell like fish!
Had anyone tried to clean themselves out
before anal sex? I am always trying to
make sure I am bathed and clean before sex
but sometimes spontaneity rules and then I
cringe to think what will happen when my
adventurous boyfriend gets kinky. I
bought a little device from a catalog but
not sure if it'll work or just make things
worse!! :twisted:
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hanna_mdz
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Jan 2005
Posts: 11
Location: san antonio
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Whats the Problem
Posted: 01-20-05 23:23pm
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Hi every time I have anal it hurts very
much but then the pain goes away, but when
the party is over and I go clean my self
blood comes out and after that every time
I go to the restroom blood comes out and
it stays like that for two weeks can it be
that I dont use enough lubrication or is
it that I have hemeroids and I dont know
or what is the problemcan some one give me
some advice... Thanks
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