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Q: I'm scared...
asked by: metellus on July 25th, 2003
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hi, im a guy, and i know youre going to think im a piece of trash but i need help. my g/f and i have been going out for 3 going on 4 months now, and i really care for her. i mean who knows, we may end up together forever. heres the thing though, we havent actually had sex yet, but something firghtens me. about a week ago we were doing things to satisfy eachother with our hands without any penetration to avoid any risk. i was even wearing a condom even though we werent going to have actual intercourse. i finished before she did and removed the condom and pulled my underwear back up. i was really careful when i pulled the condom off, but i didnt wash my hands. without thinking i continued to use my hand to stimulate her. i dont think i got any sperm on my hand but i just dont know. she is suposed to have her period here in the next week, if she doesnt im going to be freaking out. she still lives at home and if she turns out to be pregnant... im seriously dead! our lives will be over. please let me know what the chances are that shes pregnant. i love her but im really not ready for a child now. thanx for your time.
-Metellus (a frightened little man)
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Willeewhopp
replied on July 25th, 2003
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Sperm life
If it will ease your mind, sperm has a very short life in air. To keep sperm alive, it must be in liquid.
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metellus
replied on July 25th, 2003
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well, that does make me feel a little better. however, nothing will ease my mind completely until she gets her period and we know for sure that shes not pregnant. any advice or comfort would really help. thanx peeps.
-Metellus
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lori
replied on August 4th, 2003
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hey..... I posted something about this exact exact exact same thing in the "teen pregnancy" section!! i was freaking out about it SeRiOuSlY!! we didnt have sex and pretty much had the same situation as you to a "T" Laughing
But we were still scared about what are chances are of getting pregnant?!!?
well i'm happy to inform you that i eventually didnt get pregnant. I had never been so scared or stressed out about the situation!!
We learned to be more careful next time too!!
I feel your emotions HONESTLY!! and i wanted to asure you that it's unlikely yet not impossible. I know that everything worked out for me and i hope it does for you too!! (i was even scared enough that i prayed for my period to come) well I wish you all the luck in the world!! you can contact me any time too!!
Very Happy
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