Hi. Im 21 years old this year and im
having problems trying to stay hard
everytime I have sex. This is getting
really frustrating and worrying
for me. I have a girlfriend and I know
she is frustrated too eventhough she
doesnt admit it. I have no problems
getting hardons...Its just that I can't
maintain it everytime im in her. What is
the problem? I used to masturbate
regularly to porn and I have no troubles
maintaining a hard on while at it. Issit
because I masturbate too much? Or izzit
im suffering from erectile
dysfunction?Please help.......
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l2at24
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Nov 2004 Posts: 1509
Posted: 11-24-04 00:52am
Maybe you're too nervous about being with
her. You don't have to impress the
magazines ya know? Just try to relax.
Stress does a number on your performance.
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Emianne21
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Nov 2004 Posts: 13 Location: Ames, IA
Same Issue Posted: 11-24-04 10:41am
My boyfriend is 24 and had the same issue.
We bought a penis ring, worked like a
charm. Havent had a problem since.
They're cheap and easy. Give 'em a try.
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rancid_beats
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Nov 2004 Posts: 31
Posted: 11-25-04 05:45am
Are you drinking alot? I get that problem
if ive had a drink.
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mdthomp1436
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Nov 2004 Posts: 2 Location: Georgia
Same Here Posted: 11-29-04 07:46am
I have been dating this wonderful woman
for a while now and we waited to be
together. Finally when we did, I had
already had about three glasses of wine
and I was really hard for about 5 minutes,
then I just could not keep it up. So I
firmly, (no pun intended) believe that
wine or just alcohol plays a big part.
Try really teasing the hell out of each
other for a while before you have sex.
M
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Richter
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jan 2005 Posts: 1
Posted: 01-04-05 09:19am
I also have this problem, and am 23 years
old. I don't think that in my case it can
be attributed to any vices (don't smoke,
nor drink) or nervousness, I feel
comfertable around her.
I am also quite fit, but can never
maintain the erection for a long enough
period. Is there anyway this can be
solved other than visiting a doctor?
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Jazzmine
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Jan 2005 Posts: 19
Posted: 01-23-05 11:59am
Nervousness and performance anxiety is a
big factor in both getting and keeping an
erection for young guys. The
brain-penis connection is very sensitive
to any kind of stress. You get a
negative feedback loop where the worrying
causes the erectile problem and the
erectile problem causes the worry.
One good way to nip this in the bud, in
other words, break this negative feedback
between your brain and your penis is to
take viagra. What this does is it will
break the connection by giving you an
extra burst of confidence. As long as
you are horny the viagra will keep you
hard despite any other worries you may
have. You only need to take the viagra
a few times. After realizing you can
get hard and stay hard then you no longer
need the drug. Once you know you can do
it, then you will no longer be so worried.
You will get renewed confidence. As
a matter of fact a doctor's free sample
pack will probably be all you need.
Viagra tends to be pricy so try and get
the free sample pack...Most docs give them
away to guys who have hard-on problems no
matter what the age or cause.
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Stretch
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jan 2005 Posts: 8
Posted: 01-24-05 16:20pm
For me, xanax or beer makes me limp.
Could it be a side affect from a drug?
