First off congrats to ur new bundle of joy... Stressing is not gonna solve anything... I was pregnant before when I was 18 about a year ago(miscarried)... I was going to school and that time I didn't have job... I was scared to tell me mother... But eventually I knew I had to..... Your mother loves u no matter what... My mother wasn't happy with the way things happen but she said would be there with me.. As long as it was my responsibilty... I f u feel that its what in ur heart then I say go for it....Just be happy for now...If ur boyfriend is supported then everything will be alright... Im trying to conceive now.

Yeah, I was 21 and in my last year of college when I got pregnant. I just knew my mother was going to be so disappointed in me. I had even decided to get an abortion, and I was planning on just going in to have it done without telling her. But over dinner the night before I was going in, I broke down. I knew I couldn't go through it without my mom. So, I told her, and she cried and said, "carmen, if you don't want that baby, you know there are so many people in this family who do." and when she said that I knew that I did want the baby, and that I couldn't get an abortion. Other than my husband, she has been the biggest support for me ever since. And we have a precious 5-year-old boy who we couldn't imagine life without!

If you're worried about your mom's reaction, the best thing to do is to demonstrate to her that you're going to make responsible decisions for yourself and for the baby. Ask her advice on how to get through college while raising a baby. Welcome her into your life and the baby's life, and be sure she knows that you need and will appreciate her support. Also, be sure she knows about your boyfriend's reaction, and his desire to get married.

Our parents were our age, too, once. A lot can be forgiven, accepted, and understood, as long as we respond maturely and responsibly to a situation.

First of all congrats! Secondly, u need to tell her. The sooner the better, otherwise she may be upset u waited so long. And the stress isn't good for u or the baby. And ull feel much better after telling her. Even if she doesnt understand right away she will eventually. Good luck and let us know how it goes.

My opinion is if you dont tell your mom and she finds out another way she is going to be or feel hurt because she is going to ask why you couldnt come to her. We always think the worse when it is our moms but they understand more than we think. Yes they are always hurt and upset because they always want what is best for us or want getter for us than they had, but the truth is most of us are just like they are so. I say hun if you want this baby go ahead and enjoy your pregnancy and the birht of your baby to come. Also if you want give your mom a card. Sorry so long but one more piece of advice moms always know and feel when something is wrong or different with there child... Good luck

that was so touching

I wanted to give my two cents, but you've already gotten some great advice. Congrats on the baby. I went through the same thing with my dad, and I was 21 and been married for 3 years!! It was the whole finish college thing he had a hard time with. Anyway, he got over it. It was really hard for the first few months and being newly pregnant all you want and need is support. They will come around. He is a wonderful pop-pop now!

Congrats on ur new baby. Im having my first one too. Im due in 11wks. Anyways, yes tell you mama, which I know you know too, she will be mad at first. But she will cave in and be sooo happy. Thats how my mom was. She did want to talk to me or even see me. But right when I was ready to accpet that she was mad she came through for me. Thank the lord for that. I have to no clue on what to expect, even though I had other family who supported, you need you mom.
Well I hope everything goes good for you and the best of luck..


Michelle*

I dont think that you should be scared of telling your mom, you are 18 a adult, sure it will be a suprise to her, but I dont believe she will hate you for it, I truly dont. Buy her a card or something sayings congratilions grandma or something if your to scared to tell her in person. Dont let anything stand in front of your dreams, maybe you should wait and have the baby then go to school, or you can go right now whatever your heart desires.

I'm sorry your so scared. But your 18, i'm sure your mom won't be disgutingly mad at you. You're already legal so i'm sure it'll be fine. Just dont wait for her to find out on her own.

Other than that, congradulations on youre pregnancy!

Congrats on the baby!! My adivce is to tell your mom! Some things are hard, but they just have to be done! Good luck!!

Lemme tell u this..When my mom was preg. With me..She was goin to nursing school..And she is a nurse..Dont drop outta college..You can do it..And tell your mom..If she really loves you she will be happy about it and will be thrilled over a grandchild.

Thanx a million for your advice I have to tell her even though it breaks my heart every time I look at her face knowing I betrayed her trust, and knowing I ruined every wish she had for me.

I think you are being way to hard on yourself!! You did not ruin anything! You are bringing a new life in to the world.

I went through a similar situation, I am 23 single and in the military. I was dating a guy and we broke up then I found out I was pregnant and was terrified of how my mother would react of my having a child while I was not married or even with the father. I did not give her enough credit though she was so happy!! My dad is in shock lol. My mom will be moving in with me to help me with the child due to my deployments and long work hours!1 she is the best!!

I think you should give your mom a chance to react before assuming she will be devestated. Please keep us updated. Good luck and congratulations!!!