Joined: 02 Oct 2004 Posts: 330 Location: Pennsylvania
Random Thought Posted: 11-19-04 21:54pm
Hi and hello to all. I hope you, your
little ones, and your families are all
doing well.
Anyways, I haven't posted on this forum in
quite some time, but I have been on and
off, reading posts and seeing what you
girls have been saying. Many things that
have been happening on here have made me
quite sad. I don't mean to step on
anybodies toes nor offend anybody... And
if I do, i'm sorry... Just remember, you
have a choice whether to respond or even
read this post...
First off, I refuse to mention any names
because I don't believe in pointing
fingers and placing blame. Secondly, I
hope that you will all think of what I am
saying and take it to heart.
Ok, over the last couple of weeks, I have
noticed quite a bit of bickering. While a
slight amount of fighting will always
happen, the amount that is going here is
ridiculous. There are a few people here
who continually bash other girls...
Especially the ones that were here for a
long time before they were. On another
note, there are a few people who say that
"this is a pregnancy forum" and then go
and bash somebody for making a point
(pertaining to sex) that they don't agree
with. If you don't want to end the
bickering and quit fighting, don't bash
other people because your opinion doesn't
correspond with theirs. I agree that this
a pregnancy site, but everybody is
entitled to their opinion... Whether you
agree with it or not. All the "you're
stupid" and "you're a b*tch" just goes to
show how immature this site has gotten.
When I first came here, there was nothing
but good help. Yes we had our share of
problems and yse we had our share of
fakes... But we worked through it. Now,
it seems as though everybody would rather
b*tch about it rather than work it out.
Over the past few weeks, this forum has
gone down hill very rapidly and it makes
me sad. A place that was, at one time,
full of laughter and love is now full of
fighting and anger.
I wish each one of you the best of luck in
all you persue. I hope that all is well
and continues to go well with each of you.
Good night and god bless.
~sam
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bd1012
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004 Posts: 1998
Posted: 11-19-04 22:05pm
I have been gone for a while also but have
been popping in and out and reading and I
agree sam.. I was right.. This place is
cliguey... They all left to go to their
little fort or whatever and i'm wondering
why they even bother coming here anymore..
Why not just leave altogether if they
hate it so much and let the newbies who
they always fight with have it.. That's
the only way anyone will get any peace on
this board... Once the little highschool
clique goes away... They have their
fort.. Let others enjoy the pregnancy
forum without there little bashing and
superiority complex. What the hell did
sarahsweet do to anyone and I looked in
the other pregnancy forum and I didn't see
any bashing there. It just seems like
every single regular has a stick up their
ass or something.. That's what drove me
out of here. I have occasionaly pmed a
few people to give advice but no reply..
Whatever
despite what the regs think.. Lewis is
the only one who owns this board.. They
dont' own it.. It's a free forum. The
level of maturity is unbelievable! I
mean..I almost got banned from here
because of something that I said outside
of this forum.. I was angry and said
something in yahoo that pissed someone off
and they brought it to the forum.. It
wasn't even in yahoo really.. It was a
status message and my status message is my
business.. It's not grounds for me to
banned on any forum unless what's
offensive is on said forum. Well.. It's
all resolved now and I don't hold any
grudges but it's really stupid to try to
ban somebody for something that wasn't on
the forum to begin with.. Anywho.. I
just hope everyone stops being mean or at
least will fill me in on why they are so
angry so I can maybe understand but all I
see right now is people being snooty..
Maybe I missed something.. Idk..
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sarahsweet
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Oct 2004 Posts: 2485 Location: traverse city, michigan
Posted: 11-19-04 22:08pm
Thank you for your post. I havent been
acting myself lately with these pregnancy
hormones raging in me! And I agree I have
have snapped back to some in defense. I
speak of my accomplishments and get shut
down. I get told that I am a liar, that I
dont work 40 hrs a week, that im probably
not pregnant, and that I didnt just work
my a$$ off to write a 7 page paper. It
is hard to hear these things being said to
me. I dont want to fight. I want to
talk about all of our stories and
situations and be supportive. Like I
have said so many times, im sorry if I
have snapped back to others, but I would
like some respect too. Thats all
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bd1012
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004 Posts: 1998
Posted: 11-19-04 22:14pm
Yeah.. It's really immature.. Life is
not black and white.. Some people do land
jobs like you have and have alot of free
time on their hands.. Doesn't mean their
any less of a person because of it.. If I
got a job where I had free time I wouldn't
blow it because I don't feel like I work
hard enough or because some people want to
compete and play the "i'm a hard worker so
i'm better than you" card
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GuitarJade
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Oct 2004 Posts: 330 Location: Pennsylvania
Posted: 11-19-04 22:16pm
I just don't like the fighting... And
most of it is for no good reason.
Somebody says something and somebody else
doesn't agree with it and it gets outta
hand. It's just ridiculous. We're all
mature teens/adults and we don't need to
act like this. Cliquish or not... The
"older" girls are very friendly and are
nice when you're nice to them! I'm an
extremely caring person and I don't like
it when people are fighting... Especially
about some of the stupid stuff that has
been fought over the last few weeks. So,
how about we put it behind us and start
ove? Because maybe then the forum will
because a peaceful and helpful place once
again!
~sam
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sarahsweet
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Oct 2004 Posts: 2485 Location: traverse city, michigan
Posted: 11-19-04 22:18pm
I apoligize and am ready to move on!
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mommax3
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Nov 2004 Posts: 1134 Location: Virginia
Posted: 11-19-04 22:19pm
bd1012
wrote:
yeah.. It's really
immature.. Life is not black and white..
Some people do land jobs like you have
and have alot of free time on their
hands.. Doesn't mean their any less of a
person because of it.. If I got a job
where I had free time I wouldn't blow it
because I don't feel like I work hard
enough or because some people want to
compete and play the "i'm a hard worker so
i'm better than you" card
exactly, and what is hard for one person
may not be as hard to someone else, and
then even harder for another, ya know?
You know I had a friend once whose mom
passed away
she was so upset and a mutual friend of
ours said she should stop her whining
because she lost both parents
it is true that there is always someone
out there that has something harder to
deal with, but if my mom died tomorrow, do
you think my knowing that both of your
parents were deceased it would make my
pain go away?
Comparing our labors withone another
doesn't make our own or the other person's
any easier for them to deal with
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bd1012
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004 Posts: 1998
Posted: 11-19-04 22:22pm
Exactly mommax.. Sarah no need to
apoligize.. I wasn't talking about you
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GuitarJade
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Oct 2004 Posts: 330 Location: Pennsylvania
Posted: 11-19-04 22:39pm
So... We've had our apologizes and
understandings... Let's move on, shall
we?!
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despite what the regs think.. Lewis is
the only one who owns this board.. They
dont' own it.. It's a free forum. The
level of maturity is unbelievable! I
mean..I almost got banned from here
because of something that I said outside
of this forum.. I was angry and said
something in yahoo that pissed someone off
and they brought it to the forum.. It
wasn't even in yahoo really.. It was a
status message and my status message is my
business.. It's not grounds for me to
banned on any forum unless what's
offensive is on said forum. Well.. It's
all resolved now and I don't hold any
grudges but it's really stupid to try to
ban somebody for something that wasn't on
the forum to begin with.. Anywho.. I
just hope everyone stops being mean or at
least will fill me in on why they are so
angry so I can maybe understand but all I
see right now is people being snooty..
Maybe I missed something.. Idk..
