Why Do Guys Have Sex With Ugly Women? Posted: 11-20-04 01:02am
Guys, i'd like to know. Why do some of
you have sex with women who are uglier
than sin when you could have a prettier
woman? What is the turnon there? I was
just wondering because some guys say they
are so picky about who they want to be
with yet they will have sex with a 250
pound woman who hasn't taken a bath in a
month. Just wondering.
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PattyV
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Joined: 01 May 2004 Posts: 1103 Location: Chicago area
Posted: 11-20-04 12:09pm
Because they can!!!!A stiff one has no
conscience.Patty
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MazzaRC
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Joined: 20 Nov 2004 Posts: 6
Posted: 11-20-04 12:16pm
There is no such thing as an ugly woman.
Only society dictates what is "ugly" and
what is "beautiful" not all men conform to
society's norms.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
I used to think I was ugly until I met a
man who made me feel beautiful and meant
it when he said it.
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PattyV
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Posted: 11-20-04 12:38pm
You are right!But,sometimes we lose sight
of what is really important.Maybe we are
looking at the outside when we should be
looking at the inside.Some people just
have that certain someting that you can't
put your finger on-and that makes some
people wonder."what does she have that I
haven't got??"sex appeal is truly a mental
process.If a person feels sexy and
beautiful,that radiates outward and some
people get it and others
don't.Tubby,again, you sound bitter.Look
to your innner self as to why men pass you
up! I will say that when a guy just wants
to get laid,looks do not matter much.
They'll say that they were wasted or too
horny to care.(if they are looking for a
one night stand) patty
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Tubby
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Joined: 15 Aug 2004 Posts: 120
Posted: 11-20-04 19:38pm
I just saw a thing on netscape homepage
tonight that men prefer attractive faces
to ugly ones. In fact, it said we all may
be programmed at birth to prefer
attractive faces to ugly ones. I know
that when guys are wasted or high they
ain't picky about who they bed, but even
when they are sober they pick the most
disgusting creatures to have sex with!
It's one thing to not be that attractive,
but when you don't even exercise good
personal hygiene, that's another.
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JohnsWifey
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Joined: 01 Nov 2004 Posts: 117 Location: Milwaukee, wi
Posted: 11-21-04 00:20am
This might sound rude but definitley not
meant to be, vagina has no face....But
beauty can only get you so far
anyways....Its wats on the inside that
counts....But I also feel like you have to
have that initial attraction to even be
interested the first place....But look at
it this way....Every man has his own
opinion....A woman who may be ugly to one
man may be beautiful too another or vise
versa....
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justacanadiangirl
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Joined: 19 Nov 2004 Posts: 1803
Posted: 11-21-04 02:06am
Who's the say who's ugly and who's not? I
sure as hell don't think ur the only judge
of that. I mean all my friends and I
argue over men, some like the tall dark
ones, some like the blonde, boyish
good-looks ones, some like the bigger
guys. Not everyone likes the same kinda
ppl, or else we'd all be in trouble.
Everybody is entitled to their opinion.
And society can just shut up... It's
ruining ppl.
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Tubby
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Joined: 15 Aug 2004 Posts: 120
Posted: 11-21-04 12:59pm
I'm talking about women who most people
would agree are really, really ugly. You
know--teeth missing, greasy hair, big,
pointy nose, ugly face, they have the
stench of cigarette smoke because they are
heavy smokers. I'm not talking about just
someone who maybe isn't a supermodel.
Most guys wives and girlfriends don't look
like elle mcpherson. And truthfully, a
lot of guys just aren't attractive enough
themselves to get that kind of woman. I
know guys ain't particular when they are
just out for sex, but good heavens even at
that you'd think men would have their
standards. If I was a man, I wouldn't
want to sleep with a woman who doesn't
exercise good personal hygiene or looks
like a troll.
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simonetta
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Joined: 21 Nov 2004 Posts: 8 Location: United States
Posted: 11-21-04 13:57pm
Why do women have sex with ugly men?
In other words, tubby, i'm asking why the
heck would a woman ever have sex with you?
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2ferano
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Posted: 11-21-04 15:28pm
Lol. This post is funny.
I see your point tubby, but I also see
everyone elses. Everyone prefers
something different and has different
ideas of beauty.
Some guys actually don't mind a girl with
no teeth, no bathing, etc. Especially
guys who look/act the same.
Where a woman who works out five days a
week, is "beautiful" bathes twice a day
and spent $3000 on perfect teeth is going
to want someone who takes equal care of
themselves. I guess it all just comes
down to preference.
But if you are referring to men who talk
about how their women have to be perfect
and blah blah and then they go and have
sex with an overweight stinky person, I
don't understand that either. They go on
and on about how women need to be
beautiful and then when it comes down to
it they will screw anything.
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Tubby
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Posted: 11-21-04 18:55pm
simonetta
wrote:
why do women have sex with
ugly men?
In other words, tubby, i'm asking why the
heck would a woman ever have sex with
you?
they wouldn't because i'm
a woman myself and not gay, tweetie bird.
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simonetta
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Joined: 21 Nov 2004 Posts: 8 Location: United States
Posted: 11-21-04 18:57pm
Giggles! Geeze, you know if you guys
weren't so hot and bothered about "getting
any" any where and everywhere you might
get to know women better and find out that
they'd be willing to try also sorts of
sexual tricks to compensate for a possibly
small "man thing", that is, if woman liked
a a guy because he was nice, funny, lots
of fun to be with, etc., etc., after she
gets to know him--not in a headlong rush
into bed.
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jriegel
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Joined: 02 Nov 2004 Posts: 54
Posted: 11-21-04 19:23pm
Everyone wants to be loved and wanted. It
doesn't really matter what people look
like or how bad their hygiene is. They
are still capable of loving someone, and
being loved by someone, even if you're too
shallow to see the value of a person.
This extends through and beyond sex.
Everyone's got their problems and who
knows all the crap other people have been
through that have led them to where they
are? Looking like they do? No body. But
that doesn't remove their value and worth
as a human being who has fears, doubts,
hopes, etc.
Trying loving someone first, and then
you'll see why people who, even though you
are turned off, are still capable of
communicating and receive love in it's
many forms.
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Tubby
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Joined: 15 Aug 2004 Posts: 120
Posted: 11-21-04 21:04pm
jriegel
wrote:
everyone wants to be loved
and wanted. It doesn't really matter
what people look like or how bad their
hygiene is. They are still capable of
loving someone, and being loved by
someone, even if you're too shallow to see
the value of a person. This extends
through and beyond sex.
Everyone's got their problems and who
knows all the crap other people have been
through that have led them to where they
are? Looking like they do? No body.
But that doesn't remove their value and
worth as a human being who has fears,
doubts, hopes, etc.
Trying loving someone first, and then
you'll see why people who, even though you
are turned off, are still capable of
communicating and receive love in it's
many forms.
i see what you are
saying, but it is still difficult to be
near someone who stinks. At least for me
anyway. Apparently men could have a woman
with maggots crawling all over her and
still have sex with her. To me, lack of
personal hygiene means a woman is trashy
and irresponsible. Lack of personal
hygiene indicates a major character flaw
such as this. It could cost less than
five dollars for shampoo and soap, so
there is no excuse for a woman being
unclean. And if she can't afford to go
to the dentist, at least buy toothpaste
and a toothbrush at the dollar store.
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Joined: 06 Jul 2004 Posts: 54
Posted: 11-22-04 01:57am
Being unclean and being ugly are two
different things...
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Nickyshy
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What Happened? Posted: 11-22-04 13:49pm
First, I want to know what you saw or
experienced to bring this topic up? Did
you see a really cute guy out with, what
is in your opinion is, an ugly woman?
Did you see someone you are interested in
yourself with someone ugly, nasty and
stinky? What happened? Did anyone
also take into consideration, that a lot
of people have fetishes, fantasies, sexual
interests that they think (ugly) people
wouldn't have qualms about performing with
them. But I agree, that beauty is in the
eye of the beholder. Who are we to judge
who is ugly and who is not? As far as
hygiene, like I said before there are
people out there that have weird fetishes.
Maybe that guy gets turned on by that
woman's natural scent without her washing.
I heard or read somewhere (can't
remember) that napoleon would send a
missive to josephine instructing her not
to wash before he came over to her place
to....You know. Anyway, to be honest
can really form an opinion without knowing
what happened.
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BeckLyn
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Joined: 04 Nov 2004 Posts: 476
Posted: 11-22-04 13:56pm
Im going to go out on a limb here and
assume that tubbys man cheated on her with
an "ugly" woman. Maybe thats part of the
bitterness... No offense meant tubby,
just trying to understand you. Also, if
im wrong, I will apologize ahead of time.
But I do understand what u r saying. I
will admit to judging pretty and ugly
people. I know its wrong, but its how
were raised...
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kitty2luv
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Joined: 22 Oct 2004 Posts: 1089 Location: with my love
Posted: 11-22-04 14:15pm
I am not too cute my self I think I am
ugly but guys still like me tho
what does that mean lamo....
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oangelc543
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Joined: 25 Sep 2004 Posts: 521 Location: TX
Posted: 11-22-04 15:30pm
Theres a difference between a guy having
sex with a girl who is "ugly" and actually
being with or liking a girl who is "ugly"
sex has nothing to do with feelings..
Just because a guy has sex with a girl, it
doesnt mean he feels attraction towards
her or any feelings whatsoever.
For christ sakes, in alot of cases he
probably doesnt even know her name.
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jriegel
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Nov 2004 Posts: 54
Posted: 11-22-04 16:13pm
Oangel I know you could probably care less
but your view of sex is so tragic. I hope
you find meaningful sex some day. I'm all
about hot sex, fun sex, whatever. But
meaningful (while still hot and fun) sex
with some who cares about you and is
attracted to you despite any personality
or physical flaws is the ultimate intimate
experience, regardless of how hot or how
many times you've had sex. Men like that
*do* exist and they are worth trying to
find.
Tubby sometimes people have been abused
and told they are worthless and figure
it's not much use to try to do anything to
take care of themselves, or that they're
not worth the time or effort. As weird or
lazy (or whatever you want to call it) as
it may seem, some people have been nearly
irreparably damaged by other people in
their life. They need someone to show
them they have value and are worth being
loved before they realize that they are
and will begin to take care of
themselves.
Some women like that will let a man have
sex with them because they think their
only value is between their thighs. They
are so wrong. And men who use them like
that only further their feelings of
worthlessness.
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First, I want to know what you saw or
experienced to bring this topic up? Did
you see a really cute guy out with, what
is in your opinion is, an ugly woman?
Did you see someone you are interested in
yourself with someone ugly, nasty and
stinky? What happened? Did anyone
also take into consideration, that a lot
of people have fetishes, fantasies, sexual
interests that they think (ugly) people
wouldn't have qualms about performing with
them. But I agree, that beauty is in the
eye of the beholder. Who are we to judge
who is ugly and who is not? As far as
hygiene, like I said before there are
people out there that have weird fetishes.
Maybe that guy gets turned on by that
woman's natural scent without her washing.
I heard or read somewhere (can't
remember) that napoleon would send a
missive to josephine instructing her not
to wash before he came over to her place
to....You know. Anyway, to be honest
can really form an opinion without knowing
what happened.