I know i'm only 18 and i'm not really old
enough to have a baby yet, but I think I
might be pregnant and some part of me is
actually hoping I am... I feel so
terrible about it. I don't think i'm
ready for a baby, but I can't help feeling
like I really really want to be
pregnant....Is that wrong of me? Am I so
terrible to want this? I think I might
want to be pregnant just to know that I
can be, that it's possible for me to have
children....But I don't know what to think
anymore...
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bluebubble888
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Oct 2004 Posts: 499
Posted: 11-20-04 07:11am
Holy cow girl! I know exactly what you
mean! I'm 18 also and feel the exact same
way you do! I know i'm not quite ready
for a child but at times I really really
want to! And no~that's not a terrible
thing because if it is.....I'm right there
along with you!!
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justacanadiangirl
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Nov 2004 Posts: 1803
Posted: 11-20-04 08:56am
Well it's good to know i'm not alone. I
hate to think what I do, but I can't help
it....But then I feel bad after I think
it, like i'm not supposed to want it...U
know?
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sarahsweet
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Oct 2004 Posts: 2485 Location: traverse city, michigan
Posted: 11-21-04 21:11pm
If you are unsure about bringing another
life into this world I would wait until
the time is better for you to do so.
Obviously you are having doubts about
being pregnant. Why dont you wait until
you absolutly know you are ready?? When
you are stable? Just my opinion but I
hope everything goes well for you either
way!
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justacanadiangirl
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Nov 2004 Posts: 1803
Posted: 11-21-04 21:26pm
Well if I am already pregnant, it's not
like I can just go back in time and change
that. Whether i'm ready or not, I might
soon be a mother. I don't really have
much choice in that anymore.
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BeckLyn
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Nov 2004 Posts: 476
Posted: 11-22-04 12:55pm
Ok, so I understand. Wanting to be preg
and have a baby is a natural maternal
feeling. But if u rnt preg now then be
sure to try ur best to wait until u do
really feel ready. If u r already preg
then ull find a way to make the best of
it, cuz u have too. Let us know when u
find out for sure-have u taken any tests
yet?
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justacanadiangirl
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Nov 2004 Posts: 1803
Posted: 11-22-04 15:42pm
I took a hpt about a week or so after I
missed my period, but it said negative,
and that was almost 2 weeks ago. So I
think i'm gonna go to the clinic today to
get tested.
