We do not choose who we love.It is just a matter of your heart telling you what is right!If your guy is a good,decent guy,don't worry what everyone else thinks.My sister-in-law has the most beautiful,kind children and a terrific husband.He just happens to also be black.He has never dated black women,just his choice.When I see him,i do not see a black man,i see one of the best human beings I have ever been priviledged to know!If some members of your family do not accept him or your children,that will be their loss.You just be happy and do not focus on those small minded people.Do not give them the satisfaction of upsetting you,enjoy your lives together and be happy!Best to you all!Patty