Joined: 23 Oct 2004 Posts: 2485 Location: traverse city, michigan
Feeling Down, Long Posted: 11-20-04 15:39pm
Ok, feel so weird today. Well I dont
know if I mentioned this before or not,
but my boyfriend, eric, has a 5 year old
son. His name is justin. I havent seen
justin since I fell pregnant, and dont get
me wrong, I love him so much! But today
it just seemed like I was so frustrated.
Eric is sooo good with him and I love to
see that ,because I know he will be good
with my bub too. I cant put my finger on
why I was so frustrated. Maybe I woke up
on the wrong side of the bed, who knows.
For example, justin was putting his shoes
on and he says, "i dont know how to tie my
shoes, grandpa trys to teach me but I cant
do it" then I said, "sure you can hunny!"
then he said, "no I cant" and I said, "i
know you can! With time.." and eric said,
"sarah, he doesnt know how to do it, you
dont have to be mean to him" I was
like..Uh....I was just trying to make him
feel confident, but noooo I was mean??? I
didnt want him to believe he couldnt do
it, thats all! So I felt stupid. Then
erics like, "you arent yourself today,
why?" so I couldnt explain myself so I
went on to be like..."we are so poor,
either I need to pick up more nights at
work or you need to get a nother job" and
he said, "i will get another job, you
shouldnt have to work more because you are
in school right now. " then I just
started balling, the justin started crying
about somthing and our conversation ended.
Ok,....One more thing. Hang in
there...Lol...Sorry but I need to vent.
Then tara, who is the mother of justin
called eric to meet up with him so she
could get justin back and she wanted eric
to go to see spongebob with justin and her
tonight. I didnt say anything, I didnt
feel like it was my place to. So I came
to work and I have felt weird about it. I
know that she is the mother of his child,
and they should be able to talk and meet
and stuff, but my stubborn a$$ felt bad
that they might be going to see a movie
tonight. I dont know if that is what
they are doing or not. I just feel down
today
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sarahsweet
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Oct 2004 Posts: 2485 Location: traverse city, michigan
Posted: 11-20-04 15:55pm
Update! He just called and said, "baby,
you would feel uncomfortable if me,
justin, and tara went to the movies
wouldnt you?" I didnt say anything...And
he was like, "thats what I thought. Ill
make sure I get a night with him next week
and we can take him to see one ourselves"
I feel a lot better now! Does anyone
else go thru this kinda stuff??
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Kia
Supporter
Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 6594 Location: Planet Tampaxia,
Posted: 11-20-04 16:02pm
Yup, sometimes it's just down to your
hormones and they affect how you percieve
the world so you feel a bit low.
Sometimes other peole just have things on
their mind and react "wrongly". Ah I
could re-write the scenario with loads of
options but hey sometimes it's best to
just let things past.
Tying my shoe laces was so difficult I was
about 6 by the time I learnt and that was
with a practice "shoe picture" with laces
threaded so I could do it over and over.
I could read, write, count, spell. Tell
time but tie my laces nah...
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sarahsweet
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Oct 2004 Posts: 2485 Location: traverse city, michigan
Posted: 11-20-04 16:20pm
Lol...I hear ya. I learned how to tye
mine w/ the bowtie way....I learned pretty
quick! But I dont remember how old iwas
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Nikki n Rudy
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Nov 2004 Posts: 642 Location: Fort Worth, Texas
Posted: 11-20-04 16:21pm
Sarah, you shouldn't feel weird for not
wanting him to go with an ex to see a
movie with his son. I would die if my
boyfriend went out with his ex to see a
movie with child or not. I almost died
when I found he went back to her when we
broke up when rudy was about 4 months old.
Good thing I wished it all to hell! Hah.
But still...I dont know if you trust him
around her or not but even that would make
me feel uncomfy, too.
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sarahsweet
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Oct 2004 Posts: 2485 Location: traverse city, michigan
Posted: 11-20-04 16:25pm
The thing is...He never dated her, he got
her pregnant on his first time ever having
sex, and it just happened once, so its not
like he had any feelings for her. And in
fact, I get along with the girl pretty
well, she is kind of weird and sketchy,
but I dont mind her. I just think a lot
of the times she calls him, she says she
wants to hand out with all 3 of them...I
find that kind of weird, but I feel mean
for even saying that.
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Nikki n Rudy
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Nov 2004 Posts: 642 Location: Fort Worth, Texas
Posted: 11-20-04 16:32pm
Well its nice to see a mom and dad with
their child getting along. But it does
seem weird when she wants it to be just
her and him and not include the gf of the
father, ya know?
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sarahsweet
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Oct 2004 Posts: 2485 Location: traverse city, michigan
Posted: 11-20-04 16:47pm
Yea, I know. Thats why I said I kind of
feel mean for having these feelings. But
I told him, its one thing if she needs to
talk to you about somthing, meet with you
about a certian issue, and what not. But
to go see a movie with her? I find that
strange
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mommax3
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Nov 2004 Posts: 1134 Location: Virginia
Posted: 11-20-04 17:04pm
I don't know, I could go both ways
it is good for them to do fum stuff
together with justin, so he knows they
love him no matter what, ya know, but even
knowing that wouldn;t make me feel any
better about the situation, ya know?
Guess that didn;t really help
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sarahsweet
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Oct 2004 Posts: 2485 Location: traverse city, michigan
Posted: 11-20-04 17:16pm
Totally. Its weird. Like during
halloween, I got really mad at her. She
told eric that he could go trick or
treating with her and justin. I had nooo
problem with this whatsoever, I thought in
fact it was a great thing for them to do.
Justin called him twice the day before
halloween to tell him how excited he was
that daddy was going trick or treating w/
him. Well come halloween day, tara
called eric to tell him that he couldnt
come with them anymore. Eric was
like....What?!!! She said that tonight
was just not a good night. Im sure she
didnt tell justin that she told daddy he
couldnt come, in turn making him look like
he ditched out. You cant do that to a 5
year old. I just didt htink it was fair
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bd1012
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004 Posts: 1998
Posted: 11-20-04 17:19pm
Wow.. You're right.. That was totally
not right of her.. Not only to eric but
justin too.
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sarahsweet
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Oct 2004 Posts: 2485 Location: traverse city, michigan
Posted: 11-20-04 17:25pm
I know...And come to find out, she took
her boyfriend with her instead. I
throught it was so unfair and
unresponsible.
