My husband and I have been together for 10 years. We have been married for 3. We have never discussed children. He is 30 and I am 28 soon to be 29. I have always wanted kids and I am only assuming that he does. But, we never talk about it. All of our friends have kids. We are both paramedic/firefighters and our jobs take alot of our time. I have almost came to the idea that I will not be having a child. I figured that if we were going to have one, we would have already started discussing it. The rest of my problem is that my brother in law is proposing to his girlfriend on xmas. She wants to have a baby as soon as possible. That is all she talks about. The inlaws will be so happy about that, they want grandkids soon. I don't know what to do. I know that I am rambling, I was just wondering if anybody had any advice or input.