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jenifercarrillo

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I Get to Keep My Baby!
Posted: 11-23-04 18:36pm

I get to keep my baby, I get to keep my baby, I get to keep my baby! Oh did ya'll hear I get to keep my baby! I am sssssooooo happy, my mom and I got into a really big fight and I just all of a sudden blurted out that I didnt want her to adopt my baby. I told her that no one could do a better job at loving and nurturing my baby than me and to prove it to her I got a job ( which wasn't easy because im only 16 and they are really harsh about child labor laws in houston) but I just wanted to let my girlies know that ya'll were right and all I had to do is tell her no you cant adopt my child. And guess what she cant do anything about it!!!!!!!!! Thank ya'll so much if it wasnt for all of you I dont think I would have ever grown big enough balls to tell my mom that she cant have my baby! Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing
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rlr79

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Posted: 11-23-04 18:49pm

That's so cool for you - I love seeing people so happy. It seems like you have a good head on your shoulders - it is going to be hard being so young but it's not impossible. Good luck to you!
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Tazzy D

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Posted: 11-23-04 18:52pm

rlr79 wrote:
that's so cool for you - I love seeing people so happy. It seems like you have a good head on your shoulders - it is going to be hard being so young but it's not impossible. Good luck to you!


i second that.... Now you just need to let your mom know that you love her and that you need her there for you for support and more, and that you want her to be apart of you and you baby's life.
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justacanadiangirl

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Posted: 11-23-04 20:31pm

Oh that's great :d congrats. I'm sure u'll be an excellent mother, and I agree with tazzy, talk to your mom and make sure she knows that u love her and still need her support and everything.
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nmmama2005

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Posted: 11-23-04 21:48pm

Congrats Exclamation Exclamation Exclamation Exclamation Exclamation

*~*~*~*~*~*~*wishes u the best of luck*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~
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Newmommy23

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Posted: 11-24-04 00:06am

Congrats and goodluck!! God bless!
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l2at24

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Posted: 11-24-04 00:16am

Congratulations! You'll be a great mommy.
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lil_blaze2004

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Posted: 11-24-04 09:30am

Yay jennifer now you don't have to move up here to canada!!!! Lol.

Good luck
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BeckLyn

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Posted: 11-24-04 10:10am

Congrats!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm so happy for u! Good work on getting the job too. Sounds like you'll be a great mommy. Sounds like u r responsible and really care about ur baby! If u need to talk ever, we r here!
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jessamyn

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Posted: 11-24-04 10:53am

Thats great jen! Seriously I am sooo proud... But now job hunt! Find somewhere and preferably somewhere that will give you materity leave... Be a cashier in a department store or something... Now that you getta be a full time mommy we need you to get the support of one... Hows greg? And hows the relationship with your mom? Theres gunna be alot of fights to come until you prove yourself to her... I mean my mom and I still get in nit fits and i'm a few stages ahead of you! I wish you the best girly!
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kitty2luv

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Posted: 11-24-04 13:02pm

That is great congrats
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jenifercarrillo

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Location: Houston,Tx
Thanks You Girls
Posted: 11-24-04 20:02pm

I am so glad that I have a group of girls that cares about me so much! I started my job today at agaci-too it's a clothing store. Greg and I am great and I think they are going to let him off because in texas there isnt enought money to prosecute people who are being charged only by the state (becasue my mom isnt pressing charges anymore) so I told greg that at every doctor visit im going to video tape the ultra sound so he can see the baby's heart beat and see me ball like a lil baby. Hehe. I plan to move in with him when I turn 18 (we are'nt going to mess up again) he now has a steady good paying job and we just found out that he is considered a citizen!!! Everything seems to be looking up and I know that in my darkest moments all of the girls at this forum were here for me and I just want to say thank you for that! I love ya'll!!!!!!!!!!!
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Tazzy D

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Re: Thanks You Girls
Posted: 11-24-04 20:17pm

jenifercarrillo wrote:
i am so glad that I have a group of girls that cares about me so much! I started my job today at agaci-too it's a clothing store. Greg and I am great and I think they are going to let him off because in texas there isnt enought money to prosecute people who are being charged only by the state (becasue my mom isnt pressing charges anymore) so I told greg that at every doctor visit im going to video tape the ultra sound so he can see the baby's heart beat and see me ball like a lil baby. Hehe. I plan to move in with him when I turn 18 (we are'nt going to mess up again) he now has a steady good paying job and we just found out that he is considered a citizen!!! Everything seems to be looking up and I know that in my darkest moments all of the girls at this forum were here for me and I just want to say thank you for that! I love ya'll!!!!!!!!!!!




you are so welcome.. Have you spoke to your mom
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justacanadiangirl

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Re: Thanks You Girls
Posted: 11-24-04 20:29pm

jenifercarrillo wrote:
i am so glad that I have a group of girls that cares about me so much! I started my job today at agaci-too it's a clothing store. Greg and I am great and I think they are going to let him off because in texas there isnt enought money to prosecute people who are being charged only by the state (becasue my mom isnt pressing charges anymore) so I told greg that at every doctor visit im going to video tape the ultra sound so he can see the baby's heart beat and see me ball like a lil baby. Hehe. I plan to move in with him when I turn 18 (we are'nt going to mess up again) he now has a steady good paying job and we just found out that he is considered a citizen!!! Everything seems to be looking up and I know that in my darkest moments all of the girls at this forum were here for me and I just want to say thank you for that! I love ya'll!!!!!!!!!!!


you are very very welcome. I'm very happy for u Smile tazzy's right, talk to your mom about all this.
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jessamyn

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Posted: 11-24-04 23:48pm

Omg thatsso great about greg... Goodluck with ur job
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jenifercarrillo

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Posted: 11-25-04 02:14am

Well my mom and my relationship will never be the same but we are being civil! Lol. I told her that even know she wasnt adopting my baby that I still needed her emotionally and she seemed to like that, so I hope this starts a new chapter and my mom and I can finally have something in common; motherhood!!!!
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l2at24

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Posted: 11-25-04 06:36am

She'll come around. And she will definately become one of your biggest supporters. My dad didn't talk to me for 3 months when he found out I was pregnant. I thought our relationship would never be the same. It's three years later and it's better now than it's ever been. Who can stay mad when there is a beautiful, innocent baby? :d
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lil_blaze2004

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Posted: 11-25-04 08:48am

jenifercarrillo wrote:
well my mom and my relationship will never be the same but we are being civil! Lol. I told her that even know she wasnt adopting my baby that I still needed her emotionally and she seemed to like that, so I hope this starts a new chapter and my mom and I can finally have something in common; motherhood!!!!


u never know. When I was 18 my mom called the cops on me and got me thrown in jail (for a week). I did not speak to her for almost 1 year and now we are closer than ever (i am 25). It took some time but I realize now I put her through a lot and she just wanted what was best for me. So give it time.
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Newmommy23

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Posted: 11-25-04 12:16pm

I honestlt hated my mother for the longest time as a teen but I think that is normal for tennage girl's. My mother is now my best friend and we r going to be living together again and I am 23. I would be dead w/o her even though I didn't think so then!!
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Moira

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Posted: 11-25-04 12:18pm

newmommy23 wrote:
i honestlt hated my mother for the longest time as a teen but I think that is normal for tennage girl's.


same here!

I'm so pleased for you jen - now that stress is over yu can really start planning for the baby!
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