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jenifercarrillo
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Oct 2004 Posts: 143 Location: Houston,Tx
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I Get to Keep My Baby!
Posted: 11-23-04 18:36pm
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rlr79
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Oct 2004 Posts: 75 Location: California
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Posted: 11-23-04 18:49pm
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That's so cool for you - I love seeing
people so happy. It seems like you have
a good head on your shoulders - it is
going to be hard being so young but it's
not impossible. Good luck to you!
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Tazzy D
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 30 Oct 2004 Posts: 3717 Location: , va
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Posted: 11-23-04 18:52pm
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| rlr79
wrote: | | that's so cool for you - I
love seeing people so happy. It seems
like you have a good head on your
shoulders - it is going to be hard being
so young but it's not impossible. Good
luck to you! |
i second that.... Now you just need to
let your mom know that you love her and
that you need her there for you for
support and more, and that you want her to
be apart of you and you baby's life.
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justacanadiangirl
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Joined: 19 Nov 2004 Posts: 1803
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Posted: 11-23-04 20:31pm
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Oh that's great :d congrats. I'm sure
u'll be an excellent mother, and I agree
with tazzy, talk to your mom and make sure
she knows that u love her and still need
her support and everything.
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nmmama2005
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Oct 2004 Posts: 164 Location: New Mexico
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Newmommy23
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Sep 2004 Posts: 727 Location: Dyess AFB, TX
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Posted: 11-24-04 00:06am
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Congrats and goodluck!! God bless!
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l2at24
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Nov 2004 Posts: 1509
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Posted: 11-24-04 00:16am
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Congratulations! You'll be a great
mommy.
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 11-24-04 09:30am
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Yay jennifer now you don't have to move up
here to canada!!!! Lol.
Good luck
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BeckLyn
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Nov 2004 Posts: 476
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Posted: 11-24-04 10:10am
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Congrats!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm so happy
for u! Good work on getting the job too.
Sounds like you'll be a great mommy.
Sounds like u r responsible and really
care about ur baby! If u need to talk
ever, we r here!
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jessamyn
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Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4101 Location: San Diego, CA
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Posted: 11-24-04 10:53am
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Thats great jen! Seriously I am sooo
proud... But now job hunt! Find
somewhere and preferably somewhere that
will give you materity leave... Be a
cashier in a department store or
something... Now that you getta be a full
time mommy we need you to get the support
of one... Hows greg? And hows the
relationship with your mom? Theres gunna
be alot of fights to come until you prove
yourself to her... I mean my mom and I
still get in nit fits and i'm a few stages
ahead of you! I wish you the best girly!
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kitty2luv
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2004 Posts: 1089 Location: with my love
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jenifercarrillo
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Oct 2004 Posts: 143 Location: Houston,Tx
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Thanks You Girls
Posted: 11-24-04 20:02pm
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I am so glad that I have a group of girls
that cares about me so much! I started my
job today at agaci-too it's a clothing
store. Greg and I am great and I think
they are going to let him off because in
texas there isnt enought money to
prosecute people who are being charged
only by the state (becasue my mom isnt
pressing charges anymore) so I told greg
that at every doctor visit im going to
video tape the ultra sound so he can see
the baby's heart beat and see me ball like
a lil baby. Hehe. I plan to move in with
him when I turn 18 (we are'nt going to
mess up again) he now has a steady good
paying job and we just found out that he
is considered a citizen!!! Everything
seems to be looking up and I know that in
my darkest moments all of the girls at
this forum were here for me and I just
want to say thank you for that! I love
ya'll!!!!!!!!!!!
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Tazzy D
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 30 Oct 2004 Posts: 3717 Location: , va
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Re: Thanks You Girls
Posted: 11-24-04 20:17pm
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| jenifercarrillo
wrote: | | i am so glad that I have a
group of girls that cares about me so
much! I started my job today at
agaci-too it's a clothing store. Greg
and I am great and I think they are going
to let him off because in texas there isnt
enought money to prosecute people who are
being charged only by the state (becasue
my mom isnt pressing charges anymore) so I
told greg that at every doctor visit im
going to video tape the ultra sound so he
can see the baby's heart beat and see me
ball like a lil baby. Hehe. I plan to
move in with him when I turn 18 (we are'nt
going to mess up again) he now has a
steady good paying job and we just found
out that he is considered a citizen!!!
Everything seems to be looking up and I
know that in my darkest moments all of the
girls at this forum were here for me and I
just want to say thank you for that! I
love
ya'll!!!!!!!!!!! |
you are so welcome.. Have you spoke to
your mom
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justacanadiangirl
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Nov 2004 Posts: 1803
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Re: Thanks You Girls
Posted: 11-24-04 20:29pm
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| jenifercarrillo
wrote: | | i am so glad that I have a
group of girls that cares about me so
much! I started my job today at
agaci-too it's a clothing store. Greg
and I am great and I think they are going
to let him off because in texas there isnt
enought money to prosecute people who are
being charged only by the state (becasue
my mom isnt pressing charges anymore) so I
told greg that at every doctor visit im
going to video tape the ultra sound so he
can see the baby's heart beat and see me
ball like a lil baby. Hehe. I plan to
move in with him when I turn 18 (we are'nt
going to mess up again) he now has a
steady good paying job and we just found
out that he is considered a citizen!!!
Everything seems to be looking up and I
know that in my darkest moments all of the
girls at this forum were here for me and I
just want to say thank you for that! I
love
ya'll!!!!!!!!!!! |
you are very very welcome. I'm very happy
for u tazzy's right, talk
to your mom about all this.
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jessamyn
Moderator
Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4101 Location: San Diego, CA
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Posted: 11-24-04 23:48pm
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Omg thatsso great about greg... Goodluck
with ur job
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jenifercarrillo
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Oct 2004 Posts: 143 Location: Houston,Tx
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Posted: 11-25-04 02:14am
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Well my mom and my relationship will never
be the same but we are being civil! Lol.
I told her that even know she wasnt
adopting my baby that I still needed her
emotionally and she seemed to like that,
so I hope this starts a new chapter and my
mom and I can finally have something in
common; motherhood!!!!
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l2at24
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Nov 2004 Posts: 1509
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Posted: 11-25-04 06:36am
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She'll come around. And she will
definately become one of your biggest
supporters. My dad didn't talk to me for
3 months when he found out I was pregnant.
I thought our relationship would never
be the same. It's three years later and
it's better now than it's ever been. Who
can stay mad when there is a beautiful,
innocent baby? :d
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 11-25-04 08:48am
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| jenifercarrillo
wrote: | | well my mom and my
relationship will never be the same but we
are being civil! Lol. I told her that
even know she wasnt adopting my baby that
I still needed her emotionally and she
seemed to like that, so I hope this starts
a new chapter and my mom and I can finally
have something in common;
motherhood!!!! |
u never know. When I was 18 my mom
called the cops on me and got me thrown in
jail (for a week). I did not speak to
her for almost 1 year and now we are
closer than ever (i am 25). It took some
time but I realize now I put her through a
lot and she just wanted what was best for
me. So give it time.
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Newmommy23
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Sep 2004 Posts: 727 Location: Dyess AFB, TX
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Posted: 11-25-04 12:16pm
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I honestlt hated my mother for the longest
time as a teen but I think that is normal
for tennage girl's. My mother is now my
best friend and we r going to be living
together again and I am 23. I would be
dead w/o her even though I didn't think so
then!!
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Moira
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Nov 2004 Posts: 302 Location: somewhere where it rains a lot
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Posted: 11-25-04 12:18pm
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| newmommy23
wrote: | | i honestlt hated my mother
for the longest time as a teen but I think
that is normal for tennage girl's.
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same here!
I'm so pleased for you jen - now that
stress is over yu can really start
planning for the baby!
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