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bugbunny
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Pls Help , Would She Be Able to Have Pain Free Sex
Posted: 11-24-04 21:51pm
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After getting married, when I started
having sex with my wife, she had a sort of
pain when I entered. As I felt her
vaginal hole was too narrow and that gave
her the pain. And she was not getting wet
either. So I used a lub but still she was
having the pain and this was a great
barrier to our sex life.
Now she's given birth to a baby (normal
delivery). And she got teared and got
stitches on it. And it's been 3 weeks
after the delivery. Now when I inspected
her privates , I see it a bit larger and
the hole seems to be bigger ( I am not
exactly sure if I am fancying it).
Can any body say , if u know
does the vaginal hole becomes wider after
a natural delivery ?
So would I be able to have easy sex here
after ? ( without giving her any pain)
can any body pls reply me. Have any of u
had a similar problem and have u come out
of it after a natural birth.
U r replies r gretely appriciated
thanks in advance
bugbunny
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l2at24
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Posted: 11-24-04 23:11pm
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Some women do stay a little 'stretched
out'. Some go back to normal, and on
rare occasion some become tighter. It
will take a few months for her to heal
completely, as far as any stretching. I
think it will probably be more comfortable
for you both.
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bugbunny
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Pls Answer
Posted: 11-25-04 04:30am
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Hi every body
pls answer my question. I am sure , all
the married ones have their
own experience and can contribute .
Pls do so
i am so helpless
thanks
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l2at24
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Posted: 11-25-04 06:26am
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Uh, hello! I answered. What am i?
Chopped liver? 
i've been married for 6 years and have 2
babies.
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PattyV
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Posted: 11-26-04 10:51am
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If it's only been 3 weeks since she
delivered,you still have a few more weeks
for her to heal.She may have indeed
widened a bit,but you said she was too
tight before.Don't go by a visual
"inspection",when she's healed and feeling
like being intimate,go by how she
feels!Your sex life may be better if she
is not so tight.Just go easy and use a
silicone based lubricant-i like
astroglide!Good luck.Patty
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bugbunny
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Is It Ok to Use the Jelly On the Condom
Posted: 11-29-04 04:31am
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Is it ok to use the jelly on the condom
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l2at24
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Posted: 11-29-04 05:46am
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If you're talking about lubricant, yes.
Make sure it's water based, most are, but
some people use vaseline. Don't use
vaseline. Astroglide and ky jelly are
perfect.
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bugbunny
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I Am Eagerly Waiting
Posted: 11-29-04 06:33am
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It's been months since we had intercouse
i am eagerly waiting till the 14 th of
this month to enjoy the night.
He he ...............
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l2at24
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Posted: 11-29-04 10:28am
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Well, remember she might be sore. Go
slow, and let her tell you what to do.
We waited awhile after our last baby and I
wasn't in pain at all. So, she might
like be that too. Have fun!
Last edited by l2at24 on 12-01-04 01:15am; edited 1 time in total
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bugbunny
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What's That (to L2at24)?
Posted: 11-30-04 22:02pm
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Hi l2at24
thanks
one more think to know.
Whan I inspected her vagina, I saw some
thing at the opening just above the
vaginal hole. This is a piece of flesh (
rather like a ball ). I had never noticed
this before she delivered . May be at
that time the opening was not that clear
for me to notice this. I am not exactly
sure. What's this ? Is it normal ?
Thanks again
bugbunny
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l2at24
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Posted: 12-01-04 01:20am
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Unless it's bothering her, don't worry
about it. I'm sure it's perfectly
normal. Oh, by the way, make sure you
don't make her worry about her vagina, and
what it looks/feels like after child
birth. I'm sure it's on her mind enough.
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PattyV
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Posted: 12-01-04 13:27pm
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Please tell me he's not discovering her
clitoris for the first time!!!!??Is this
"flesh" right above her vaginal
opening??Does it become erect when you
touch it?If that is the case,that is your
wife's clitoris.It has always been there
and is responsible for her pleasure.If you
did not know about this part of her-make
up for lost time!If you can focus on her
clitoris,she may become more receptive to
your love life!Patty
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bugbunny
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No It's Not the Clit
Posted: 12-01-04 23:57pm
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Hi,
I know the clit. It's external. The
piece of this flesh is inside the vaginal
hole and is right at the opening .
Is it ok to use the morning after pill
when she's breast feeding ?
Thanks
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l2at24
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Posted: 12-02-04 00:53am
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No! It is not safe. Have her ask her
doctor about birth control while
breast-feeding. I am nursing too, and I
take a birth control pill for nursing
women. It's nickname is the 'mini pill'.
She could also have an iud inserted.
There isn't much that is safe while she's
nursing.
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PattyV
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Posted: 12-03-04 22:57pm
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Okay-good.I was a little worried there for
a minute.Sorry,but I thought you were
talking about your wife's clitoris.Glad to
know that you are familiar with it!!!
 .Patty
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2ferano
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Posted: 12-04-04 20:47pm
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Lol. I thought he was talking about her
clit too.
Also, just to add to the whole "stretching
out thing" yes, of course she stretched
she just gave birth, but most women will
go back to exactly how they were before
birth.
Did you ever stop to think that maybe it
isn't the fact that she is too "tight"
that intercourse hurts her? There are
several other reasons why intercourse can
hurt a woman. Tipped uterus, cervix,
etc. Many, many things. It could also
be psychological.
If you aren't planning on another baby
then use condoms, or she can go on the
pill. No, the morning after pill is not
safe during breastfeeding nor is it
suppose to be taken more than two or three
times in a woman's lifetime, so you can't
be relying on that.
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bugbunny
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About the Pill
Posted: 12-07-04 03:03am
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Hi,
can u pls tell me the name of the birth
control pill to be used during pregnancy
and how it should be used.
Thanks
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l2at24
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Posted: 12-07-04 08:40am
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The pill used during breastfeeding aka
'mini pill' is micronor. I am taking a
generic version called nora-be. There is
another generic that i've taken, I can't
remember the name. Her doctor will help
her decide the right form of birth
control. She could also get an iud.
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