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flutegirlpro
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Nov 2004 Posts: 1 Location: Florida
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Please Help!!!! 15 And Possibly Pregnant???
Posted: 11-28-04 13:36pm
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Hi! I'm 15 years old and I had sex 4 tha
1st time like 2 weeks ago we didn't use a
condom. And I was supposed 2 have my
period already and I haven't so im worried
I might b pregnant! I've taken 2
pregnancy tests already and they came out
neg. Could there still b a chance im
pregnant? I really dont kno wut 2 do.
 how
soon after having sex do u start getting
symptoms of pregnancy? I really need some
advice!! Please help me!!
Thank you!
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oangelc543
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2004 Posts: 521 Location: TX
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Posted: 11-28-04 20:12pm
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Hi there, when exactly was your period
due? Are they usually regular?.. It
might be too early to tell, but i'd say
wait a few days take another one, then go
to the doctors for a blood test because
that is the most accurate.
Btw, im michelle, i'm 15 as well.. And im
15 weeks preggo with my first, so if u
ever need anything else, u can pm me.
Goodluck, and keep us posted 
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kitty2luv
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2004 Posts: 1089 Location: with my love
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Posted: 11-28-04 22:08pm
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I sucks waiting lol im amanda 17 ....2
weeks late for my period 2 preg test both
negtive I feel like crap
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......... How late are u ?
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BeckLyn
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Nov 2004 Posts: 476
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Posted: 11-29-04 14:14pm
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Why didn't u use a condomn? Hun, even if
the preg thing isn't a huge worry to u
(which it sounds like it is) u should be
worried bout diseases. Regardless. Use
protection. Yes there could still be a
chance with 2 neg urine tests. It is
prob too soon to test. Also make sure
when u do test it is in the morning.
Some women only get neg urine tests, but
that is rare. Good luck
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kitty2luv
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2004 Posts: 1089 Location: with my love
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Posted: 11-29-04 14:28pm
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Me? I did use a condom with the father
that I might b preg w/ im going 2 the gyno
sat to see what happends
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BeckLyn
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Nov 2004 Posts: 476
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Posted: 11-29-04 14:31pm
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Not u kitty, silly. I meant my post for
flutegirl....
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SHM85
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Sep 2004 Posts: 34 Location: United States
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Posted: 11-29-04 15:32pm
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My advice... Keep your legs closed !!!
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marta Hernandez
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Nov 2004 Posts: 2
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Posted: 11-29-04 15:35pm
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I was 16 when I first got pregnant and the
symptoms were there the next day. Go
and get a pregnancy test done by a doctor.
Do not start taking stuff over the
counter or anything that will jeopardize
your health. I don't know if you talked
to your parents about being sexually
active or not. I think that the best
thing is to do so and get help from them.
My friend lost her life because she
started listening to advise from other
kids her age and never told her parents
and she went to get an abortion and lost
her life in the process . Please don't
be afraid to talk to your parents. It
doesn't seem like they are cool, but when
it comes to stuff like this you should get
advise from them. They don't want bad
things to happen to you. Remember that
they love you. 
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justacanadiangirl
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Nov 2004 Posts: 1803
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Posted: 11-29-04 16:00pm
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Flutegirlpro- i'm vienna, 18, almost a
month late and I still don't know for
sure. My advice to u, take a blood test.
Depending on how late u are, maybe u
should wait a few days...I know it's hard
to wait and not know. And u have to know,
even with condoms and other protection,
there's always a chance of pregnancy. My
bf and I used condoms and still i'm
worried I might be pregnant. Get a test
soon so u don't have to worry. Blood
tests are pretty accurate, ur urine tests
could be wrong. Don't just waste time
worrying hun. And don't be afraid to talk
to ur parents. They love u and will give
u their support.
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JeNNy985
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Oct 2004 Posts: 295 Location: INDIANA!!!
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Posted: 11-30-04 12:47pm
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Okay whoever you are that said keep your
legs closed that was just rude! She came
on here for advice and she's probably
really confused so the nasty negative
comments can stay in your mouth!
Anyways... Hun you probably should have
used a condom but you live and you learn!
Next time you know what to do! Secondly,
you just need to wait it out for about
another 4-6 days and try another preg.
Test! I hope this helps and keep us
posted!
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wiannie
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Nov 2004 Posts: 1 Location: canada
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Posted: 11-30-04 13:24pm
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Hi girls, i'm doing a project in school
about teens getting pregnant and if their
relationships change between them and
their moms, could anyone help me out in
finding answers to this subject??? You
can email me or pm me... My email is coryannandbrandonforever@hotmail.
Com so if any of you have answers
please email me thank you girls :p
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cookie_06
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Nov 2004 Posts: 10 Location: Jennings
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Hey
Posted: 11-30-04 19:27pm
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Well the problem with pregnanct tests is
that some say that they work after your
missed period. But dont get all worked up
the chances of them being wrong, even both
are slim. But it is a possablity, a girl
I know took 4 and they all said the same
thing that she was preg. Maybe you should
relax. Sry I cant be of more help
though... :d
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Crysy
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Dec 2004 Posts: 38 Location: sc
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Im Only 15 Too..
Posted: 12-29-04 21:29pm
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Well..My boyfriend and I have been dating
for about 2 years now..We started having
sex a c0uple of months ago..Im on the
birthcontroll patch and we always use a
condom...Last month I was off of the patch
for medical reasons..And we had sex a
couple of times *with protection* I had my
period about 2 weeks ago..But I heard u
can have ur period when ur pregnant...Ive
been having heartburn..Cramps..Alot of
discharge..Kinda bloated..Nasuea..And
lightheaded...My period was supose to
started today but since im back on the
patch its kinda late...Im not sure im
pregnant..I hope not considering im only
15..And ive givin up sex..Completely until
im married..Im jus too paranoid lol
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Crysy
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Dec 2004 Posts: 38 Location: sc
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Posted: 12-30-04 12:23pm
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And also..Me and my boyfriend check the
condoms after we are done..We fill them up
with water..And there have been no holes??
Its confusing..But is there still a
chance???
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cookie_06
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Nov 2004 Posts: 10 Location: Jennings
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Well....
Posted: 12-30-04 22:06pm
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There is always a chance but I doubt it
maybe its all in your head. And anyways
there can always be a microscopic hole in
the condom one that can be seen or
detected by the human eye.... Sorry to
tell you this just though you should
know... I really hope for your sake your
not either...
Cookie :!: (luck)!!!
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Crysy
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Dec 2004 Posts: 38 Location: sc
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Posted: 12-30-04 22:51pm
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But if water doesnt come through then
clearly sperm wont considering its a lot
thicker..?
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MaeTaylor3
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jan 2005 Posts: 2
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Posted: 01-04-05 17:31pm
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Keep your legs closed???? That is quite
possibly the meanest thing ive ever heard
in my life!! Not only that, but it was
immature and you dont know what she's
going through! Like another person
mentioned earlier, she came here for help,
so dont make nasty comments about
something that you clearly dont know
about! Im 16, and I just had sex for the
first time and freeking out about it
aswell!
And to flutegirlpro, get to a doctor to
get tested for stds and pregnancy! The
doctor wont tell your parents if thats
something your worried about because they
have to respect patient-doctor
confidentiality, and if you need money or
a ride whatever, try going to a friend, or
make up a reason to go to the doctor. For
example, to get on birth controle, I told
my mom that I wanted to get on that
seasonel stuff so that I would only get my
period 4 times a year, or just say that
you have irregular periods and want to get
that worked out! Although, I would highly
suggest that you be open and honest w/
your parents cause thats always the best
way to go!! Best of luck to you!!
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needingadvice
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jan 2005 Posts: 2 Location: Saskatoon
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Oh God Help Me! Almost 17 Without Help
Posted: 01-06-05 21:50pm
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Hi,...Well im almost 17, in like two
months and im really scared because first
of all im not in a relationship with the
guy that I really like, but we had
sex....It wasn't my first time and I did
make him wear a condom but surprise
surprise I didn't know but he took it off
great eh? Yeah I think its just dandy
too not! Im so scared, its been like 20
days since we did it...We did it the day
after my period was over....I dont think
he got anything inside of me because I
think he pulled out but I am not sure if
he got any around it or not, im really
scared....Im supposed to get my period in
about well a week or so, im kinda scared
because I dont know whats gonna happen ive
had a scare like this before and I told my
parents and I wasnt! So I scared them for
nothing and now this time if I really am
and I miss my period I wont know what the
heck to do because telling them would be
like walking in front of a bus. If I was
they would seriously kill me and ask me
why I didn't learn but its not my fault
that he took it off! Ugh! I dont want
a baby im only almost 17, going into grade
12 this fall I dont want a baby plus he
doesn't even love me, were not even
dating, this would really stir things up,
anyone have any advice? I dont think ive
really been having many symptoms, im
probably making myself think im having
symptoms but I still want some advice on
what to do about talking to my parents and
how I should feel if I am!!! Almost 17
without help...What now?! :!:
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jfultyn
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Oct 2004 Posts: 2
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Adoption
Posted: 01-27-05 18:46pm
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Hi,
i would just urge you, if you are
pregnant, and you don't want the baby,
please give the baby up for adoption
instead of abortion.
My husband and I have been trying to have
a baby for 3+ years, and now we are
looking into adoption. We were talking
of adopting a baby even before we got
married. It is so hard to adopt a
newborn in the usa unless word of mouth or
god is with you to help you through an
agency. Well, it will be easy if god is
with me, but I progress.
I know that it would be very hard to go
through the pregnancy, the labor, and then
give the baby up, but that is the best
thing for the baby.
Thank you,
jackie
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unknowngirl504
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Dec 2004 Posts: 51 Location: New Orleans
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Posted: 01-28-05 14:05pm
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I am not usually a negative person because
I choose to hold my tongue. But, for some
reason, I was blown away by this post. I
understand that young people get pregnant
too, maybe because no morals were
instilled. I am 19, and i'm probably like
a month and a half late. I haven't had
any symptoms of pregnancy. I believe it's
from me stopping the patch. Although when
I stopped it I was having unprotected sex
and about a month later I had a very light
brown passing. It only lasted about 3/4
days and wasn't painfull at all, unlike my
normal period. I have been with my fiance
for 2 years now. I really cannot afford
to get pregnant not only money wise, but
i'm starting college in april and that
would totally suck. So far nothing, and
the light bleeding came at the beginning
of december. So i'm really messed up. I
continue to have unprotected sex out of
habbit.
The reason I say the thing about the
morals is because parents are supposed to
teach their "children" that having sex
with a man for comfort is not a way to
live. What do you think you would do if
your little 15 year old baby had a baby?
I am definately not trying to preach or
say that i'm holier than thou but at 15 I
knew that unprotected sex would be a
really stupid idea. Think of the diseases
your making your self suseptible to at
such a young age. Yikes...I'm 19 and I
still cringe at diseases and viruses. I
had my fair share of sex in my day...But I
was protected!! Who cares if your mom or
dad sees condoms in your purse...At least
you use them!! Come on girls...We've got
to do better than this...We are really
biting off more than we can chew ya
know?Do you realize that your immaturity
is going to reflect horribly on your
children.
All of you young girls...Where are the
fathers of these poor babies??
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