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SamiNSunisMa
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Nov 2004 Posts: 1528
Posted: 11-30-04 03:39am
Im confused....
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Imstillalive
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Joined: 08 Aug 2004 Posts: 19
Posted: 12-13-04 21:07pm
I want this post deleted!!!!!!!!!
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sam47
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Joined: 01 Dec 2004 Posts: 23
Hey Posted: 12-13-04 21:26pm
Look, it's all about confidence. You have
to have faith in yourself. If you are
good looking, then women might want to
talk to you. What if they are too shy?
You have to be brave. Nothing is stopping
you from meeting except you. Just start
out with a conversation. What's the worst
that can happen?
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MyLoveBugs
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Joined: 13 Dec 2004 Posts: 42
No One Likes Me Posted: 12-14-04 22:19pm
I think that if you like someone you
should approach them. Everyone is afraid
of rejection, but that will happen
sometimes. Everyone has their own taste
in men and women, and you never know they
may feel the same way as you as far as
being shy. So be confident about
yourself, and talk to someone if you are
attracted to them. Good luck!
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PureLime
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Joined: 19 Dec 2004 Posts: 2
Posted: 12-19-04 23:59pm
I'm shy too. I've very shy (social
anxiety disorder). I know it's hard to
ask someone out when you are shy,
especially if you have a fear of
rejection. -but you need too look past
that. I got my first boyfriend over a
year ago, and I actually asked him out. I
realized that if I didn't make a move,
then i'd sit in the same unhappy place.
Just know that if you get rejected, then
they are not the one for you and move on.
There is someone for everyone. I look at
it this way......Someone always likes you.
There is someone (probabily that you know
already) who at this very moment that
thinks you are the cutest thing out there.
Thinks that you are a great guy. You
just need to find her. How can you find
her if you don't try? Try asking out a
girl. Practice what you are gonig to say
and try.
-good luck and stay positive-
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pebblesinthesun
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Joined: 07 Jan 2005 Posts: 14 Location: Florida
Nobody Likes Me Posted: 01-07-05 22:54pm
I'm no expert. I only work in a mental
hospital. And we have posters up all over
the place about people who might be
"allergic to people" its an anxiety
disorder. You might want to ask you
doctor about it. Or call your local
mental health office for some help. This
is a treatable problem.
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ramona
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Joined: 20 Jan 2005 Posts: 5
Posted: 01-20-05 01:00am
I think you should at least start with
saying "hi " to people - ask them how its
going - then you can work up to actually
asking someone out after you feel more
comfortable saying hi .
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mgncreighton
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Joined: 20 Jan 2005 Posts: 1
Re: Nobody Likes Me Posted: 01-20-05 06:42am
imstillalive
wrote:
i think that people would
rather go out with an ape or freak than
me. I was watching something on tv that
this attractive girl married this man who
looked like an ape. I'm 23 years old
and i've never had a girlfriend, because
i'm too shy. I work around lots of
girls, but i'm too nervous to talk to
anybody. I can't even say "hi" to them.
When I was valium I could say "hi" to
some girls, but I believe that valium made
me want to try to kill myself and it also
made me crazy. I think I look
good.
dont be so silly just go and say hello you
will be glad what makes you feel this
way.....
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robotman21
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Jan 2005 Posts: 17
Romantic Love Is a Lie Posted: 01-27-05 05:50am
I think romantic love is a lie. The real
purpose of it all is reproduction, which
is why we're all so "shallow". Really
when you think about it, the entire
process of "falling in love" is one of the
most selfish, selective, judgemental
processes humans engage in. Perhaps the
most selfish selective judgemental process
humans engage in. It's an animal
instinct; real love is not found through
any form of romance.
Real love is through friendships, through
love of life and oneself, through other
means.
Remember when you were a kid, before that
whole sex-drive thing kicked in? Times
were simpler, and truly happy. I think
happiness comes from going that route, and
focusing on your work, your passions and
real love of life itself rather than
selfish romance.
