a Bit Paranoid.. Maybe You All Can Help.. Posted: 11-30-04 15:12pm
Im 18 yr old female and last monday I just
had sex for the first time . It was with
a condom and because it hurt so much he
really didnt go in all the way. He said
he only 'pre-cummd' and than to make me
feel comfortable went to change the condom
but we didnt try again because it hurt me.
And I wasnt relaxing lol about 2 days
later I started getting cramps in my lower
abdominal area and I still have them till
today! (its tuesday the 30th) theyre
kinda like period cramps but im not
expecting mine till around the 13th.
Theyre so uncomfotable and of course the
first thing that comes to my mind is a
baby or disease. But it was protected and
would u even feel anything this early?
Maybe im just worrying about nothing. Im
scared now can someone help me
please.. Where can these cramps come
from?
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BeckLyn
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Nov 2004 Posts: 476
Posted: 11-30-04 15:15pm
I would say ur most likely just paranoid.
Very rarely would u have preg. Signs so
soon, so that is very unlikely. It
could, however, be a disease, but since u
used a condomn, I would wait for other
signs or until ur next pap smear to get
tested. Good luck
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bluebubble888
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Oct 2004 Posts: 499
Posted: 11-30-04 15:18pm
Yes~i agree.....You are just most likely
paranoid. However condoms do not always
prevent std's and such...So you should get
tested! Good luck!
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vespertine eyes
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Nov 2004 Posts: 5 Location: fl
:( Posted: 11-30-04 22:07pm
Stds?? Would you feel symptoms so
quickly? And what would indicate stomach
/menstrual like cramps? Help mmee
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bluebubble888
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Joined: 21 Oct 2004 Posts: 499
Posted: 12-01-04 07:22am
Yes~signs for sts's can show up the next
day....Just go to the gyno to make sure
everything is okay~and they can maybe give
you a blood test to find out if there is a
pregnancy~!!
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SamiNSunisMa
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Joined: 27 Nov 2004 Posts: 1528
Posted: 12-01-04 07:32am
*sigh* you do not have symptoms that early
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vespertine eyes
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Joined: 30 Nov 2004 Posts: 5 Location: fl
.. Posted: 12-01-04 09:23am
Is it possible that havin sex for the
first time can kinda bring your period
early? I havent had it yet.. I expect it
around the 12th..But I feel the symptoms..
Im just freaking out lol. I dont want a
baby I mean, everything
went fine.. But I feel like ill always
have that little doubt. I guess I should
get on birth control too..
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BeckLyn
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Joined: 04 Nov 2004 Posts: 476
Posted: 12-01-04 10:05am
Hmmm.. Not sure about that. But I def.
Think u shoudl get the std tests done. U
can have symptoms of those right away.
Good luck.
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vespertine eyes
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Joined: 30 Nov 2004 Posts: 5 Location: fl
Fd Posted: 12-01-04 11:01am
The cramps felt a little better today.. I
think im just stressing out way too much.
But I was wondering .. If I go to planned
parenthood can they give me std screening
or pregnancy test and get results quickly?
And do u have to pay alot? Because just
to ease my mind I want to take both. Also
can the gynecologist give me the same
tests? Because I figured im 18 already
and I havent been to a check up so might
as well go now and get everything over
with. I cant tell my parents.. How do I
pay for it? What about insurance? I dont
know anythin about this stuff!
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BeckLyn
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Nov 2004 Posts: 476
Posted: 12-01-04 15:14pm
U can use insurance but most likely ur
still on ur parents and the tests will
show up on there, so if u don't want them
to know u shouldn't use ur insurance. U
can go to planned parenthood and get
discounted rates. They can do all of the
tests. If u don't have a job, it may be
free for u. All u gotta do is fill out
paperwork and then ask them how much it
will be before having it done.
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vespertine eyes
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Nov 2004 Posts: 5 Location: fl
O Ok Posted: 12-01-04 18:25pm
Okay.. Because I am under my parents
still.. I can try planned parenthood
then..Thanks so much
can someone help me
please.. Where can these cramps come
from?
