I have dealt with a past affair about 6yrs
ago. Well I eat my way into a weight
problem from stress, I joined the gym, and
looked up and she comes through the door,
well to make a long story short, she was
over weight too, but now she has lost her
weight and she flaunts it around me if I
see her out somewhere. Now I have started
to lose, but I get bored and then mad, any
suggestions on what can keep me motivated
or has this happen to anyone?? We are
happy now and all is forgiven, until I see
that bit-h!
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blueangelz
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Oct 2004 Posts: 11 Location: NC
Smile Posted: 11-30-04 22:42pm
Just smile sweetly and keep going. Don't
lower yourself to her level. Act like the
lady you know you are and keep going. (no
matter how badly you might want to pull
the hair out of her head)
just keep in your head how good you will
feel when you get to the size you want to
be and how happy that will make you...Just
focus on yourself not on anything else. I
found it helped me to think about how I
would look and feel about myself if I set
a goal I wanted to reach. Good luck.
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zzebee
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Aug 2004 Posts: 8 Location: arkansas
Posted: 12-01-04 00:28am
Thanks for the support. I will try to
stay focus on my exercise. But you know
it's hard when you know someone is picking
and it takes all the power you have to
try not to grab her when she does these
things. I act as though I do not see her
but she slowly walks by and pretends to be
looking at something and stops in front of
me so I can see her. But, I will try and
I will meet my goal.. Thank you ...Z
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ravyn142003
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Jan 2005 Posts: 12 Location: kentucky
That Other Woman? Posted: 01-05-05 06:21am
Omg!!! If it were me, I would handle my
business with her and then handle my
business with myself! Her littel arrogant
self! Like she's better than you? Nah, I
don't think so............Kick her frickin
butt and then just forget about her!
Don't let her make you keep relivin that
situation by her taunting you girl!!! For
real............Just get it over with and
believe me, you will feel so much
better!!!! It's the only way to get over
it is to put her back down in her
place..............She is nothin!
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SCARLET32
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Oct 2004 Posts: 16 Location: MICHIGAN
Posted: 01-05-05 08:55am
Go to a different gym. You shouldnt have
to deal with that at all!! Sometimes it
takes moving away to cleanse the affair
out of your life, not that you should have
to move, but feeling like crap isn't a
good thing either. Good luck.
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zzebee
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Aug 2004 Posts: 8 Location: arkansas
Other Woman Posted: 01-11-05 20:56pm
Thanks for all of your suggestions,. I am
on my way to getting into shape. It has
been about a month or so since I had seen
her last , until last week when she walked
in the gym, but let me tell you!! She is
gainging her weight back! And she looks
so stressed!! Well I have been getting
alot of compliments lately on how I look,
so now it's on!!. Thank you all for
giving me all the support..Please keep
them comming... Wish me luck
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PattyV
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 May 2004 Posts: 1103 Location: Chicago area
Posted: 01-15-05 13:23pm
Good for you !!!Do not let the sight of
her upset you or stop you from your
goals.Living well is the best revenge.Just
do the best you can for yourself and do
not let her bother you.It may appear on
the outside that she is happy or thin or
whatever,but do not let yourself compare
yourself to her!Live your life and be
happy you do not have to live in her
head!Best to you!!!
Patty
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zzebee
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Aug 2004 Posts: 8 Location: arkansas
the Other Woman Posted: 01-21-05 16:20pm
Thank you for your reply vanessa, and
patty. I am really trying hard at this.
I will let everyone know how much weight
I have lost by the end of the year. I am
trying the positive thinking tapes. It is
so wonderful to hear such good advice from
everyone. Thanks. You all will help me
to reach my goal.!!...Z
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BADSAL
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Sep 2004 Posts: 257 Location: PA
Posted: 01-21-05 16:24pm
My mom always says "living well is the
best revenge".
just keep in your head how good you will
feel when you get to the size you want to
be and how happy that will make you...Just
focus on yourself not on anything else. I
found it helped me to think about how I
would look and feel about myself if I set
a goal I wanted to reach. Good luck.