How Do I Pleasure My Girl With My Fingers/hands? Posted: 12-01-04 12:49pm
Before we started having sex she was
really tight. I couldnt even get 2
fingers in. And when I did I could tell
she was liking it. But now she has
loosened up and when I finger her its like
she dosnt really feel it. How can I
pleasure her? Would tips techniques
should I use? And are there any websites(
preferably with pictures)
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PattyV
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 May 2004 Posts: 1103 Location: Chicago area
Posted: 12-01-04 13:21pm
Focus more on the clitoris,that's where
all the pleasure is!!(you do know where it
is???!!!)a lot of guys think pleasure
stems from the vagina and some does,but
the clit is by far the more sensitive
area.You can stimulate her clitoris,just
be sure to be gentle at first and find out
how much speed and pressure is right for
her.Happy hunting!Patty
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darkV
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Oct 2004 Posts: 43
Posted: 12-01-04 18:42pm
One thing,
it is so sensitive that sometimes direct
contact isnt comfortable. Indirect
throught skin or cloth sometimes works
best.
Darkv
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Granps
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Nov 2004 Posts: 225 Location: Arlington, TX
Posted: 12-01-04 19:03pm
Pattyv
you didn't mention the "g" spot. While
orally stimulating the clit, message the
"g" spot, also. My lady said she gets
the urge to urinate, but instead, has a
very intense, wet (not urine), climax.
If you haven't had this done to you, you
may have your friend stick his finger in
'bout 2 - 3" and gently push / message
toward the front of you. He should be
able to feel it. It will has a different
texture, too.
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PattyV
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 May 2004 Posts: 1103 Location: Chicago area
Posted: 12-01-04 20:09pm
Right you are granps!I thought it best to
start him out slowly,seeing as he is new
to the game!Let him find the clit
first,then move on to the 'g' spot.Baby
steps! .Patty
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Granps
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Nov 2004 Posts: 225 Location: Arlington, TX
Posted: 12-01-04 20:57pm
Pattyv
have you tried contacting sue (talk sex
with sue), or did I give you the link?
She is good for beginners. Her team
experiments w/ different sexual ideas /
items.
God, what a job. It would be hard to get
up in the morning, wouldn't it? :d
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PattyV
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 May 2004 Posts: 1103 Location: Chicago area
Posted: 12-01-04 21:07pm
I've seen her on tv,but have not contacted
her.I like her.She is no nonsense and to
the point!It would be a great job,telling
people how to get the most from their sex
lives!She seems to be the most unlikely
person to be telling you how to give a
good bj-i would expect a casserole recipe
from her more than sex tips!!Gotta love
cable!!Patty
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Granps
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Nov 2004 Posts: 225 Location: Arlington, TX
As a girl... Let me tell you... When
being fingered... The g spot is so
good... Try that!!! The clit is always
good, but I perfer to have the g spot
done, and than do the clit by myself...
Tell that to your girlfriend... Believe
me... She'll love it!!!
Peace!!!
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Bean_amw
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Jan 2005 Posts: 14 Location: Canada
Posted: 01-17-05 21:32pm
As a girl... Let me tell you... When
being fingered... The g spot is so
good... Try that!!! The clit is always
good, but I perfer to have the g spot
done, and than do the clit by myself...
Tell that to your girlfriend... Believe
me... She'll love it!!!
Peace!!!
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fairywonderland
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jul 2005 Posts: 10
Posted: 08-08-05 05:22am
I know that this topic is ollddddd but I
have to jump in! It feels so amazing if
my boyfriend puts his fingers in and moves
them in circular motions or pushes
forward, while he licks and sucks my
clitoris... Totally mindblowing, cant get
enough... And everytime it makes me want
to have sex with him immediately after I
orgasm, he says he loves the way he makes
me explode and then want to pleasure him
too! Its awesome :d
.Patty
:d 
