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ceecee4u
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Condom Stuck, Vaginal Bleeding....
Posted: 12-03-04 11:28am
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Oh my gosh!
The other day I had sex and when he was
doing it from behind he came and then
pulled out, when he pulled out the condom
slipped off and got stuck a little inside
me can I get pregnant? And is there a
chance a little semen leaked out? And
also I started to bleed a little when I
went to the bathroom and wiped after we
had sex. Now today i'm bleeding as if i'm
coming on my period. The last time I had
my period was nov. 16- nov 22 what is
going on I need advice!
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Tazzy D
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Posted: 12-03-04 11:40am
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You may have a tear or something which
blleding in that case could be normal..
Also did you get all of the condom out...
Third if semen did leak there is always a
possibility of getting pregnant... And
fourth if you still dont feel right you
can always go to your doctors.. Good luck
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l2at24
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Moira
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Posted: 12-03-04 12:30pm
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It's possible to get pregnant from this -
you can take the morning after pill up to
72 hours later. Is the bleeding very
heavy? If it's just light it's probably a
little tear, nothing to worry about - tell
him to be gentler next time! 
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ceecee4u
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Posted: 12-03-04 13:12pm
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Yes, he took the condom out with no
problem. It's just I don't know if semen
came out of the condom and when I moved
and got up the sheets was slight damp
after we had sex so I don't know if semen
got inside of me. I'm still kinda
bleeding not heavy anymore, but when I
wipe there is blood and I don't want to
take the day after pill I hate pills so
i'm gonna wait it out. And also the thing
is I don't get pregnant easily because I
had unprotected sex plenty of times before
and haven't got pregnant ever since I was
15. I hope I can get pregnant , but I
don't think I can due to a former
pregnancy in which I had an abortion.
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Tazzy D
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Posted: 12-03-04 13:24pm
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Just because you had an abortion that has
no reason why you cant get pregnant again
unless there where medical conditions that
happened during the abortion that will
prevent you from ever having children
again.. Anyway btw. You can always get
pregnat you just have been lucky not to
get pregnant.. And another thing I hope
that this is the same partner since 15
because if not stay on the look out for
std's or something more severe. Having
different partners does have a reflection
on your life. But anyways good luck hun
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Newmommy23
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Posted: 12-03-04 13:24pm
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Girl!! Do not trust that you will not get
pregnant cuz you didn't before. I had
unprotected sex w/my ex-fiance for almost
2 yrs and for almost a yr w/an ex. My
last ex bf and I were together for 3 mths
had unprotected sex twice and now I am
pregnant. Would you be ok w/being
pregnant?
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 12-03-04 13:31pm
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| ceecee4u
wrote: | | yes, he took the condom out
with no problem. It's just I don't know
if semen came out of the condom and when I
moved and got up the sheets was slight
damp after we had sex so I don't know if
semen got inside of me. I'm still kinda
bleeding not heavy anymore, but when I
wipe there is blood and I don't want to
take the day after pill I hate pills so
i'm gonna wait it out. And also the
thing is I don't get pregnant easily
because I had unprotected sex plenty of
times before and haven't got pregnant ever
since I was 15. I hope I can get
pregnant , but I don't think I can due to
a former pregnancy in which I had an
abortion. |
don't think that way- you'll get preggo
when you least expect it! I had a condom
get stuck in me too years ago and had a
little tear so it could be that. Go to
the doc's and check it out though.
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Moira
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Posted: 12-03-04 13:32pm
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| ceecee4u
wrote: | | i'm still kinda bleeding
not heavy anymore, but when I wipe there
is blood and I don't want to take the day
after pill I hate pills so i'm gonna wait
it out. |
you'd rather have 9 months of pregnancy or
an abortion than take a pill??? Oh dear.
| ceecee
wrote: | | and also the thing is I
don't get pregnant easily because I had
unprotected sex plenty of times before and
haven't got pregnant ever since I was 15.
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and? Just because you haven't got
pregnant before doing this doesn't mean
you won't now? 27% of women get pregnant
in a year of using the withdrawal method
for crying out loud; go on, take a guess
at how much higher the rate is without
withdrawal.
| ceecee
wrote: | | I hope I can get pregnant ,
but I don't think I can due to a former
pregnancy in which I had an
abortion. |
sterility from aborting is *very, very*
rare - you're more likely to become
sterile from childbirth. I'd be shocked
if you were infertile. Ever been checked
out by a doc or are you just playing
russian roulette?
Honey, if you want to get pregnant you are
going the right way. If you don't 1) take
emergency contreception. 2) go to your
local sexual health clinic and work out
what method of b/c suits you.
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ceecee4u
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Yes!!!!! And No!!!!!!!!!!!:(
Posted: 12-03-04 13:37pm
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I would be so happy it's just.... I don't
think I can... I pray I can becuase I
really want kids now or in the future.
And unfortunately he's not the same guy
when I was 15 he's someone i've been
seeing since early this year and we never
have unprotected sex. And no no no I do
not sleep around at all i'm still on one
hand!
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ceecee4u
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Posted: 12-03-04 13:47pm
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Reply2:you'd rather have 9 months of
pregnancy or an abortion than take a
pill??? Oh dear.
Yes I would rather be pregnant than take a
pill who woudn't! Anyways I would never
have another abortion so that's out of the
? All 2gether and I don't take pills so
that's never an option for me so I hope
that answered your ?
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Newmommy23
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Posted: 12-03-04 14:18pm
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Well if u r pregnant congrats!! Good luck
hun.
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l2at24
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Posted: 12-03-04 15:13pm
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I was with my husband for over 6 years,
and never got pregnant. Then we had 2
surprise baby's back to back. Be careful
girl.
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sarahsweet
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ceecee4u
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I Am...
Posted: 12-03-04 16:32pm
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I am 20 yrs old. Thanks I need the luck I
have days where I wanna be pregnant and
days I don't wanna be pregnant. All i'm
worried about is graduating college right
now, but if I happen to get pregnant
during my college yrs. I will keep my
baby and continue to go 2 school. I
appreciate everyone responding with
positive feedback and i'm sorry if I take
long to write back it's because of my dumb
computer, but I will respond asaic (as
soon as I can) eventually lol!
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jenn_smithson
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Posted: 12-03-04 20:58pm
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| ceecee4u
wrote: | | yes, he took the condom out
with no problem. It's just I don't know
if semen came out of the condom and when I
moved and got up the sheets was slight
damp after we had
sex |
the dampness on the
sheets could have been from you or from
both of you. During sex, you're both
probably sweating as well as discharging
various fluids. It's not necessarily
semen.
| Quote: | | and also the
thing is I don't get pregnant easily
because I had unprotected sex plenty of
times before and haven't got pregnant ever
since I was 15. |
your fertility various
at times but as your still relatively
young, your fertility should be quite
high.
| Quote: | | I hope I can
get pregnant , but I don't think I can due
to a former pregnancy in which I had an
abortion. |
as moira has pointed
out the chances of you becoming infertile
or sterile from an abortion are quite
rare. Much, much more women are made
sterile from childbirth than from
abortions.
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sarahsweet
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Posted: 12-03-04 21:04pm
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Ceecee--if you are having indifferences
about becoming pregnant, I would wait and
finish school.
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jenn_smithson
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Posted: 12-03-04 21:08pm
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| ceecee4u
wrote: | reply2:you'd rather have 9
months of pregnancy or an abortion than
take a pill??? Oh dear.
Yes I would rather be pregnant than take a
pill who woudn't! |
i, for one, would not
"rather be pregnant than take a pill".
Taking a pill is infinetely easier than
pregnancy and childbirth. It is even
more easily when you consider the fact
that the pills are sooo small that often,
I drop them and have trouble picking them
back up again.
| Quote: | | I don't take
pills so that's never an option for me so
I hope that answered your
? |
there are other methods of contraception
where pills are not involved. There is
the shot, taken 3 times a year. The
patch which is worn discreetly for 3 weeks
but is not recommended for anyone
overweight. A lot of younger women enjoy
the patch because they tend to be small
enough to wear it, it's easily hideable,
and you don't have to remember to do
something everyday, just once a week.
The nuva (sp?) ring which is easily
inserted into the vagina and taken out
when it is time to have a period. Many
women have really found that the nuva ring
is preferrable to the pill because they
don't have to remember it every day and
it's not on their mind all the time. It
has also been tested to have high success
rates. There is also the option of
iud's. Any healthcare provider that you
talk to can give you a list of options
that don't include pills but are still
very reliable and can help you decide
which is right for you. Then, you have
your condoms, sponges, caps, spermicides,
and foams which have a higher failure rate
but when coupled together can keep you
safe from experiencing an
unwanted/unplanned pregnancy.
I would encourage you to go to your doctor
for this information and they should be
able to help you choose a better method of
contraception.
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jenn_smithson
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Re: I Am...
Posted: 12-03-04 21:13pm
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| ceecee4u
wrote: | | i am 20 yrs old. Thanks I
need the luck I have days where I wanna be
pregnant and days I don't wanna be
pregnant. |
I went through
something similar when I was 20, in fact,
I am the only one out of my group of
friends who did not get pregnant at 20.
(i did experience an ectopic pregnancy
when I was 21 and had to have an abortion
but it seemed as though my friends
purposefully got pregnant). I can tell
you that it is a phase and it will pass.
When I thought I wanted to have a child, I
remember it as such a strong feeling but
then after I turned 22 and I look back on
that time, I am very, very glad that I did
not act on those feelings. You will be
too.
| Quote: | | all i'm worried
about is graduating college right now, but
if I happen to get pregnant during my
college yrs. I will keep my baby and
continue to go 2
school. |
best of luck with that.
I do hope that you are part of only 2%
of women who find that this is possible.
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ceecee4u
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Well...
Posted: 12-04-04 15:35pm
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Well, I was on birth controls pills for
about a year and it made me tired and sick
because I always forgot to take my pill on
time, I doubt I will be pregnant i'm just
paranoid for no reason I bet, but I am
going to finish school not matter what the
turn out is. I really appreciate
everyone's advice i'm really taken each
comment in constructive criticism
feedback. I will keep you guys posted if
I do get pregnant, but I strongly doubt I
will be pregnant after this encounter...
Will just have to see in 2 more weeks if
my friend red (period)comes to visit1 lol
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