Ive been with my current girlfriend about
a year now. We are both very much in love
and have long term plans. The problem is
that one of her ex boyfriends is
contacting her through email and snail
mail on a regular occassion. Usually the
notes are about wanting her back and
things like that. She tells me abut them
and doesnt seem to be hiding anything.
But he doesnt stop. She has never
responded to my knowledge and im pretty
sure I believe her. But there is a flip
side. My ex wife had hounded me for quite
some time while with my new girlfriend.
And I told her on every occasssion that
there was no chance because of my new life
until it stopped. I dont understand why
she cant do the same to him. She gets
jealous when I have to be around my ex
wife (child visitation) and feels that I
want her back sometimes. But like I said
not only have I given no indecation of
that, ive been turning her away. I love
my cureent gf very much and would do
nothing to jeoperdize what we have. But I
also want to look out for myself. Ive
asked her many times why she doesnt tell
him not to contact her...And she says she
will just leave it alone and it will go
away. But the letters emails and now
phone calls to her mothers house looking
for her have become more frequent. I
really dont know how to handle this. Any
help would be appreciated. She doesnt
ever want to just talk about it or give me
any kind of reason.
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darkV
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Oct 2004 Posts: 43
Posted: 12-09-04 16:53pm
Maybe hes crazy and shes afraid to even
contact him or stir up the pot? This is
firmilular to me. I was being a coward
but I was afraid.
Darkv
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darkV
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Oct 2004 Posts: 43
Posted: 12-09-04 16:54pm
Maybe hes crazy and shes afraid to even
contact him or stir up the pot? This is
firmilular to me. I was being a coward
but I was afraid.
Darkv
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