Tazzy girl, you're too laid back. You are having baby #6, and I want you to get the best bang for your buck so to speak. It is fun to recieve gifts, but i've only had two, and I definitely prefer having the option myself. You can use some of the giftcards now and some after the baby comes. That way you can buy clothes for the gender and season. Two is better than one, but when I get two of something, i'm like, well, I could have used the money for this one for something else I need. You know you never really know what you're going to want/like/need until after the baby comes. Oh, i'm sorry, the baby will decide what s/he wants/likes/needs.

. We're all friends here so be straight up. What do you want. We want to throw you the best shower we can over the internet! Would you prefer gifts or gift cards? I'm assuming night would be better so james can watch the kids while you get online for a couple hours.