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Kia

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Our Intro's Posted: 12-07-04 09:10am


My haven't they shrunk from our first day here. I found myself typing: kia, 26, no babies, 2 cats! i used to type half a page. So: i'm kia, 26 years on on the 13th december, pregnant twice (1 termination at 18 and recently lost baby due to complications), can't have children, I have 2 cats (brother and sister) and a long-term, live-with partner called steve who is 34 years old. We live in england, we not married (we won't be getting married) but we have a "promise" with rings etc. We have been "together" for 3 years. I've been a bad girl in the past, lost my viriginity at 13 and slept with far too many people after that, experimented with drink, drugs, and rock n' roll. I settled down and have been good since meeting steve 4 years ago. I have an extensive mind full of useless information but occassionally find reason to post it anyway. I know i'm technically too old to be here but I like it here and I found so much support and friendship here, I hope you do too. Welcome

SamiNSunisMa

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Joined: 27 Nov 2004
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Posted: 12-07-04 09:19am


Yes, kia if u leave... Ill stalk u to carnivorous plants forum okay im hilary, my rents died when I was little and my aunt adopted me until she got pregnant with her 13th child I was then deposited into foster care which resulted in 7 abusive families (mentally, physically, sexually) and at 10 I got a good one, kind of my mom rocks and the dad sucks they recently divorced. At 10.5 I lost my virginity to jim, I got pregnant at 12, 12 and 13 I miscarried cuz I was heavily into meth, coke, cid, pot a lot. At 13 I got pregnant again and was planning an abortion, but my mom read my diary and moved us to mass for treatment on dec 15, 2000 I had samuel jayden 3 lbs 10 oz 34w3d gestation! My early xmas miracle. I raised him away from his dad in isolation from the real world pretty much. At almost 18 I ran back to mn to be with jim his father and around my 18th bday concieved sunshine. In sept or oct our dear friend kyle was shot in the head, not sure the details still. I recently found out I may have problems since my children are "below norm" weight for age. So thats my life and any ?S pm me ok editing as I think of more things haha... Im bi polar. I was a cutter (still do sometimes) and attempted suicide over a dozen times Last edited by SamiNSunisMa on 12-08-04 08:41am; edited 1 time in total

Kia

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Posted: 12-07-04 09:24am


Woah, that's kinda been there, done it and got the t-shirt! Gee I never realised things were quite so bad, just think it proves you are strong and can do anything though, you cam through all this and sami is adorable, as i'm sure suni will be too. Just think having got everything out the way early you can concentrate on the future and enjoy it.

SamiNSunisMa

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Posted: 12-07-04 09:25am


And I left out I was gangraped by this guy and his friends, yup I was considering having sex with him and then he gangrapes me!

Kia

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Posted: 12-07-04 09:27am


I know how rape affects people, ok so my rapist was alone (not a gang) but the effects last forever. I had my drink drugged in a club (i could easily drink 20+ bottles in a night and I had less than 2 whole bottles before I pretty much passed out - I ended up pregnant, at 18 by someone who decided he had to drug a girl so he could get laid - what a loser)

SamiNSunisMa

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Posted: 12-07-04 09:34am


I didnt realize thats how u got pregnant yea whatta loser!

Kia

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Posted: 12-07-04 09:37am


That was the first time when I was 18. This time round it was steve's baby still never mind we have our lives and each other.

SamiNSunisMa

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Posted: 12-07-04 09:40am


Yup and spice who is soooo cute!

Kia

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Posted: 12-07-04 09:41am


Awwwwww and lil podgy smudge

SamiNSunisMa

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Posted: 12-07-04 09:42am


Oh yea duh how could I have forgotten

lauren_prk

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Joined: 06 Dec 2004
Posts: 253
Location: Wisconsin

Posted: 12-07-04 09:48am


I'm sorry both of your lives has been difficult. Mine was too, i'll explain later, i'm only on for a few sec. Kia, who cares how old you are??? I know I don't, just because the forum is titled "teen pregnancy" doesn't mean you currently have to be a teen. In a few months i'll be 20, doesn't mean i'm not going to come here anymore!!

Kia

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Posted: 12-07-04 10:03am


Good because we won't let you leave, once you're in that's it, sorry we will make you type and tell us everything ok so i'm feeling silly - happens sometimes - the sugar will wear off I promise

JeNNy985

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Joined: 21 Oct 2004
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Location: INDIANA!!!

Posted: 12-07-04 10:11am


Helloooooooooooooo!!! I don't have really anything to say in this forum..Hahaha! I got nothin! I think my morning sickness is going to kick in soon! I can feel it! Ahhh I don't wanna barf

Ellie6388

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Joined: 26 Oct 2004
Posts: 201
Location: Destin Fl

Posted: 12-07-04 11:36am


I'm ellie and i'm 16, I am a senior in hs and I am also going to community college. I starting seeing nick a few day before my 16th birthday but we didn't get serious until a few months later. He is 26( I feel I can tell yall this b/c I know you won't judge me) he graduated from florida state with a degree in multinational finance this summer. We are currently 6w1d pregnant and due august 4. We plan on buying/renting a house soon and getting married. My mom was a little shocked about the pregnancy but she is adapting great. His parents are very supportive and helpful. Hope yall know a little about me now.

SamiNSunisMa

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Posted: 12-07-04 11:40am


Ellie~ he can be 70 as long as u were willing and hes gonna be there for u :p

bd1012

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Joined: 31 May 2004
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Posted: 12-07-04 11:40am


I'm brandy, 18 and am not pregnant, never have been and not ttc. I am engaged to my 19 year old bf.

lauren_prk

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Joined: 06 Dec 2004
Posts: 253
Location: Wisconsin

Posted: 12-07-04 16:57pm


Alright, I said i'd tell you "everything", so here goes... My mom was 21 and my dad was31 when they had me, they both had girls of their own (melissa, and meagan), 2 years later they had my brother (david), when he was a few months my mom came home and caught my dad scrwing my 15 yr.Old babysitter. They divorced, and my dad was court-ordered to stay away from the babysitter. He didn't care and they ended up having 2 kids (morgan and mason) my mom then got married to roger had 3 kids (brittany, justin, and heidi). Roger was a drug dealer who mentally and phisically abusive to all the kids and my mom. My mom finally left him, they got divorced. My mom then married joe they had two kids (billy and kaitlyn). Joe was a drunk loser who was very verbally and slightly physically abusive. My mom divorce him about a year and a half ago. She's had two live in boyfriends since then. I have no idea what my dad has been doing??? My mom worked alot and couldn't afford a babysitter so from 11-16 I basically raised my 6 younger siblings. When my mom got home from work at 10:30 p.M. I'd go out all night. I had a big drug problem, mostly just weed, ecstacy, and drinking. But tried a few other things a few times. There were times were i'd stay out for days, and never even talked to my mom! I still don't know what she did with the kids when I did stupid sht like that. I lost my virginity 2 days after I turned 15 to some guy who I didn't care about in a cornfield. I was also raped, at my sister's graduation party. It happened in my garage . After that I slept with way too many men!! I'm still addicted to sex, but at least now it's only with one person! I met dave when I was 16 we did weed and ecstacy a few times together, but both quit together. Dave proposed a month before I turned 17, we moved in together. We got married sapt. 21, 2002. I became pregnant april 19, 2003, drew was born december 31, 2003!!! And hopefully all the drama is behind me and we'll live happily ever after!!! Dave changed my life, I know that if it wasn't for him i'd be dead, have like 4 kids (w/ 4 dif. Men.), or dieing in a hospital from aids or something! Well, I think that's about it.

lauren_prk

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Joined: 06 Dec 2004
Posts: 253
Location: Wisconsin

Posted: 12-07-04 16:57pm


Alright, I said i'd tell you "everything", so here goes... My mom was 21 and my dad was31 when they had me, they both had girls of their own (melissa, and meagan), 2 years later they had my brother (david), when he was a few months my mom came home and caught my dad scrwing my 15 yr.Old babysitter. They divorced, and my dad was court-ordered to stay away from the babysitter. He didn't care and they ended up having 2 kids (morgan and mason) my mom then got married to roger had 3 kids (brittany, justin, and heidi). Roger was a drug dealer who mentally and phisically abusive to all the kids and my mom. My mom finally left him, they got divorced. My mom then married joe they had two kids (billy and kaitlyn). Joe was a drunk loser who was very verbally and slightly physically abusive. My mom divorce him about a year and a half ago. She's had two live in boyfriends since then. I have no idea what my dad has been doing??? My mom worked alot and couldn't afford a babysitter so from 11-16 I basically raised my 6 younger siblings. When my mom got home from work at 10:30 p.M. I'd go out all night. I had a big drug problem, mostly just weed, ecstacy, and drinking. But tried a few other things a few times. There were times were i'd stay out for days, and never even talked to my mom! I still don't know what she did with the kids when I did stupid sht like that. I lost my virginity 2 days after I turned 15 to some guy who I didn't care about in a cornfield. I was also raped, at my sister's graduation party. It happened in my garage . After that I slept with way too many men!! I'm still addicted to sex, but at least now it's only with one person! I met dave when I was 16 we did weed and ecstacy a few times together, but both quit together. Dave proposed a month before I turned 17, we moved in together. We got married sapt. 21, 2002. I became pregnant april 19, 2003, drew was born december 31, 2003!!! And hopefully all the drama is behind me and we'll live happily ever after!!! Dave changed my life, I know that if it wasn't for him i'd be dead, have like 4 kids (w/ 4 dif. Men.), or dieing in a hospital from aids or something! Well, I think that's about it.

lauren_prk

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Joined: 06 Dec 2004
Posts: 253
Location: Wisconsin

Posted: 12-07-04 16:58pm


Alright, I said i'd tell you "everything", so here goes... My mom was 21 and my dad was31 when they had me, they both had girls of their own (melissa, and meagan), 2 years later they had my brother (david), when he was a few months my mom came home and caught my dad scrwing my 15 yr.Old babysitter. They divorced, and my dad was court-ordered to stay away from the babysitter. He didn't care and they ended up having 2 kids (morgan and mason) my mom then got married to roger had 3 kids (brittany, justin, and heidi). Roger was a drug dealer who mentally and phisically abusive to all the kids and my mom. My mom finally left him, they got divorced. My mom then married joe they had two kids (billy and kaitlyn). Joe was a drunk loser who was very verbally and slightly physically abusive. My mom divorce him about a year and a half ago. She's had two live in boyfriends since then. I have no idea what my dad has been doing??? My mom worked alot and couldn't afford a babysitter so from 11-16 I basically raised my 6 younger siblings. When my mom got home from work at 10:30 p.M. I'd go out all night. I had a big drug problem, mostly just weed, ecstacy, and drinking. But tried a few other things a few times. There were times were i'd stay out for days, and never even talked to my mom! I still don't know what she did with the kids when I did stupid sht like that. I lost my virginity 2 days after I turned 15 to some guy who I didn't care about in a cornfield. I was also raped, at my sister's graduation party. It happened in my garage . After that I slept with way too many men!! I'm still addicted to sex, but at least now it's only with one person! I met dave when I was 16 we did weed and ecstacy a few times together, but both quit together. Dave proposed a month before I turned 17, we moved in together. We got married sapt. 21, 2002. I became pregnant april 19, 2003, drew was born december 31, 2003!!! And hopefully all the drama is behind me and we'll live happily ever after!!! Dave changed my life, I know that if it wasn't for him i'd be dead, have like 4 kids (w/ 4 dif. Men.), or dieing in a hospital from aids or something! Well, I think that's about it.

SamiNSunisMa

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Posted: 12-07-04 17:15pm


Wow lauren, uve really straightened out ur life and I know its hard to do kudos!