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Q: Stupid Question But Its Driving Me Crazy...
asked by: elizabeth_shea on December 7th, 2004
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Ok... My bf and I had protected sex the other day. I know for a fact that he didn't come in me. But what i'm worried about is the pre-ejeculation that could have come before he pulled out. I know the condom protects that but he had to re-adjust the condom several times (we think because I was particularly dry that day) because it was slipping out of place. What are my chances that i'm pregnant from the pre? I know that there is lubracant in the condom so that could have killed some of the pre... But im just being extremely paranoid... Please help me...
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jillie81
replied on December 7th, 2004
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Agree, take a test
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justacanadiangirl
replied on December 7th, 2004
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I agree! Test test test Smile good luck
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kristynchase
replied on December 8th, 2004
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Are you late for your period?
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elizabeth_shea
replied on December 8th, 2004
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No im not late... Im suppose to get my period sometime next week... (the 15th or so...)im just nervous about it...

Like I said I know he didn't cum into me... And with the condom I shouldn't worry... Right? All im worried about is the slight chance that he could have pre-ejec. A little bit...

I'm a very serious worrier... I worry about everything and just knowing the fact that it is possible that im pregnant scares me to death... I couldn't stand bringing life into this world when I can't make sure that it will be taken care of...

Im just scared right now...
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kristynchase
replied on December 8th, 2004
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Yes it is normal to feel worried.. Expecially if you arent ttc I dont think you could be preggo if you used a condom.. I think you should be just fine.. Dont stress out your self to much babe... Good luck.. I am ttc and I am supposed to have my period in 4 days.. So I am counting down to but I am for a totally other reason than you... Lol like I said before babe good luck you will be just fine Wink
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kristynchase
replied on December 8th, 2004
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Yes it is normal to feel worried.. Expecially if you arent ttc I dont think you could be preggo if you used a condom.. I think you should be just fine.. Dont stress out your self to much babe... Good luck.. I am ttc and I am supposed to have my period in 4 days.. So I am counting down to but I am for a totally other reason than you... Lol like I said before babe good luck you will be just fine Wink
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elizabeth_shea
replied on December 8th, 2004
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Thanks kristyn... It helps knowing that there is a chance i'm not... But i'm gonna worry until I get my period... Or until I break down and take a test...
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kristynchase
replied on December 8th, 2004
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Well good luck girl... Hopefully everything goes well with you.. Let me know ok!! :d
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bluebubble888
replied on December 8th, 2004
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Listen~worrying will only push your period back later!! Just relax and try to breathe. Of course there is a chance you could be pregnant~but your probably not! Good luck hun~and remember to learn from this!!!
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Tazzy D
replied on December 8th, 2004
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I dont think you are pregnant but that is my opinion if you dont start your period just take a test to confirm.
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elizabeth_shea
replied on December 8th, 2004
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Ok well today I woke up and I had started spotting... As the day progressed the spotting has gotten heavier but its not like my normal period... Im hopeing that it is just because of me stressing and that my period will come in the morning... But im still a bit worried...

Thanks for all of your advice... Its comforting....
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elizabeth_shea
replied on December 9th, 2004
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Crying or Very sad nope it wasnt my period... I think im gonna go get a test today.. I cant take it anymore...
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Tazzy D
replied on December 9th, 2004
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Let us know
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elizabeth_shea
replied on December 9th, 2004
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Today was a bad day... A very busy bad day... Didn't have time to get the test... Still scared... Still worried...
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elizabeth_shea
replied on December 11th, 2004
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Still dont know... Still terrified... Dont know what to do...
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l2at24
replied on December 11th, 2004
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Girl, go get a test and take it! The sooner you find out, the sooner you can move on. Either you're having a baby, or you need to get some bc.
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steen
replied on December 11th, 2004
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elizabeth_shea wrote:
still dont know... Still terrified... Dont know what to do...
with that anxiety, you really should get the pregnancy test. Many posters have suggested this for many days here, so I am not quite sure why you haven't done it yet.

Are you worried about what the test will show and thus is unwilling to actually take it, or is it an issue of finances (the local planned parenthood will give you a free pregnancy test, f.Ex.)

go get the test. The constant worry that we see from you, but with you still not taking the test, that is beginning to seem a bit strange. Exclamation
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PosrscheLvr
replied on December 11th, 2004
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I don't think you would be pregnant. There is only a slight chance you could be.
It's close to the 15th, I wish you the best of luck on getting your period. If you are more worried about pregnancy try to use two methods at once. Maybe get on the pill/patch/depo. Or if hormones don't sound to appealing use like like spermicidal foam, that will help kill sperm in any pre-cum if something should happen in the future. There is also a non-hormonal iud if you are not wanting to get pregnant anytime soon. I think you should just talk to your gyno about what might be best for you, good luck.
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esteeg
replied on December 11th, 2004
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Well, I definitely think that you should get a test. This could have been implantation bleeding, even thou it seems a bit early for that, might have been caused by the stress you've put yourself in. I do think, however, that you are not pregnant, since you've mentioned that
1. He used a condom
2. He didn't cum inside of you
3. You've said that you were particularly dry that day, which indicated that ovulation had already passed for good. Which means that you weren't (very) fertile anymore (mucus is an indication of when you are ovulating, thus when you are most fertile. No mucus, no moist, not really fertile. Do not take this as a guideline thou, every woman is different and that is just how my body is.)
well, go and take that test finally! That really the only thing that will help you!
Good luck!
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