I am 26. I have been married 3 years and
have a 6 and 4 year old. I love my
husband very much. I love having sex with
him also, but when he touches me some
times I just want him to leave me alone,
most of the time I do not even feel like
doing it so I pretend. I feel so guilty,
I do not want any one else so what could
be my problem. I know that I am tired
alot, I work and I am at my childs scool
3-4 times a week helping and I have three
step children. It makes him so angry we
fight over it all the time. Is it normal?
We are young we should be going at it all
the time, I would like to but for some
reason I don't have the urge like I used
too. Any advice
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raesampo
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Dec 2004 Posts: 5
Yup Posted: 12-10-04 14:59pm
Yup I get like that sometimes and everyone
that I asked ( older women that had been
married awhile and stuff) all said the
same thing it sounds cheesy but its true
if you just try and take some time for
yourself youll feel better that means go
all out take along hot bath candles etc
read alittle and think about how much ou
love him and stuff and you should be ready
to attack next time you see him you need some time
to yourself and then to eachother you can
find him sexy if you dont find yourself
that way
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ithinkimdying
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Dec 2004 Posts: 1
Posted: 12-16-04 21:17pm
I have alot dicharge.. Its white and
clear... And it doesnt smells.. But my
panties are always wet.. Why is this?
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PosrscheLvr
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Oct 2004 Posts: 304 Location: Plano, Texas
Posted: 12-17-04 00:46am
I am sometimes the same way as you feel.
I think there is a certain amount of give
and take in a relationship. You both have
needs and rarely are you both going to
have the same libido at the same time. He
needs to understand your needs and the
fact you are tired. Don't always give
into him, sometimes you need to starn
firm. Other times attempt to go with the
flow. Being in a relationship means
giving and taking. You need to talk to
him and see if maybe you can find a happy
medium...Good luck!
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sunny03
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Jan 2005 Posts: 28 Location: New York
Posted: 01-24-05 15:24pm
I am the same way I don't know why I don't
feel like having sex alot but I don't.
I've read someone's article about them not
wanting to have sex alot after they
started using birth control..I don't know
if that is my problem, but what I do know
is it is causing a big problem in my
relationship.
If anyone has any advice that they think
will help please write back
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you need some time
to yourself and then to eachother you can
find him sexy if you dont find yourself
that way 
