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bailysbutterfly
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Dec 2004
Posts: 162
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Could This Happen Without Me Knowing...
Posted: 12-11-04 13:09pm
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Im sure you have read my other post in
this section about when I can get
pregnant, and this is why... Tell me what
you think:
tell me if this is even possible… I hope I
am not freaking out… ok… let me start off
my saying that when me and my bf usually
have sex… up until about 1-1.5 weeks ago,
he could hardly last 5 minutes…
literally!!! He would cum so fast…. And
it would bother him, he would always say,
"how can you even enjoy that?!?" and all
this stuff… but he said he couldn't help
how turned on he was and how good it felt
and bla bla bla… I was never unsatisfied
or anything and he knew that… ok now about
1-1.5 weeks ago…he started saying that he
wanted to stay and cum inside me and see
how it felt and of course I said no (we
have unprotected sex)… ok well I have
noticed that the sex we have the first
time of the night is always fast… always…
and the second time is looooonnnng… well
now… last night we were having sex and I
was on top (which he begs me for and never
lasts over 5 minutes still) and I noticed
that his face was like he had cum but I
didn't feel anything (i don't know if you
are supposed to feel it inside you) or
anything like that.. And he didn't
totally act like he came but the way some
things on his body were twitching a
little, kinda made me think he did… well
then all of a sudden he went limp…!!!!! I
was like what!!! How can it just go limp
while we are having sex…. And he was
like… wait, no im not done and all this…
and he wanted to keep going... So then we
kept having sex and he went for like an
hour straight... No stopping... Which is
the longest by far… and it was the first
time we had had sex all day well actually,
the first time in 2 days… after we got
through… I noticed that "down there" on
me, felt different... Felt really really
wet… so my question is… do you think he
went inside me without me knowing and
that's why it went limp and he lasted so
long like he usually does after he already
cum… please don't laugh… thanks
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June4life
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jul 2004
Posts: 550
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Posted: 12-11-04 13:12pm
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I'm kinda confused...
Usually if a guy wears a condom it takes
him longer to cum than if he went without
one...
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PosrscheLvr
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Oct 2004
Posts: 304
Location: Plano, Texas
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Posted: 12-11-04 13:15pm
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I would say he did cum inside you. Plus
if you are having unprotected sex you need
to get on the pill/shot/patch whatever.
Sex is fun and all but you sound really
young and I don't think you need to be
having a child
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bailysbutterfly
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Posts: 162
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Posted: 12-11-04 13:16pm
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| june4life
wrote: | i'm kinda confused...
Usually if a guy wears a condom it takes
him longer to cum than if he went without
one... |
he doesn't wear one...
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bailysbutterfly
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Dec 2004
Posts: 162
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Posted: 12-11-04 13:19pm
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| posrschelvr
wrote: | | i would say he did cum
inside you. Plus if you are having
unprotected sex you need to get on the
pill/shot/patch whatever. Sex is fun and
all but you sound really young and I don't
think you need to be having a
child |
im 21... I am a little embarrased to put
this topic up but I wanted to know if I
was overreacting.... I plan to get on bc
after the first of the year... I know
that it would be our own faults if
something happened, but I am not really
worried about anything... I just have
never had to worry about this before...
And to me it seemed as if he did cum
inside without telling me but I have never
had someone cum inside me before because I
have always worn condoms with anyone else
(my ex bfs)... So I did not know if I was
supposed to feel it inside me or
anything..
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l2at24
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Nov 2004
Posts: 1509
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Posted: 12-11-04 13:19pm
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Very confusing, and way tmi girl. I
don't think I even know what the question
is, but you're going to get pregnant so I
hope that's okay with you. Okay, I just
re-read and see the question is do we
think he came? Okay, well, why wouldn't
he tell you that? There's no reason for
him to lie about if he came or not.
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bailysbutterfly
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Dec 2004
Posts: 162
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Posted: 12-11-04 13:37pm
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| l2at24
wrote: | | very confusing, and way tmi
girl. I don't think I even know what
the question is, but you're going to get
pregnant so I hope that's okay with you.
Okay, I just re-read and see the question
is do we think he came? Okay, well, why
wouldn't he tell you that? There's no
reason for him to lie about if he came or
not. |
well... He is always talking about how he
doesnt want to pull out, but I told him
no... That he has too... I dont know...
I dont know why he would do it either, but
im telling u.. Something was different
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PosrscheLvr
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Oct 2004
Posts: 304
Location: Plano, Texas
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Posted: 12-11-04 14:11pm
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| Quote: | | im 21... I am a
little embarrased to put this topic up but
I wanted to know if I was overreacting....
I plan to get on bc after the first of
the year... I know that it would be our
own faults if something happened, but I am
not really worried about anything... I
just have never had to worry about this
before... And to me it seemed as if he
did cum inside without telling me but I
have never had someone cum inside me
before because I have always worn condoms
with anyone else (my ex bfs)... So I did
not know if I was supposed to feel it
inside me or
anything.. |
ok girlie well you should be able to tell
if he came in you or not.
Trust me when you get up it's an immense
amount of liquid. There is no reason to
be embarassed. I think it's a great idea
that you want to get on bc after the ny.
Maybe now would be better tho? Just be
sure to take care of yourself, your health
is the most important.
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bailysbutterfly
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Dec 2004
Posts: 162
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Posted: 12-11-04 14:15pm
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| posrschelvr
wrote: | | Quote: | | im 21... I am
a little embarrased to put this topic up
but I wanted to know if I was
overreacting.... I plan to get on bc
after the first of the year... I know
that it would be our own faults if
something happened, but I am not really
worried about anything... I just have
never had to worry about this before...
And to me it seemed as if he did cum
inside without telling me but I have never
had someone cum inside me before because I
have always worn condoms with anyone else
(my ex bfs)... So I did not know if I
was supposed to feel it inside me or
anything.. |
ok girlie well you should be able to tell
if he came in you or not.
Trust me when you get up it's an immense
amount of liquid. There is no reason to
be embarassed. I think it's a great idea
that you want to get on bc after the ny.
Maybe now would be better tho? Just be
sure to take care of yourself, your health
is the most
important. |
thank you for your kind reply... Im
waiting for the new year because our doc
has taken the rest of the year off for
vac. There are some free clinics around
here but I would feel more comfy at our
reg. Doc....
Anyways, there was alot of liquid "down
there" even like 2 hours after we had
sex... I did not go to the restroom after
sex... It was much more than usual...
Especially that long after sex... Thanks
so much
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Newmommy23
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Sep 2004
Posts: 727
Location: Dyess AFB, TX
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Posted: 12-11-04 14:17pm
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First of how old are you? Anytime you
have unprotected sex wether he cums inside
of you or not you run the risk of getting
pregnant! Why are you waiting until next
year? If you were pregnant what would you
do?
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bailysbutterfly
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Dec 2004
Posts: 162
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Posted: 12-11-04 14:18pm
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| newmommy23
wrote: | | first of how old are you?
Anytime you have unprotected sex wether he
cums inside of you or not you run the risk
of getting pregnant! Why are you waiting
until next year? If you were pregnant
what would you do? |
read my previous posts for both of your
answers
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PosrscheLvr
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Oct 2004
Posts: 304
Location: Plano, Texas
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Posted: 12-11-04 14:18pm
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| Quote: | thank you for
your kind reply... Im waiting for the
new year because our doc has taken the
rest of the year off for vac. There are
some free clinics around here but I would
feel more comfy at our reg. Doc....
Anyways, there was alot of liquid "down
there" even like 2 hours after we had
sex... I did not go to the restroom
after sex... It was much more than
usual... Especially that long after
sex... Thanks so
much |
you are more than welcome. If you aren't
going to the doctor right away maybe try
sex with some foam, it doesn't really
interrupt anything and it's just an extra
percaution. I think you should be using
condoms, but if not maybe you should go
get an iud in. No pills to remember,
there is an iud w/o hormones and then you
just don't have to worry about protection
(providing you are in a monagamous
relationship with someone). Just be safe
and healthy in whatever you choose.
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steen
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Joined: 18 Nov 2004
Posts: 1797
Location: Upper Midwest
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Posted: 12-11-04 14:37pm
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*really good* chance that you could be
pregnnat per your description. If you
are trying to get pregnant, you certainl;y
can, but if you don't want to, then you
are sure exposing yourself to a lot of
risk. *anytime* you have any kind of sex
without a condom, you risk pregnancy, and
certainly if you actually have
intercourse, the sperm can be carried in
pre-cum. As such, even if he doesn't
ejaculate, you could be pregnant.
It is a pretty safe assumption that if you
have sex without a condom or other
contraception, you can almost certainly
assume yourself pregnant, if not the first
time, then certainly within to long.
The choice is all yours, but it is a very
safe assumption that:
unprotected sex=pregnancy.
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bailysbutterfly
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Dec 2004
Posts: 162
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Posted: 12-11-04 15:28pm
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Yes I am aware that pregnancy chance is
high without some sort of bc... Thanks
guys for all the advice
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l2at24
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Posts: 1509
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Posted: 12-11-04 15:55pm
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I sent you a pm. It's at the top in the
menu bar - private messages.
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bailysbutterfly
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Posts: 162
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Posted: 12-11-04 17:26pm
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| l2at24
wrote: | | i sent you a pm. It's at
the top in the menu bar - private
messages. |
ty... I wrote u back 
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mama2bn05
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
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Posts: 40
Location: Kansas
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Posted: 12-11-04 17:32pm
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Just from my experience with my
husband....It sounds to me like he did cuz
my husband is the same way. He can last
longer then 5 min. Now but when he does
cum he will either go limp or last a lot
longer the second time.
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Tazzy D
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Posts: 3717
Location: , va
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Posted: 12-11-04 17:53pm
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I think this is a question that you need
to talk to your husband about. I really
cant answer this one. By your post I
would say yes he did, but I wasnt in your
bed so im not forsure... Good luck
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bailysbutterfly
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Posted: 12-11-04 18:15pm
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| tazzy d
wrote: | | i think this is a question
that you need to talk to your husband
about. I really cant answer this one.
By your post I would say yes he did, but I
wasnt in your bed so im not forsure...
Good luck |
i have asked him and of course he said
no... But I just think maybe he did and
was/is hoping I dont know...
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Tazzy D
Advanced Support Team
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Posts: 3717
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Posted: 12-11-04 18:25pm
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| bailysbutterfly
wrote: | | tazzy d
wrote: | | i think this is a question
that you need to talk to your husband
about. I really cant answer this one.
By your post I would say yes he did, but
I wasnt in your bed so im not forsure...
Good luck |
i have asked him and of course he said
no... But I just think maybe he did and
was/is hoping I dont
know... |
well to be blunt if he went limp then he
did.
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