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13nExpecting
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Joined: 14 Dec 2004
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Location: san jose
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13 And Expecting
Posted: 12-14-04 20:50pm
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Hey I am thirteen and expecting a baby. I
dont know how to tell maii parents. I
never wanted to hve a baby but it
happened. It not like I wanted to even
hve sex. I got raped bye maii boyfriend
who is 16 about 3 months ago and I am
starting to show a littl maii ma thinks I
am getting fat becuz of maii period and
caca. I dont know how to tell them they
dont even know I got raped no one does
except me and maii ex. I am so scared
what they will think. I think I just
might kill myself. Maybe if I was just
rapped and didnt get pregnant I might be
able to handle it but being pregnnt too.
Uhh I am going to kill myself I swear I
will. On new years eve I am going to so
maii family can start the year with out me
a promiscuous person who got rapped and
pregnant
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Princess385
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Joined: 03 Dec 2004
Posts: 407
Location: Wisconsin
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Posted: 12-14-04 21:02pm
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It's not your fault that you got raped.
So don't go and kill yourself over it.
There are things out there that can help
you with this. Seeking help is one!!
You really have to tell your parents about
this. Even though you don't want to.
They'll understand...For god's sake you
were raped...That's not a laughing matter
and they will understand. And i'm sure
that htey'll help you though this. But
you need to get to a dr to omake srue that
you and that child are going to be okay
and to make sure you dn't have any std's
of any sort!! Sorry i'm not of much more
help, but just flat out share with your
parents what happened. If you feel more
comfortable having someone with you, then
do that too!!
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YoshisPrincess
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Joined: 04 Dec 2004
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Location: Phoenix
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Posted: 12-14-04 21:06pm
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Ok, I have two feelings right now. One
is, if you're a liar trying to get
attention, i'll kill you and save you the
trouble, bc this crap is nothing to joke
about. 
my second feeling is, if it's real, i'm
truly sorry. In october 2003 I was raped
in my dorm room by a guy that I was
tutoring. As a result, I became pregnant,
but had a chemical pregnancy and lost it
very early. I know the pain. I told no
one for months until I opened up to my
fiance in march. I was also suicidal in
the mean time. It's also not the first
time i've been raped.
If your story is for real, tell your
parents. No matter what your relationship
with them is like, they love you deep
inside and would hate to hear that they're
little girl has been raped, but they want
to know. I guarantee you they want to
know your pain, and they want to help you
with it. They won't think you're a
promiscuous person. The rape wasn't your
fault, and neither was the pregnancy. You
didn't ask to be raped and the baby didn't
ask to be concieved, but both of you are
victims now and you need to take care of
both of you. You're baby is a beautiful
thing coming out of a horrible situation.
 :d
i pray to god that you're for real, bc if
you're not then you are the most
disgustingly heinous person i've ever met.
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13nExpecting
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Location: san jose
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Oky
Posted: 12-14-04 21:06pm
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But maii dad will not care he will say it
wa maii fault and I deserve it and then
killl meh or put meh in a foster home.Mii
ma wont either
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YoshisPrincess
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Location: Phoenix
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Posted: 12-14-04 21:09pm
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doing it try it. What's the worst that
could happen? You're gonna' kill yourself
anyways, right? 
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13nExpecting
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Posted: 12-14-04 21:09pm
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First of all I aint liing eond maii dads
an problem and wont care seriously I am
gonna kill maii self
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13nExpecting
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Posted: 12-14-04 21:11pm
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And if I dont kill myself he will
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YoshisPrincess
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Location: Phoenix
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Posted: 12-14-04 21:15pm
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Ok everyone knows that people, whether
truly suicidal or not, wants some one to
stop them. Here's my idea: go get your
parents to stop you! They will want to
know what's up with you. They will want
to know what's been done to you. If your
father rejects you, then so be it. If
your mother rejects you, then so be it.
Obviously they are terrible and
undeserving parents. Do you want to be
like them? Be a good parent. Get health
acre for yourself and your baby, but it's
also important to give your parents a
chance. You want them to give you a
chance, don't you? You don't want them
judging you, calling you a sl*t or kicking
you out, so how about returning the favor
and at least giving them a chance. It's
only fair and right to everyone involved.
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a2ck418
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Sep 2004
Posts: 146
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Posted: 12-14-04 21:23pm
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13nexpecting do you have hotmail?
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Princess385
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Dec 2004
Posts: 407
Location: Wisconsin
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Posted: 12-14-04 21:23pm
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Oh geeze...If you're going to kill
yourself and talk about it, just go do
it...I was being nice, but now this is
just too much. If you're ging to do it,
do it. I doubt you will, simply for the
fact that I don't buy this any more!!
Well I didn't in the first place, but
thought I would be nice to you!! I was
almost raped, it's not a laughing matter.
I lied to my husband about it, cause I
was afriad of sharing that with him!! I
didn't knwo what to do....I ended up
sharing with my husband, then trying to
get the guy in trouble. Being in the
military and all, both I and the guy that
tried to rape me, I would have been able
to get him in a caca load of trouble...But
since my sgt didn't blieve me, ntohign
happened and to this day I live with
athat...It's not fun, it's not a luaghing
matter, ti's nothing to joke about!!
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YoshisPrincess
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Location: Phoenix
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Posted: 12-14-04 21:27pm
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Agreed
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xLove x Lostx
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Nov 2004
Posts: 127
Location: Pompano Beach, FL
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Posted: 12-14-04 21:40pm
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Someone check the ips for her and
arianna_capri...I have a feeling its the
same person...Because of the way they
spelled "my" or that one girl that got
preggo for her bf beto...
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Princess385
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Location: Wisconsin
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Posted: 12-14-04 21:42pm
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Haha...How sad is that!! I had a feeling
this wasn't right!!
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peanutbuttertreasure
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Joined: 09 Nov 2004
Posts: 1226
Location: Georgia
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Posted: 12-14-04 21:43pm
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Same...I'm just not gonna say anymore
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mommaashley
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Oct 2004
Posts: 420
Location: Canada
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Posted: 12-14-04 21:44pm
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First of all if you were going to kill
yourself you wouldnt be boasting about it
on the internet. Second learn how to
talk no offense but you sound very
immature, and I hope to god you aren't
pregnant for the sake of your child.
Third of all I was raped, and became
pregnant because of it then lost the
child, if your for real go and get help I
lost the child and that made me feel even
worse. Dont be selfish and dont be
irresponsible.
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13nExpecting
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Dec 2004
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Location: san jose
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Posted: 12-14-04 22:04pm
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First of all I aint arianna cari that
health forum is a liar she hasnt even
gotten her period she is a liar and second
I want to kill maii self and I might I
might not I am sasying it on the net cause
u casnt stop me and 3rd me and arianna
were friends and we both do that maii
thing so ya get a life I aint her I can
prove it
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Princess385
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Posts: 407
Location: Wisconsin
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Posted: 12-14-04 22:06pm
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Haha....Prove it then....
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13nExpecting
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
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Posted: 12-14-04 22:10pm
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Ok im iridecowboys25 at aol that is jessi
and then me beautiful2514 at aol I am
margerita u will see she will say so and
also arianna_capri is not me she doesnt
even have her period
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xLove x Lostx
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Nov 2004
Posts: 127
Location: Pompano Beach, FL
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Posted: 12-14-04 22:19pm
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That doesnt roll with me sweetie...Try
some better proof..
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peanutbuttertreasure
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Joined: 09 Nov 2004
Posts: 1226
Location: Georgia
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Posted: 12-14-04 22:21pm
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I can easily run three or more aim screen
names at the same time..Lol
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