Why do men like dirty magazines? Do you
feel its not being happy with there lover?
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john2001
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Dec 2004 Posts: 6 Location: Altoona, Pa
Because It Is Natural Posted: 12-15-04 10:19am
Men look at nude pictures of
women/so-called "dirty" magazines/internet
sites because it is in our wiring. For
example, I do nothing to force the
attraction to the feminine body, it is
just there. It is a drive, just like
breathing, just like eating. Of course,
anything can be abused, anything can be
taken to the extreme. But the natural
attraction to naked women will never
cease, will never subside. Marriage does
not change it, and as we now know, vows of
celibacy for religious reasons do not
change it, either.
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dan443
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Mar 2005 Posts: 15 Location: Lincolnshire
Not All Guys Watch Porn! Posted: 03-21-05 20:38pm
Gotta say not all guys like porn, I don't!
I don't see why I would need that I have
a fiance at home, even when i'm single
i've still never seen it, i'd preffer the
real thing with my partner.
Maybe i'm not normal, or maybe I have
better things to do in life than watch
that crap..
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tomz
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Dec 2004 Posts: 62 Location: Pennsylvania
Additional Response Posted: 03-22-05 04:08am
Callie:
like john said, men tend to be more visual
when it comes to attraction and visual
pictures can arouse us as well as when
attractive women wear revealing clothes.
However, we do have a mind and can make a
choice. Dan said it best. When you
have the real thing, why do you want to
waist your time? Plus, most porn only
creates fantasies in men that their
partners can not live up to or some men
get addicted try to make their sex live
like the pic and videos they see. (this
happened to my sister, she is now in the
midst of a divorce because he wasn't
satisifed with her because of the porn and
had to find sex outside the marriage to
continue his addiction.)
my suggestion, find a guy who stays away
from porn and finds his fullfillment with
you!
Best wishes,
tomz
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Justin_Toronto
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Jan 2005 Posts: 418 Location: Toronto, ON
Re: Additional Response Posted: 03-22-05 11:04am
tomz
wrote:
my suggestion, find a guy
who stays away from porn and finds his
fullfillment with
you!
i agree with everything you wrote tomz.
But keep in mind, that she has to fulfill
his desires as well... Psychologically,
emotionally, and sexually. Both partners
have this responsibility. Likewise if he
doesn't provide her with the psychological
stimulation she seeks, she will likely
begin finding new friends to fill this
void.
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tomz
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Dec 2004 Posts: 62 Location: Pennsylvania
I Fully Agree Justin! Posted: 03-22-05 21:21pm
Relationships/marriage is the giving of
one another to make the man and the woman
complete in the relationship.
Whether emotionally, sexually both men and
women must provide for the need of their
spouse so they don't look for it
elsewhere.
Healthy communication is the key to a
strong relationship!
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