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Kia

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Oliver's Funeral
Posted: 12-15-04 17:02pm

We all met up at the cemetary gates.
Everybody had a blue and silver balloon except steve who had 2 of each and me - I had 2 of each plus a pink one for jayna and a white one for all those loved and lost or suffering.
The funeral home guys carried the tiny white coffin (my shoebox baby) to the grave and placed it on 2 dark purple ribbons.
The coffin had a plaque on top which read "baby oliver reece murray".
My aunty read the prayer and poem then the guys lowered the coffin into the ground.
Myself and steve both threw earth in on top.
And we let our balloons go.
A couple fo balloons caught in the trees but all of them made a break for freedom and headed for the skies.
I was given the purple ribbons to keep.
I understood he was going in next to my great grandparents but he went into the same space ( Shocked ) - gonna get a bit crowded thats 3 people in there now ( Shocked )
my dad offered to pay towards our headstone.
My nan and grandad, my dad, my baby brother, my mom, my aunty and uncle (dad's older brother) myself and steve were in attendance.

My uncle didn't think his boss would let him have the time off (and he would have been right) so he rang head office to ask for a few hours off for today - how do I say thank you to these people for coming?
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SamiNSunisMa

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Posted: 12-15-04 17:04pm

Hunny! I wish I could have gone! And I wish I could go to jayna's!! Crying
or Very sad their is no really sending thankyous that im aware of for funerals
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soon2bemama2517

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Posted: 12-15-04 17:06pm

Awwww....Thats sooo cute...Im soooo sorry...I feel sooo bad...
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Kia

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Posted: 12-15-04 17:07pm

Thank you hil's and thank you for reply each place I posted this and did you get your pm I sent?
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xLove x Lostx

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Posted: 12-15-04 17:08pm

Aw...I see it went well..I asked about it in the other thread...Oh how I wish I could have been there...I let go the balloons today...It sure is gonna be a little crowded in there...But atleast he's safe with family...If that makes any sense at all... Rolling Eyes
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Kia

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Posted: 12-15-04 17:12pm

I saw your question so I posted the answer in it's own thread Smile
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xLove x Lostx

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Posted: 12-15-04 17:13pm

Woohoo! Smile
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SamiNSunisMa

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Posted: 12-15-04 17:19pm

Duhhh let me go check it darling!
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peanutbuttertreasure

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Posted: 12-15-04 17:23pm

Awww Crying
or Very sad i'm sorry honey, wish I could have been there for you too
i'm sorry this was something you had to deal with Crying
or Very sad

i was not able to let off any balloons, and i'm deeply sorry. I wanted too...But i'm too ill to go anywhere. I did say a prayer for .Oliver and .Jayna though.


Rest in peace sweet .Oliver
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Kia

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Posted: 12-15-04 17:27pm

Thank you girls, don't worry if you didn't do balloons, hope you feel better soon though mwah
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peanutbuttertreasure

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Posted: 12-15-04 17:34pm

Thanks..................Can't............. ....Stop...............!!!Aaaachoooooo!!!
You get the point Laughing



(ewwwww what a mess Shocked )
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Kia

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Posted: 12-15-04 17:35pm

Sticky keyboard....... Yum.
Honey i'm a bad girl - I keep calling you peanut lol ummmm help me out...............
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peanutbuttertreasure

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Posted: 12-15-04 17:41pm

Hey peanut is cool Laughing

yeah..Everyone asks so I am quite used to it

christina is my real name
chrissy for short
mouse is my nick name..And so is peanut now Laughing
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lauren_prk

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Posted: 12-15-04 17:54pm

Once agian i'm sorry for your loss, but i'm glad to hear it all went well, and it sounds like it was a great service. I think you should personally tell each person thanks face to face, let them know how much them being there meant to you and how much you appreciate their support.
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soon2bemama2517

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Posted: 12-15-04 17:58pm

Yea ur baby was/is beautiful and now hes in a better place im sorry you had to go thrugh this but I dont even no u but I let off a pink and blue baloon Sad Laughing
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Moira

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Posted: 12-16-04 05:13am

Sounds beautiful. I'm glad you all got a proper goodbye.
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AciasMommy17

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Posted: 12-16-04 23:46pm

Aww hun i'm so glad you got to have a nice funeral for him. I don't know the entire story nor do I know you very well if at all but still I know how it feels to lose a baby. You're in my thoughts and prayers always..He was so adorable and beautiful, you have your own little angel now.

Katy
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