Joined: 30 Dec 2003 Posts: 1018 Location: new york
I Have a Question Posted: 12-15-04 23:45pm
Hey girls I know I haven't been on in a
long time, but with school and the baby
it's just been hard to keep up. Well my
question is how did you guys feel in the
beginning of your pregnancy. I've been
really depressed the past few days. I
haven't gotten my period since october and
i've been on the pill and used condoms
since I had the baby. I haven't tested
because i'm in denial, or just too scared
o know the results. Besides my urine
test always come out negative, and before
I do blood I want to wait it out a little
longer. I don't know if some of you
remember but I have an irregular cycle, so
i'm hoping that it's just late. But for
two days i've been feeling a little
nuacious, and now today i've been feeling
mild tenderness in my abdomen. It
doesn't feel like cramps, and I don't know
how else to explain it. Anyway what
chances do you think I have of coming out
pregnant again , when i've been so careful
condoms and the pill. I love kids, but
i'm really worry. Jeremiah is only 4
months old and I don't think that sheldon
would be very happy. I'm not sure if I
would be happy, I really want to finish
school, and I don't believe in abortion.
What do I do wait it out a little longer
or what. I don't want to do the blood
test yet because I don't have the money
for it right now, with christmas and all.
I really don't know what to think or do.
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peanutbuttertreasure
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Nov 2004 Posts: 1226 Location: Georgia
Re: I Have a Question Posted: 12-16-04 00:19am
lee25
wrote:
but for two days i've been
feeling a little nuacious, and now today
i've been feeling mild tenderness in my
abdomen. It doesn't feel like cramps,
and I don't know how else to explain it.
i really don't know...I'm not
preggy...Ttc..Or a mother..I'm a virgin
but I have felt naucious and have felt
tender in my abdomen quite often (anything
that touches it..Bothers it like
crazy..Clothes..A desk anything)...Usually
a week or two later I get my period. But
i'm not a doctor...So I wouldn't
know...Sorry
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Moira
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Nov 2004 Posts: 302 Location: somewhere where it rains a lot
Posted: 12-16-04 05:11am
Depression and nausea etc are symptoms of
both pregnancy and periods - they're
caused by hormones going wibbly. Negative
preggo tests are a good sign that you're
not preggo, plus you've been careful with
b/c. Try visitng your local family
planning to see if they'll do a blood test
for free or at least cheaply. Oh and try
not to worry - that's just going to make
your period later.
All the best hun.
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lauren_prk
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Dec 2004 Posts: 253 Location: Wisconsin
Posted: 12-16-04 12:14pm
Honestly, I think the sooner you test the
better, birth control pills are not good
for the baby, and studies show that it
reduces the sperm count if it's a boy!!!
You seriously need to test asap! I know
you don't want another child, but a
healthy one is better than one with
medical complications, I don't know all
the way b.C. Affects the baby, but I
wouldn't want to take the cahnces!
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lee25
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Dec 2003 Posts: 1018 Location: new york
