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Q: Haveing Problems With the Mother/father of Your Child to Be?
asked by: Teen_Father29 on December 17th, 2004
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I am a teen father and I have been going out with my girlfriend for about 1 and 1/2 years and we haven't been haveing problems untill she got pregnet and not we are on a "break". I have been trying everything to get her back. How do I do that? She is now spending all of her time with this other guy named dennis. I always thought that he was cool but I guess not.



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sftbllchika06
replied on December 17th, 2004
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Maybe she is just scared about being pregnant. I now when I found out I didn't want my now ex around me at all I just wanted to figure thing out for me and the baby first. Be patient she will eventually talk to you. How far along is she?? If you need to talk about what you are going through email me anytime. No one ever asks the fathers how they feel.



~meghan~
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PosrscheLvr
replied on December 17th, 2004
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You do have rights to that child. If you really want it, talk to your parents and fight. It doesn't sounds like she is very responsible already moving on to another guy. =/ stand up for yourself, most of the times guys don't get any say, and I think they should have as much as as they woman
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lil_blaze2004
replied on December 17th, 2004
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I've been with my bf for almost 4 years and I was sooooooo moody that we almost broke up a few times and we're in our mid 20's. Hopefully if youjust back of and give her some space she'll come around. Good luck!!
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Tazzy D
replied on December 17th, 2004
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Okay you can stand back or you can push those are your options. If you stand back she may think that you dont care about her or the baby. If you push to get her back it might just push her away. So this is my opinion. I would write her a letter since she wont talk to you right now. Let her know how much you care about her and the baby and of course the three of you as one. You can let her know that you will give her the space that she needs but also let her know that you are here for her if she needs you. There is really nothing you can do right now but wait. Also a good point apologize for all of your wrong doing if any.. Also about the baby if things do not work out with the both of you. You can always go to court and get rights to your child. Visitation etc. Good luck and let us know how things go. We are here if you need to talk.
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Newmommy23
replied on December 17th, 2004
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Tazzy you always have the best advice!! You should start a ask abby type thing hehe.

As for you sir you are truely a real man!! I commend you! Goodluck hun!
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Tazzy D
replied on December 17th, 2004
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jlee77 wrote:
i'm not jumping the gun and please forgive me if it sounds this way...But: is there anyway dennis could be the father and that is why she is spending her time with him? I'm not trying to judge, just wondering if it crossed your mind.


you mam could be correct. Sorry I did forget that . You also need to be careful the way you ask her that question, because she could take offence to it and that would really oush her away.. Good luck
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sftbllchika06
replied on December 17th, 2004
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Was your girl seeing this guy before you 2 broke up or did it start after you broke up?? Don't jump to conclusions and get mad at her either you don't even know if it true yet. I was really upset when I told my ex that I was pregnant and he was like well is it mine or were you sleeping around?? Don't be a jerk.




~meghan~
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