Well before I was pregnant I used to weight 105-109 the most I was a very thin girl my cute body and stuff but then when I got pregnant I blew up like a cow and then at the end of my pregnancy I got to 140-149the most and I really didnt feel comfortable even though I had my daughter at 8 months (preemie) I could have been fatter well i'm also 5"2" when I had the baby I felt like I didnt had her I weighed 140 but I started losing it now i'm about 120-125 or so but I still see my stomach all nasty and flabby and full of stretch marks but hey my hubs says he really doesnt care and I still move him like when I was skinny so that cheers me up!! So dont worry as long as he aint complaining about it make yourself feel good. Cheer up !!!!

You are not fat!!!! I cant believe you even think that!!!! You are crazy. You should not even worry about it. As long as nobody is complaining then you shouldnt.

Its fine. Jose doesnt look at any other girls so im ok there! Sorry. But youre the one hes with, not those other girls. I bet theyd gain all the wieght if they had 3 kids too! So dont worry. I also told jose id poke his eyes out if he was staring at other girls. He did that once and I backhanded him! Hahaha maybe he wants you covered so other guys dont look at you! An overprotection thing. I used to wear all kinds of low cut tops and skirts, but now im conservative because jose doesnt "want men staring at me" so I dont care. I think you are a great size for 3 kids!

Jennifer-u r so not fat huni. Hey,my ass is fatter then that! Well,i have a j lo ass is what I mean but hey,i like it! A girl needs some curves! I think u shud confront ur guy 2 if u think he's looking at thin girls cos he shouldnt be lookin at any girls!!!!
Liz x

Liz is right! About him starring...I dont know about the butt thing!Hahaha I havent seen it!

Lol nikki! Im suprised u cant c it from where u r! Joke...It aint that bad.Its just big compared 2 my body!

Sweetheart honestly I really dont think you are fat!! You had 3 beautiful kids and you are still not fat!! I think hes just trying to be protective! I was talking to raven the other day I was like im going to get soo freakin big when I have this baby hes like I will always think you are beautiful! I said well what about afterwards hes like if it really bugs you that much afterwards you can come to the gym w/ me and ill help you lift but honestly I will still think you are beautiful and that I was like good! I mean raven is being really supportive about it! Im sure your husband thinks you are just as beautiful if not more than the day he met you!! So stop being so negative and look in the mirror and just say damn im beautiful! Lol! Even if you dont feel it ! Man I wish I was skinnier I got this jlo ass and a big chest!! Lol!! My tummy isnt really flat its got some pudge but you know what I would much rather look like this than be someone or something im not! I think I look good!!! Soo you know what before you had your kids you were that little you were alot younger and your body wasnt fully done developing!!! I think you are beautiful person!! So smile and be happy girl!!!!Much love and god bless!!

Jen

Dont even worry girl I only have 1 daughter and I weight half as much you do and you have three how about that but I feel good I really dont give a caca what anybody says as long as my man isn't tripping and I dont feel confident of myself but just talk your man and let him know what you feel I know its a full time job taking care of three kids but take a little time to work out maybe youll feel better and you man can look at you too my only complaint are these damn stretch marks thats terrible I cant even wear anything that even shows my tummy a little thats bad now theres nothing you cant really do about it.

O sweetie not at all! Especially if you had a child. Thats not even close to fat for someone who's never had a child. Your fine dont worry. Lotsa love ~melissa

Thats great!!!!! See its no big deal!!!!