Sigh.. I Think My Relationship Has Gone Down the Crapper. Posted: 12-17-04 17:25pm
I seriously think it's time for a breakup
or a seperation because it's not working
out... It just seems like I have fallen
out of love with him. I don't have the
money to get my own place and I don't know
how to go through the logistics of doing
that if I did have the money so right now
I have to deal with it.. We just get on
each others nerves. He talks about
marriage but it will never work out...
Everytime he says it I can't help but look
away and roll my eyes. We have been
together for 2 years and living together
for 1 and already are having problems so I
doubt marriage will ever be an option.. I
just don't know how to do it.. To break
it to him that we are not working out..
And probably never will.. What we had was
puppy love and we are grown up and it's
over now.. I thought it was the real
thing but again I was fooled. I thought
it would last forever and it felt like it
would but it won't.. I guess if we ever
do break up.. I should just stay single..
I don't get along well with people and
never have. We were just ships passing
through the night.
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PattyV
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 May 2004 Posts: 1103 Location: Chicago area
Posted: 12-18-04 20:52pm
The longer you stay,the harder it will be
to leave.I was once in a situation like
that and had no$$$ to get my own place.I
stayed for a while,but got to the point
where I could not stand for him to even
talk to me.I bit the bullet and got a
second job and lived like a hermit for a
while to save money for my escape.I did it
and it was tough and scary,but freedom was
never so sweet!!I eventually met my
husband and we have a great relationship.I
was not ready for a great guy until I got
my head together.Once you are happy with
yourself,you can have happiness with
someone else.Until you figure that out,you
will always find yourself unhappy and
always searching for something.Best to
you.
Patty
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Roxy
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Dec 2004 Posts: 25 Location: Il
Posted: 12-28-04 02:07am
Hello bd.
Everyone has problems.First before you
leave I think you both should go to
counseling together to see if you can
last.If not,go your separate ways.....If
it works for you.I've heard a statement
from someone I like very much.He
said,"people do things that work for
them".(dr.Phil mcgraw)
