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CPL_JJ

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Posted: 07-07-05 15:11pm

skar wrote:
hey mr coward you plastic soldier how proud you must be to run of in the middle of your commrades being shot at.


So how many white feathers did you get?


lol now you're making fun of the military. You've ran out of ideas and now must use that 1% thinking capacity on full load

how proud you must be to pretend to have a husband, but the reality is that no one would ever touch you with a 10 foot pole. You're name is skar, which tells me one of two things

you have no friends, no life, and you're a goth health forum with a very low brow sense of humor

you need therapy, and need to be taught how to spell. It's spelt scar, not skar. You misspelled you're own name, good job fool
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Meandering Away

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Cpl-jj
Posted: 07-07-05 15:16pm

You are nothing but a eunuch a ball less man[if you are even a man,which I highly doubt]you are beneath me and as such I will wipe my boots on you,i am sure you are proud of the way you ran in battle coward,but to me you are worse than the terrorists over there.Now you are not worth me wasting my time on,and as my wife is kicking your a$$ on her own I am no longer needed.So I will get on with my life,you know that thing you know nothing about.
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CPL_JJ

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Re: Cpl-jj
Posted: 07-07-05 15:20pm

cowboys wrote:
you are nothing but a eunuch a ball less man[if you are even a man,which I highly doubt]you are beneath me and as such I will wipe my boots on you,i am sure you are proud of the way you ran in battle coward,but to me you are worse than the terrorists over there.Now you are not worth me wasting my time on,and as my wife is kicking your a$$ on her own I am no longer needed.So I will get on with my life,you know that thing you know nothing about.


i'm waiting for all this to happen. Come wipe your boots on me. Come have your oversized whale you call a bride try to beat me up. Idle threats don't faze me.

Have you figured out where I live yet, or does your health question still think I live in england?


Come on scar, i'm waiting you fat sack of crap
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Meandering Away

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Re: Cpl-jj
Posted: 07-07-05 16:00pm

cpl_jj wrote:
cowboys wrote:
you are nothing but a eunuch a ball less man[if you are even a man,which I highly doubt]you are beneath me and as such I will wipe my boots on you,i am sure you are proud of the way you ran in battle coward,but to me you are worse than the terrorists over there.Now you are not worth me wasting my time on,and as my wife is kicking your a$$ on her own I am no longer needed.So I will get on with my life,you know that thing you know nothing about.


i'm waiting for all this to happen. Come wipe your boots on me. Come have your oversized whale you call a bride try to beat me up. Idle threats don't faze me.

Have you figured out where I live yet, or does your health question still think I live in england?



Come on scar, i'm waiting you fat sack of crap



still a coward I see,no surprise that.I think you need help in the worst way.I do not have to threaten you because you are such a vile piece of crap,that you are probably in hiding somewhere terrified of leaving the squat you call home.
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Meandering Away

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Cpl-jj
Posted: 07-07-05 16:05pm

Eh I heard you were that ugly your mother feed you with a catapult.
You were so ugly she had to tie a bone around your neck so the dog would play with you.
When you were born they slapped your mother instead.
On your birth certificate where it says fathers name,you have an apology from durex.
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CPL_JJ

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Re: Cpl-jj
Posted: 07-07-05 18:55pm

cowboys wrote:
cpl_jj wrote:
cowboys wrote:
you are nothing but a eunuch a ball less man[if you are even a man,which I highly doubt]you are beneath me and as such I will wipe my boots on you,i am sure you are proud of the way you ran in battle coward,but to me you are worse than the terrorists over there.Now you are not worth me wasting my time on,and as my wife is kicking your a$$ on her own I am no longer needed.So I will get on with my life,you know that thing you know nothing about.


i'm waiting for all this to happen. Come wipe your boots on me. Come have your oversized whale you call a bride try to beat me up. Idle threats don't faze me.

Have you figured out where I live yet, or does your health question still think I live in england?





Come on scar, i'm waiting you fat sack of crap



still a coward I see,no surprise that.I think you need help in the worst way.I do not have to threaten you because you are such a vile piece of crap,that you are probably in hiding somewhere terrified of leaving the squat you call home.



a coward? I'm publically challenging you, and you think i'm a coward? Who's the one who created a fake husband to act like a tough guy? It sure wasn't me. Come and kick my ass please. I'm inviting you to do so. Is that cowardly?


You must have dyslexia or some caca; I don't feel right arguing with a retard because you can't seem to comprehend anything anyone has said


this is the saddest thing i've ever seen :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
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paganangel

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Posted: 07-07-05 20:57pm

You are a coward and a pretty messed up one at that. Harassing people over the internet is very cowardly. Crawl back into your maggot infested trailer.
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mnmice115

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to C And Cowboy person
Posted: 07-08-05 02:23am

U 2 need some assitance first place cl saying sucks to me first place its sucks and u cant spell 2ndly besides that I know how to spell just dont care 3rd ur so pathetic u checked this site 5 times tonight and cowboy get a little reality check nobody likes redneck hicks and go back to the old west where u belong from 150 years ago probably live in kansas somewhere like that where people bang there grandmas cl ur an fool also publicly challenging him who talks like that ur a dork and half what are u challenging him to a computer fight freak, cl it sucks to be u and its so sad that ur calling somebody else sad when ur the one who started this whole thing u giant fool
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Meandering Away

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Re: to C And Cowboy person
Posted: 07-08-05 06:44am

mnmice115 wrote:
u 2 need some assitance first place cl saying sucks to me first place its sucks and u cant spell 2ndly besides that I know how to spell just dont care 3rd ur so pathetic u checked this site 5 times tonight and cowboy get a little reality check nobody likes redneck hicks and go back to the old west where u belong from 150 years ago probably live in kansas somewhere like that where people bang there grandmas cl ur an fool also publicly challenging him who talks like that ur a dork and half what are u challenging him to a computer fight freak, cl it sucks to be u and its so sad that ur calling somebody else sad when ur the one who started this whole thing u giant fool



what,this is illegible.Even if you do not care about spelling at least try punctuation.
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CPL_JJ

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Re: to C And Cowboy person
Posted: 07-08-05 14:56pm

mnmice115 wrote:
u 2 need some assitance first place cl saying sucks to me first place its sucks and u cant spell 2ndly besides that I know how to spell just dont care 3rd ur so pathetic u checked this site 5 times tonight and cowboy get a little reality check nobody likes redneck hicks and go back to the old west where u belong from 150 years ago probably live in kansas somewhere like that where people bang there grandmas cl ur an fool also publicly challenging him who talks like that ur a dork and half what are u challenging him to a computer fight freak, cl it sucks to be u and its so sad that ur calling somebody else sad when ur the one who started this whole thing u giant fool


we have a new winner! The retard award goes to mnmice115!! For his outstanding work in run-on sentencing.

Oh wait, you're from brooklyn. That's about the normal iq of that place, actually a little smarter. My bad.
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snownix

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Posted: 07-11-05 22:11pm

Right now, i'm also going through this barrier of meeting new ppl, and putting yourself out there... You should try reaching out and being more open to ppl, try approaching more girls and guys, guys- being just for the friendship, you never know- they could hook you up with a girl, parties, whatever, someday... Plus, approaching anyone would be good practice for you to open up and get more oppurtunities with girls.
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fa18hornet

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Found This On Google, Read Abit, And Just Had to Reply...
Posted: 07-13-05 01:27am

cpl_jj wrote:
mnmice115 wrote:
the most I ever had was this girl I met online she would hang out with me once every few weeks or few months I hung aroudn her 5 times but its somewhat of an insult as well she treated me like crap sometimes ignoring me for months thenn being like hey whats up I missed u and the reason she woudl get mad is cause I woudl say shes a liar when she woudl give me lame reasons why she cant hang out she treated me like craplast year I got so desperate I wrote a grls friend an email that ig rew up with cause her firned use dot like me and then I moved away and she forgot about me so in response to my email they kind of made a joke out of me pretneidng liek she odenst know who I am I lived down the block from her for 19 years she knows who I am anyway I was crying a few days ago as well I asked this girl out she made some excuse up about why she cnat hang out ive been coutning so far ive asked out 10 girls in a row and they've all said no to me I meet girls online cause I cant take it being rjecte din perosn it hurts so much to be honest I had sex when I was 22 it wasnt that great especialyl considering she ignored me after and just used me and when I went under another screename and pretneded im soembody else she goes he was a real loser I feel bad for him, thats nice the first girl I ahd sex iwth used me and thinkis im a joke I know how a lot of u feel im a goodlooking guy I mean I attract girls but as soon as they talk to me its all over I know what the problem is im just a loser in my opinion I mean im goodloking with a nice body but these girlsa accoridng to them if ur not a good talker ur ac ompletele loser thats why they wont give me a chance or some of u guys it hink they just feel well he is not very good at talking and will problabmy embarass me infront of people I know so ic ant hang out with him evnethough I find him attractive yea I was reaidn gthat emal from one of the guys abotu the fat guys even having g/fs yea its true I mean I work out and I cant even get a g/f and these guys that dont care how they look at all sitll manage to get girls easier than me whats upw ti this cant somebody just go out with me cause I try really hard to treat them nice its always some excuse nobody loves me sometimes if elel ike nobody eve rwill I was thining about suciide for 3 days after that last girl turned me down its so painful its just like where u walk aorund u see guys iwth girls and ur always the guy alone with no girl holding u or laughing with u I have no friends and no matter how hard I try or dont try to get a girl to go out with me it never works can u imagine asking out ag irl u grew up with that uve wanted to ask out for 8 years basically ignore ur email not care at all and last year a girl that I liekd for 2 years didint call me when I gave her my phone numebr now thats some painful stuff dwelling over these ladies for years in ur head eveyr single week then ur like ok I was thining about this girl every day for over 2 years and now she rejected me its like u take that long to ask somebody out how hard it was for me then I get turned down how can u be happy when u want someobdy to be with u so bad then uf ianlyl force urself 2 years down the line or in my other case 8 years down the line and they dont want u life is hard its unfair but u guys shoudl just do what I do just keep trying ot talk to girls I know how it feels I try to talk to women half the time they give me that tone of voice that sounds like why u talking to me loser but hey if u try hard enough hopefully somebody will love u back im 23 years old I still remmeber being 9 years old laying on my bed dreaming of the day that ill get a g/f now im a grown man and it sitll hasnt hapepend I never would of imagined being in a situation like this its so hard being alone its the worst pain ever and id ont liek when peoel say oh its no big deal having a relationship ur not msisng anythign if they felt that way and it was true they woudlnt kepe gettingi nto relationships what matters if somebody dumps u after a yhear at least it proves ur lovable on some degree if any girls would ike to chat I have pics on my prifle and my email address is mnmice115@ aol.Com im a nice guy just give me a chance


sux 2 b u
you are seriously messed up. You need to pack your bags and resettle in reality. You are obviously heartless to a certain degree, as well as being the type of person in which does not hesitate to be judgemental or make assumptions based on what other people have endured throughout their life. How cruel to say such a thing... I'll be honest with you. People of your kind disgust me.


Ps: no worries, mnmice115. I believe this needed to be said.


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dutchman

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Posted: 07-13-05 02:49am

Even I didn't had a girlfriend ever!
Though used to hear compliments from almost everyone I knew about my looks. Maybe the reson was that I was an introvert...And its my guess that girl seem to hesitate to break the ice with a handsome hunk when he don't seem very friendly or communicative..Its the same either way..Suppose you are a guy and there' a real good looking girl but who isn't very communicative..And there's another girl very average looking..I'm sure you'll find it easier to strike up a conversation with the later one.
Sometimes looks may infact hinder your chances! :?
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One Tree Hill

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Re: Well Join the Club :(
Posted: 07-14-05 14:36pm

doing it true m8. 100% exactly wot happened to me. Xept im 13. But still. Everything appart from the age is 100% the same. Lifes' a health forum.

Matt
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mnmice115

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Thanx Fa18hornet
Posted: 07-17-05 22:25pm

I really appreciate ur support ur a good person :)
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Flexx

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Posted: 07-24-05 02:30am

Im in the same boat as a lot of you guys. Im 26 now, and i've pretty much been single my entire life. It's really sad because all your friends (like all normal people) have had many relationships, and here we are unable to get anything. I did have a girlfriend once when I was 18, but all she did was screw me over and use me for her personal doormat. Now I cant even get a girl to notice me. And to that poster who said you just gotta learn how to read bodylanguage... That's a bunch of b.S. I know how to read all the body language and all the signals. Problem is that there are no girls sending me any. I just dont get. I've tried to figure out what my problem is without much luck. Granted im not the most outgoing person, maybe that's the problem, I dont know. But people tell me im a cool guy. I've gone to bars, and discos with friends and they'll be standing right beside me looking at the goddamn floor and some incredibly hot chick will walk up to them out of nowhere and start talking to them. It's like im invisible or something. Maybe im just not a good looking guy. Because of my lack of a social life, now the only thing I really do is go to the gym to work out and release my frustrations. So my body is above average, but that hasnt helped me at all when it comes to attracting girls. I truely believe that not having relationships is unhealthy, and I think it has really affected me mentally. I've thought many times about how long I would live.... Sort of counting down how many more years of torture i'll have to endure. The worst thing would be if I lived to be 90 and still single. I've pretty much decided that if things dont change for me by the time im 30 (and i'll be 27 in feb), i'm just gonna give up and leave the country. Maybe i'll go to tibet and become a monk or something. Hell, if im not gonna be able to get a girlfriend I might as well be a monk... I basically am right now just without the title. I can live for free, eat for free, and all i'll have to do is read books and study martial arts or something. I wont have to worry about sexual temptation cause there wont be any women around. And im sure the mountain scenery in tibet is great.
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mnmice115

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U Should Visit the Dominican Republic
Posted: 07-24-05 12:43pm

I heard there the girls actually approach u asm uch as the guys from 2 different sources thats what im gonan check out in another 2 years if nothign happens go to one of those countries where the girls that are interested in u approach u then its so much greater chacne to get a g/f look at all girls no matter what they do they all eventually get a b/f unless there suffering of obesity, same thing with guys in some other countries if u get hit on evyer day by another girl one of htem has to like ur personality check it out I know what u mean yb the doormat thing
i met this wacko in sept I hung out with her 3 times hse stopped speaking to me for 6 months then I hung outw ith her 3 more times then she stopped talking to me again then I started talkign to her agian then ic aleld her a liar cuase she ow[udlnt hang out that day then she sotpepd tlaking to me for a month again what a nutjob, she p[robably thrives off of trying to control me
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Flexx

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Re: U Should Visit the Dominican Republic
Posted: 07-24-05 13:14pm

mnmice115 wrote:
i heard there the girls actually approach u asm uch as the guys from 2 different sources thats what im gonan check out in another 2 years if nothign happens go to one of those countries where the girls that are interested in u approach u then its so much greater chacne to get a g/f look at all girls no matter what they do they all eventually get a b/f unless there suffering of obesity, same thing with guys in some other countries if u get hit on evyer day by another girl one of htem has to like ur personality check it out I know what u mean yb the doormat thing
i met this wacko in sept I hung out with her 3 times hse stopped speaking to me for 6 months then I hung outw ith her 3 more times then she stopped talking to me again then I started talkign to her agian then ic aleld her a liar cuase she ow[udlnt hang out that day then she sotpepd tlaking to me for a month again what a nutjob, she p[robably thrives off of trying to control me

i too have thought about this. I think part of the problem may be the way the girls are here in the u.S. When I was in europe, girls would actually notice me and talk to me.... Even flirt with me. I've heard it before about how american girls are the worst when it comes to how superficial they are and how they treat men. I dont know just how much truth there is to that, but I can definitely say that I never got attention from girls here like I did over in europe.
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Posted: 08-03-05 03:54am

I never had a girlfriend either nor have I kissed or had sex or anything like that. I,m not as old as you guys (19) but I still feeled like I missed out and I probably still will for a long time as it feels now. I met a girl who is 21 who I love to death and we had really nice times... But as friends. She said she would never ever feel something for me. I dont really know why she would said that since we had so nice times. But I guess she just wants to be friends. My heart has bin crushed 3 times before but this girl was so special to me it hurts even more bad. This thursday will be the last I ever see of her since I told her I cant see her anymore because I love her so much and she feels nothing. She doesn,t even mind that badly.... Some kind of medical answer miracle should happen if anything should happen thursday. But thanks to my depression I know whats reality like and nothing will happen at all. It just doesn,t seem fair sometimes... You love a girl to death you do anything for her... And they go for the guys that dont really give a medical answer about them... I,m glad to hear i,m not the only one though... But I think we should learn to be alone and not be so desperate... Its not that hard to find a girl you like and probably love but most of the times in my case they dont love me back or just wanna be friends... Its funny how many times a girl said to me: I dont think il ever feel anything for you.
Yes sometimes I feel insecure as hell. Always being rejected. The thing is I dont even fall on beautiful woman... Their mostly just average and there,s something I like about them. So looks aren,t even a concern to me. I know this one girl will be in my mind for a long time... And il carry a bear pain with me I just cant believe tommorow is the last time il ever see her.
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Re: Never Had a Girlfriend
Posted: 09-18-05 23:58pm

phreaknite wrote:
hey...I didn't know where to post this problem, so I figured broken hearted was the best place to do it, this is because my heart has never been put together enough to even been broken.


I am 20 years old and I have never had any kind of girlfriend. The only type of girlfriend I have had was when I was 12/13 years old and it lasted maybe a month.


I am currently in college and my school has almost no social scene that meeting any girls is just about impossible, especially with over 70% male student body. Also, I went to all boy's school for hs, which made meeting girls impossible at that time as well.


I feel like I missed out on an important part of my life sexually and emotionally. I feel like there is more time that I am missing out on but I just do not know how to fix the problem.


About a year ago I started to talk to a girl I knew from when I was 12, and who used to have a huge crush on me when we were kids. The talked was very innocent at first, and she has a boyfriend, but eventually it became flirting and I could tell she was attracted to me, but that boyfriend barrier still existed, and over time apart when I went back to school our converstaions were limited to talking on the internet with a distance barried of 450 miles between us....Soon when I would talk to her I would notice she was distant, and I understood because I knew the reason -- she was reestablishing a broken relationship with her boyfriend and their relationship was on the right track again.


Since then, about 4 months since we were very flirty, I was so desperate I scoured the internet for someone to talk to and met a girl from maryland who I connected with. After about a month, because of distance again, she was taken.


I guess my real problem is I don't know how to fix this problem. It seems like this comes so easy to other people, to find someone to start going out with, or at least get intimate with. I have never had that, and my fear is that I never will. I don't know what to do with myself....I can't even go out and drink anymore because when I come home alone, all the alcohol lets me think about is how lonely I really am...


Any suggestions on how to fix this problem?
I will be 27 november 7th and I never had a boyfriend.I am single right now and I love it and i'm sure my time for a boyfriend will come.I never had to worry about getting my heart broken by a guy.I hear it's a horrible feeling.You are only 20 you have plenty of time to get a girlfriend.It will come just be patient if you can.
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