Conflicting Messages - So Confused! Posted: 12-20-04 11:01am
When I was 15 I went out with this guy
from school (that I had liked for ages)
for six months but my parents didn't
approve of me having a bf so it didnt
really work out. After we broke up we
never spoke but now were 19 & friends
again. I haven't had a bf since and still
have very strong feelings for him. I was
over him until we became friends again but
always compared every other guy to him
(and they were never as good as him).
He was with his gf of 3 yrs when we
started talking again but they broke up
about 6 months ago. While they were still
together he told me that if circumstances
were diff things between us could be diff.
He told me that I was the first girl he
loved n that he always regreted breaking
up with me blah blah blah. He knows how I
feel about him coz I have told him many
times n he tells me that i'm gorgeous n
that he has a soft spot for me but doesn't
want a relationship. He has said that he
would be happy if a relationship evolved
over time though. I'm scared that if I
wait til he is ready for a relationship
he'll want it with someone else.
I am so confused as to what he wants as he
is always sending conflicting msgs. Its
like he doesn't want me to be his gf but
doesn't want anyone else to have me
either. Part of me feels he is the one n
I cant see myself with anyone else, yet
part of me doesn't know if I could trust
him. I'm finding it so difficult to get
over him. What should I do?
Sorry its so long!
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damien123
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Mar 2005 Posts: 24 Location: Aus
Posted: 03-28-05 15:07pm
Just tell him what you feel. Its obvious
that you like him so just do it. He
obviously likes you otherwise he wouldn't
say that you're gorgeous etc. Hope it
goes well. Do it straight away :d
