Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 11-11-03 00:12am
Lol, you had me cracking up here at my
desk!!!
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Lildreamer
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Sep 2003 Posts: 144 Location: CALI
Posted: 11-12-03 21:00pm
Ohhhhhhhhhh elvis......Hes fine!!!! I
just had to say it!
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 11-13-03 11:57am
Lol I know huh! Hes pretty firme. I love
his music.
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CrombieChic16
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2003 Posts: 745
Posted: 11-16-03 15:23pm
Hey girls!
Its been a while since ive last
updated....But ya know how I said earlier
that I was hoping to be smiling by the end
of the night? Well...Its a week later and
im still smiling! Lol, things have been
going awesome with him so far....We've
hung out about 3 or 4 times throughout
this week/weekend and have had such a
great time together...Even my friends keep
telling me how great of a guy he is...Im
starting to open up just a little bit to
him, enough to be able to feel comfortable
being myself...He told me the other night
that im really starting to grow on him and
that he wants to see where this goes...So
we'll see...Im just taking it one day at a
time....Two nights ago my friend had a
bunch of people over and we went over and
we all ended up drinking and everybody
slept over....I was really surprised
because he didnt pressure me or force
anything on me even when he was drunk! He
even told me that we were not going to
have sex! Lol, I thought that was
awesome, I was really happy....But
anyways, things are going good and ill
keep updating!
-vanessa
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
Posted: 11-17-03 15:21pm
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Lildreamer
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Sep 2003 Posts: 144 Location: CALI
Posted: 11-18-03 22:25pm
Thats greeeeaaat ! Its pretty chill how
you can meet a guy that can be calm like
that. It takes a real man to control
himself!
Lol nikki........You had me crackin up as
soon as you said "firme"!!!!!!!Yah he
is!!!!!!!!!!!!! Keep it real......Much
love to you!
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CrombieChic16
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2003 Posts: 745
Posted: 11-28-03 10:59am
Hey girls!
Its been a while since ive updated this
post...But things are going pretty good
with tom....It'll be a month on monday!
Lol...I think its awesome how its so chill
between us....I mean its not like that
junior high bs ya know? He tells me how
he feels, and I know hes telling me the
truth because some of the stuff I dont
really wanna hear lol, but nothing comes
easy...We're just taking it one day at a
time, and it seems to be working so far.
As for the sex situation, we're getting
together tonight to talk about
it....Either way I told him I need to get
on the pill, just for my sake...And really
time will tell what happens next. Its
awesome how I can tell him what im
thinking about, and not have him get mad
at me....He told me I could trust him, and
of course I didnt take that literally
because look what happened before....But
we were together the other night and we
had dry sex with a condom on and I kinda
freaked out, just because I hadnt done
that before, and I felt vulnerable and
thought about my ex and that
situation....And he saw that something was
wrong so he stopped and looked at me and
asked me if everything was ok, I didnt say
anything and had my face in my hands, so
he said ya know what enoughs enough we
dont have to do this right now...And he
talked to me and gave me a hug...Then the
next night we were talking and he said I
told you u could trust me, and it just
made me feel good, because in a sense, he
proved that to be true.... Im still going
to be cautious but it eased my mind,
knowing how he reacted.....I dont know
girls, this is crazy, but im not jumping
to conclusions...Just taking it one step
at a time...
Hope everybodys doing good, and had a
happy thanksgiving!
vanessa
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
Posted: 11-28-03 13:24pm
Last edited by insurancegirl on 09-29-04 13:19pm; edited 1 time in total
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CrombieChic16
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2003 Posts: 745
Posted: 11-29-03 12:42pm
Jennifer,
i love hearing from you because your
advice is so well put and not
judgemental...I'm not planning on sleeping
with him just yet, I mean we've talked
openly about it and I think that's how it
should be, so we're on the same page with
things. But either way, I want to get on
the pill, so when I do eventually make the
decision to do it(if and when), i'll be as
protected as possible. I really feel
comfortable with him because he is older
and he's been there and done that sorta
thing. He's not stupid like most of these
guys, who think fooling around with their
"goods" out unprotected is safe. He told
me that it's completely up to me and he'll
support any decision I make. He's not
pressuring me in any way at all, so now I
can at least make my decision level
headed. Im really excited to see where
this goes because its so different from
what im used to..So we'll see...Well im on
my way out to lunch, so ill catch up with
ya later
vanessa
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
Posted: 12-01-03 12:32pm
Last edited by insurancegirl on 09-29-04 13:20pm; edited 1 time in total
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CrombieChic16
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2003 Posts: 745
Posted: 12-07-03 16:48pm
Hey girls,
not too much to update on this
week...Tom's been gone all weekend so it's
been pretty quiet over here lol....Ive
been having second thoughts about
everything and of course doubting
myself...I have a lot going on right now
and I feel like hes not there for me
emotionally, but then I understand why he
wouldnt be, because I dont tell him
things, and when I do, I dont tell him to
the fullest extent, so he doesnt know how
bad its bothering me...My cousin's death
has been hitting me hard this week, and
even though I told him what happened, I
feel as though he doesnt take it as
serious as he should...He's an extremely
laid back person, so I guess im just not
used to it. Im used to being coddled and
told everythings going to be okay, and im
not this time. I guess between him being
older and laid back thats just how it
is..Its kinda like a never ending circle
of getting no where...If we dont open up
then how will it work? It wont, so im
trying harder to be more open with him and
tell him whats wrong when I get depressed,
so he doesnt think im some psycho
basketcase! Lol...He really surprised me
with this whole incident this week, I
thought he would deny it and make me feel
stupid and guilty...He did nothing of the
sort, just told me he was happy that I was
okay, and if I needed anything to let him
know. Its just frustrating because I want
things to work with him, but I also know
that because he is older, things arent
going to come as easily. I mean we are
leading two different lives and its hard
sometimes to find common ground between
us. I dont know, im not expecting
anything for the future, so that way if
nothing comes of it, it wont be as hard to
let him go...Ive thought about ending
things or at least taking a break, because
I want a relationship, and its hard being
with him sometimes because I want him to
hold my hand and tell me things....But I
also respect him for not doing that when
he knows he'll be leading me on....It's
kind of like a lose-lose situation right
now...Im just trying to get through this
weekend, ill update after I see him
again.
Vanessa
