just don't go in there. I don't know if you are prego or not but stress isn't healthy either say. Screw that whole place over there, unless it's directly relevant to you right now, no need to post:)

or I am sure we can start you on a 12-step program:)

Lol- I am 13 weeks preggo today!!!!! Yay!!!!

Just dont go there. Better yet go and delete all of your post like I did and the stuff will have to stop. Then there is nothing to reply to

thanks mama t!!!!!!

yeah.. It's better for all of us dildos that you stay over here..

that would be great. Youyou really didn't seem to handle debate very well, so you and everybody else would be better off if you stay here.

Here is advice to everybody. Don't go to a debate forum unless you can accept that other people have different views and that they will challenge your claims. If you can't handle debating, then a debate forum is not for you.

Now, blazes, if you could drop your infantile attacks, we can get back to the issue of pregnancy, neh?

That abortion forum is a mess! Why do pregnant women even go there, it seems like they have made up their minds anyways... Pointless...
Well, just my opinion...

The more you go on it the chances are the more upset you'll continue to get hun!@

I am completely over the debate room!! Too much hostility for nme and my little one!! They r welecome to thier opinions and can keep them!!

After reading all those horrible posts and accidentaly letting out my feelings, one of the girls from that forum pm'ed me and told me that she didnt kill babies and yada yada, so I delt with it the best way I knew how. Insead of writing mean comments, I wrote her telling her why I would never have an abortion, like telling her how it felt the first time I saw my baby's heart beat and how I dream about what my baby will grow up to be. The funny thing is she never wrote me back, I feel like that really closed the situation for me because she didnt make a comment back to me so I guess I left her speachless!

Believe what you want jennifer.. I'm glad that you don't want to abort any pregnancies.. Good for you, you know that abortion is not right for you and won't choose that option.. See.. Now isn't choice wonderful? Now what would happen if you were forced to abort? You would've been forced to undergo something that you didnt' want to and that could dame you physically and pyschiologically.. So it's wonderful that you can choose not to do that.. This what prochoice is all about. There's my response.

:roll: anyhow brandy your post made noo sense, you rearranged half of it... And girls we are not "doing just fine" fyi we dont have phds :roll: yes I guess a phd is need to be doing just fine :shock:

Bd, im just letting you know that if something like that did happen I would have a d.N.C. Preformed not an abortion. The difference you ask its just like premature labor, there isnt any crap about sucking the baby's brains out!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sure it might be a little more painful but it sure saves your self and your child a little dignity!!!!!! And for not agreeing with our views your pretty infatuated with them, its fine to reply back when there is a reason for you to, but if your gonna say something negative take it to your forum for that. (i hope I spelled infatuated right, my computer is to fragile to do spell check)

huh? Your description of different procedures really don't make sense, neither does the crap about sucking out babies' brains. So do you have anything factual to say here, or are you going to provide misinformation and dubious claims? Yes, you have the right to an opinion, but when the claims are beginning to seem dubious, then you should expect them to be challenged.

To even imply that a dnc is performed even remotely close to a d&x is inherently dishonest if not based solely on ignorance. And most abortions, by the way, are done as dnc so your attempt at differentiating between the two is outright nonsense.

Omg. Lol. I must agree with you once again. Nonsense is putting it lightly, kind of sad though, but it also shows some humor too!

To jenifercarrillo
you can also have a d&c without being pregnant.

Always
sandy

Im just going by what my doctor has told me and she says that is something happened to the baby or my self that I would have to have a d&c. She described it to me as going into pre mature labor and passing the baby just like if I were full term. Sucking the baby's brain out refers to the very graphic pictures of a partial abortion that were shown on another post in this forum. It stated that the baby's brain would have to be sucked out so that the head would collapse because the mother was not fully dilated. This is what I was talking about, sorry sometimes I dont make my self clear.

sure sounds like an abortion. Should be outlawed, right? After all, even if you could get ill and infertile, hey as long as you didn't die, the dnc should not be permitted.

That is the pro-life position, isn't it?
a deception and misrepresentation that has been dealt with. But note that when you promote such misrepresentations, you will be called on it.

Again, do you think a forum about pregnancy is the best place for this debate, when there already is an abortion debate forum?
Http://ehealthforum.Com/health/abortion.Ht ml
there is no baby at the time of a d&x procedure. You wouldn't want to contribute to the misconception and misrepresentation of the d&x procedure as a typical 3rd-trimester intervention, would you now? Of course not, so I am sure you will be more careful and informed about what you post in the future, right?
that is a crude and somewhat deficient description of the d&x, yes. Exactly what was the relevance of bringing up this very rare and medical-need driven procedure? What was the context, other than emotional appeal to unrelated issues (otherwise known as "red herring" or dishonesty)?

I was replying to what bd was saying to me not you! When I am speaking about what u call is crude, I am talking about a partial abortion, not a d&c. I had never heard of this until a picture diagram showing the steps of it were shown to me. I dont even know why we are fighting about this on a pregnancy forum because it is obvious that everyone that is supposed to be here is pregnant and did not abort!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And I didnt mean to start the debate back up I was trying to voice my opinion to someone who asked how to stop fighting with the pro-choice people. To those of you who are still coming to the pregnancy forum who are pro-choice it is obvious that you feel bad about a choice you made. We are different because we took different paths but that does not mean that either of them are wronge. Just leave us alone becuase it is bad for us and the health of our unborm children to be upset.

What do you mean we have made a decision that we regret? Are you talking about pregnancy or life in general?