Hi. How far along are you?
I went through all of this last december, so I know exactly what you are dealing with. It is so weird. My dr told me that there was absolutley nothing I could have done to cause this to occur or to prevent this. He said basically that there was something wrong with the egg and it was natures way of taking care of it. (although that didnt help me dealing with what was a life forming). He wanted me to wait to see if my body would pass or miscarry it on my own and I told him there was no way I was emotionally stable to wait knowing that I had a baby inside of me that wasnt living. I opted for the d&c - it was the best decision I could have made! I was scared to death of the surgery, but I tell you - it was nothing more than a period - physically. And, emotionally it was hard, I am not going to tell you it wasnt. He did do another ultrasound on the morning of the d&c to once again "make sure" that the baby hadnt developed and for me to make sure I was making the right decision.
Please feel free to ask me any questions, I will be glad to help you :)
i am so sorry you are having to go through this. It's cruel.
You can email me personally if you wish.
Penny
