Joined: 24 Oct 2003 Posts: 4 Location: Aberdeen,Ms
I Need Your Opinion Please????? Posted: 10-24-03 15:10pm
I have read some of the posts and I see
that many people here are getting help
with there problems so maybe I can with
mine. I am 15 and pregnant and where I
live its like a thing that happens to only
the "not so popular kids." and though i'm
not exactly the most popular kid anymore I
once was, before this happened. I was in
the band, did colorguard, played
fast-pitch softball, slow-pitch softball,
soccer, and ran cross-country. Now I have
had to stop all that and its made me more
of a ''loser" than I was when kids at
school found out that I was pregnant. I
am still in school and I have no true
friends anymore. I can be sitting in
class and I can just hear my name being
mentioned in like every conversation that
goes on and none of its good stuff. Its
always either she's a promiscuous person
or a hoe and I hope her baby's retarded
and I don't know why she's still alive and
in this school. Its a constant thing
everyday. I
don't know why these kids feel this way
but I let it bother me so much that I
can't go a night without crying anymore.
I feel all alone in the world now and its
as if noone wants my baby son to come in
this world but me!! My boyfriend has been
there for me through it all but its as if
i'll never be able to be happy with myself
again!! my mother is there
some but many nights I can tell that she
just sits there and cries and it makes me
feel really bad. I know I made a mistake
and I know I now have alot of growing up
to do but its like going to school with
the harsh kids has brought my self esteem
level down to like a 0 on a 1-10 scale.
I can't stand myself and I mean teachers
and grown-ups are constantly telling me
that noone else in the world gets pregnant
at the age of 15 or younger. Im 6 months
and a week today and I am really looking
forward to having my son but will it
always be this way or do things get better
after you have the kid? Oh and how bad
does it hurt to have a kid naturally? I
really need some advice so any that you
can give me I would highly appreciate it!
Thanks
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illusionsmamma
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Sep 2003 Posts: 210 Location: las vegas
Posted: 10-24-03 15:33pm
Dont even worry about it hun damn I know
where your coming from dont let it get you
down like that dont let it bother you I
mean you can't please the whole world but
please your mother and your baby because
at the end its not gonna matter but that
life inside you should try to continue
with your life as a leader all those
people talking about you is definitely
non-sense and do that just to bug dont
worry about it girl it will be hard but
there is always a way out and those who
say they hope your baby is retarted they
should get slapped across the face just do
it for you and your baby and no one else
stay in school and try to be somebody for
that little one be strong!! And lift your
head up and dont look back look forward
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
Posted: 10-24-03 15:49pm
Last edited by insurancegirl on 09-28-04 11:51am; edited 1 time in total
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BabyPassion
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Sep 2003 Posts: 94 Location: Bronx, NY
Posted: 10-24-03 16:00pm
Hey sweetie,
i just want to start off by saying
congrats...I don't know if you read my
post "read this...Please" but I mentioned
that becoming a mom is very exciting and
terrifying...You are going though alot
right now...You do not need to mind those
people... I know what you mean when you
say you don't have anymore true
friends....You have your baby and your
mother and your boyfriend and that all
that matters....Don't let those kid get
you down....Finish school and love your
family.... When your baby come you are
going to be so happy you aren't going to
want those stupid friends...
Your true friend is your self.....I want
you to read this poem: my new best friend
today I met a great new friend, who new me
right away. It was funny how she
understood all I had to say.
She listened to my problems, she listened
to my dreams. We talked about love and
life, she'd been there,too, it seems.
I never once felt judged by her. She knew
just how I felt. She seemed to just
accept me and all the problems that I
dealt.
She didn't interrupt me or need to have
her say. She just listened very patiently
and didn't go away.
I want her to understand how much this
meant to me, but as I went to hug her
something startled me.
I put my arms in front of me and went to
pull her nearer and I realized that my new
best friend was nothing but a mirror.
Sweetie,
i really don't know what to say to help
you except that you are better than all of
those people who put you down. You are
better than all of those names that you
are called. Don't let them get you down.
Be a good daughter and a good mother and
you will be rewarded for it. I promise.
Also, welcome to the boards!
Love,
chanda
I
don't know why these kids feel this way
but I let it bother me so much that I
can't go a night without crying anymore.
I feel all alone in the world now and its
as if noone wants my baby son to come in
this world but me!! My boyfriend has been
there for me through it all but its as if
i'll never be able to be happy with myself
again!! 
my mother is there
some but many nights I can tell that she
just sits there and cries and it makes me
feel really bad. I know I made a mistake
and I know I now have alot of growing up
to do but its like going to school with
the harsh kids has brought my self esteem
level down to like a 0 on a 1-10 scale.
I can't stand myself and I mean teachers
and grown-ups are constantly telling me
that noone else in the world gets pregnant
at the age of 15 or younger. Im 6 months
and a week today and I am really looking
forward to having my son but will it
always be this way or do things get better
after you have the kid? Oh and how bad
does it hurt to have a kid naturally? I
really need some advice so any that you
can give me I would highly appreciate it!
Thanks 
