Joined: 28 Dec 2004 Posts: 3 Location: Rochester, Ny
What Should I Do? Posted: 12-28-04 00:16am
:( hello everyone. I really need some
advise. Okay I am 14 years old...And I
met this boy around 8 months ago. We met
in a chat room, I know its rediculous.
But anyways..We talked for a while and we
started liking eachother. I know its
weird...But I don't know. We were
together for a while and we wanted to see
eachother soo much but he lives in nj and
I live in ny. Now we barely ever talk. I
can't stop thinking about him. And I love
him so much. He really has no clue, he
has moved on I think but I just dont know
what to do. Can anyone tell me what to
do? I mean my friends always told me it
wouldnt work out..But everything was fine
between us, he made a song for his band
and everything, please someone help me. I
cry over him all the time. Please I need
someones advise or something. If only he
knew how much I really cared for him, I
wanted to see him this february but he
never even emailed me back about it, and I
don't know. I just love him so much.
Please give me some advise, thank you.
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zoomer815
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Oct 2004 Posts: 32 Location: South Carolina
Posted: 12-31-04 10:47am
Actually, I agree with most people. A
chat room is not a very good place to meet
someone that you would actually fall in
love with. I'm not saying that it
doesn't happen, or that it didn't happen
to you.
More than likely he found someone else and
has moved on. I know it hurts very
badly, but you should move on too. You
need to meet someone that you can see, and
that you are near. Like someone in your
school.
I know my opinion is just that, an
opinion, but I hope what I have said makes
sense, and helps even a little.
Zoomer
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bubbly
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Jan 2005 Posts: 6 Location: montreal
Posted: 01-05-05 17:00pm
Well I don't beleive it's bad to know a
person from that chat room...But you
really need to be carful and you should
know your limits...As far as it's too late
now,,,the only thing I can say that by
time you'll just forget about him as far
as he did so...And you'll see that it was
a stupid matter and one day you'll find
your prince and say bubbly said so...So
just try to avoid thinking of him....Try
to do anything once he pops in to your
mind...Go shopping ..Have a ride...Talk to
your friends...Good luck..I hope you'll
find a better person who will just
appreciate you where ever you are...
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sandyallen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 01-05-05 17:40pm
I agree with the others and that is the
chat room is not always the best place to
meet someone, you ccannot even look them
in the eye. You are only 14, you have
plenty of time for this, slow down, enjoy
your life, it is too soon to be serious!
Sincerely,
sandy
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zomby_grl
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Feb 2005 Posts: 20 Location: west virginia
Posted: 02-10-05 07:55am
I was 16 and I did the same thing. He was
26 it didnt work out either and it does
hurt but u will get over it.
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nadeentears
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jan 2005 Posts: 78 Location: Canada
What Should I Do Posted: 02-11-05 20:03pm
Hello mahrya,
please go to depression forum you will
find my reply to your problem.
Unfortunately they posted it in wrong
forum under this title (depression is
depressing and so is cutting.
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